I'll give the cliff-notes version - Personally for me I got into the hobby due to stress from work early in my career. My boss was a dick and it was my first real job out of school. I got tired of going out wasting money on alcohol and events meeting chicks that looked like shit
. I was drinking a lot of hard liquor and relying on energy drinks. (Ah to be young again. If I tried to do the same thing today I'd be in the ER.) So I said fuck it and called up a number hosted at Flushing Hotel. I got this bitch who was like 25 roughly same age as me and dry as fuck....At the time I did not carry lube with me but that was my first session which taught me to bring it cause that shit didn't feel good. Despite the session not being that great she looked better than 90% of the chicks I was meeting otherwise whether at work or at random social events. There began the journey....
I have gone through depression rejection etc. early in college but my brain chemistry has changed as a result of changing my diet and supplementing over time. I would say my biggest problem now is lack of patience and I am hyper focused on time efficiency. I have an SO, and she is a rare gem. If I didn't have her I'd probably would not seriously date, most Women are trash in USA so I would suggest to OP to focus on finding a FOB chick outside of the hobby. You should not be having that much trouble because Asians should be more receptive to Latino than Black. I am Black and do fairly well in AMP circuit so you should be having zero problems at least due to Race.....If a Man is handsome and has a nice body and look like you have money she won't care about your race at all....Unless she's dumb as bricks - Which many American Women are...