What made you guys start hobbying? This is my story.

[Bxxx85]

She has been here for 10+ years before I met her. I highly recommend Asian above all else for long term partners. You still have to vet them well and do due diligence on her background and your compatibility, but they are more logical and pragmatic than Latinas or American BW in my experience

Hmmm. Have you met her family and if so did they accept her dating an outsider? What's her ethnicity? Isn't a Filipina very different in national temperament from a Chinese?

I've seen some very cute, pretty Asians, but I usually go for Latinas. Latinas who were born and raised in Latin America tend to be more feminine, family oriented and respectful of masculinity. The downside is they tend to have very fiery tempers.

 

[Gianfranco8725]

I have a question for all of the guys here. I never been to a provider for sex. I did get a massage but never sex. Are any of you scared of diseases? Has any of you ever got a disease from a provider?

Life is a risk!
use you rubbers, get prep. And get tested annually.

 

[Bxxx85]

Life is a risk!
use you rubbers, get prep. And get tested annually.

Do you use prep to prevent HIV infection? I was thinking about using it myself. Let's just say I don't always play it safe with these girls.

 

[loveshowofforfem]

It's not necessarily true that she must have an STD. Most of these women use condoms virtually all the time. Your risk of catching something serious with a condom is super small. And remember some STDs are curable so catching it once doesnt mean you have it forever.

Well I still do not want to take a chance. All I am interested in is a body rub with a hj.

 

[We Need More MPS]

You can't go wrong with that my friend

 

[Gianfranco8725]

Do you use prep to prevent HIV infection? I was thinking about using it myself. Let's just say I don't always play it safe with these girls.

Yes, but only as a second line of defense. Condoms always for banging. But yea, it gives me a piece of mind. The only risky thing I do with this ladies is sliding my salami into their throats.

So far knocking on wood. all negative and healthy.

 

[Rombulous]

Well I still do not want to take a chance. All I am interested in is a body rub with a hj.

You can get the following from any provider without having sex:

Pneumonia
Tuberculosis
Molluscum
Staph/MRSA
HPV
Jock Itch
Scabies
Lice
Bed Bugs
HSV

And more...

The only way to stay infection free is to live in a quarantine with minimal human contact.

My point being, there are ways to minimize chance of infection, whether having sex or not.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

You can get the following from any provider without having sex:

Pneumonia
Tuberculosis
Molluscum
Staph/MRSA
HPV
Jock Itch
Scabies
Lice
Bed Bugs
HSV

And more...

The only way to stay infection free is to live in a quarantine with minimal human contact.

My point being, there are ways to minimize chance of infection, whether having sex or not.

 

[OlderGuy77]

Do any of you guys ever have a session that is either so bad or otherwise disappointing that you rethink mongering? I've had a number of sessions that fit this description. I had one of those sessions today.

I'm starting to wonder if my intial "addiction" to pornography is linked to what has become a compulsion to pay for sex even when I can't afford it. I've even thought about going to a sex addicts anonymous meeting but I'm not sure how I feel about those 12 step programs. I hear they're kind of religious, and I do not believe in gods.

There are times when I really get what I paid for and it feels like its money well spent, but when I'm disappointed it just reminds me that I'm lonely and want an emotional connection with a woman.

It’s definitely overrated. These ladies want you out the for ASAP. Once in a while there’s a momentary change in attitude but rarely. Fake orgasms abound. It’s like a petting zoo

 

[AutomaticSlim]

It’s definitely overrated. These ladies want you out the for ASAP. Once in a while there’s a momentary change in attitude but rarely. Fake orgasms abound. It’s like a petting zoo

You make some good points OG77.
But still, the mongering "petting zoo" beats whacking off to porn. And it sure as hell beats dating a middle aged bag in her 40s with wrinkles, cellulite and stretch marks.

 

[Bxxx85]

It’s definitely overrated. These ladies want you out the for ASAP. Once in a while there’s a momentary change in attitude but rarely. Fake orgasms abound. It’s like a petting zoo

I really don't have it bad when it comes to this hobby if I'm being honest. Not too long ago I had an amazing session where the girl didn't want me to leave and didn't charge me extra. She literally pulled me back down into her after she orgasmed and I came. She even spooned with me for an hour afterwards. I have two regulars who come to my place and they charge me for two or three hours what they charge most clients for an hour. We take our sweet time...no rushing. Ok now I'm just bragging lol. Sorry.

 

[loveshowofforfem]

You can get the following from any provider without having sex:

Pneumonia
Tuberculosis
Molluscum
Staph/MRSA
HPV
Jock Itch
Scabies
Lice
Bed Bugs
HSV

And more...

The only way to stay infection free is to live in a quarantine with minimal human contact.

My point being, there are ways to minimize chance of infection, whether having sex or not.

Why is no one else worried about any of this? I doubt anyone would admit this but I am curious if anyone ever got anything from a provider. What really pisses me off is that if they made it legal all this would be so much safer. I am an adult and interested in another adult to play with, why should the government say that I cant pay for her time. Sorry for the rant but I am horny, pissed off and a pussy who dont want to get any diseases.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Why is no one else worried about any of this? I doubt anyone would admit this but I am curious if anyone ever got anything from a provider. What really pisses me off is that if they made it legal all this would be so much safer. I am an adult and interested in another adult to play with, why should the government say that I cant pay for her time. Sorry for the rant but I am horny, pissed off and a pussy who dont want to get any diseases.

 

[Bxxx85]

Why is no one else worried about any of this? I doubt anyone would admit this but I am curious if anyone ever got anything from a provider. What really pisses me off is that if they made it legal all this would be so much safer. I am an adult and interested in another adult to play with, why should the government say that I cant pay for her time. Sorry for the rant but I am horny, pissed off and a pussy who dont want to get any diseases.

Who said no one is worried about this? Dude, life is all about measuring risk and reward. The risk of catching those diseases he listed without having sex is ridiculously low. He was just making the point that risks are everywhere.

I have been doing this regularly now for 2 years and I have not always played it safe. I have been very risky in fact and I haven't caught anything that didn't pass on its own with the need for medication.

 

[We Need More MPS]

I'm with you Slim And it sure as hell beats dating a middle aged bag in her 40s with wrinkles, cellulite and stretch marks.

 

[We Need More MPS]

Hey Slim you left out the gray hair

 

[saral]

Like one of the posters on this thread, I have been limiting myself to getting HJs out of concern about STDs. Just wondering if there is any significant danger in getting CBJs. Apologies if the answer to this question is somewhere in this thread - I looked and didn't see it. FYI I am a straight male, and the CBJ would come from a professional provider.
Thanks in advance.

 

[jtonic5150]

two words.... yellow fever

 

[OlderGuy77]

You make some good points OG77.
But still, the mongering "petting zoo" beats whacking off to porn. And it sure as hell beats dating a middle aged bag in her 40s with wrinkles, cellulite and stretch marks.

I can’t argue with you. Wait until you get over 60 and dating old white bats who just want a free dinner. My observation is that many guys seem to be blind to the prevailing mercenary attitude by these actresses as they go on and on about how fabulous their ATF is. I have found a few that I can get off but it’s hit or miss. I experienced the legendary Amanda at the Asian Spa in Millburn/Springfield. I thought she was a little rough around the edges but I dove on it anyway. In a moment I won’t easily forget she turned to me as we were dressing and she said: “...you know? You took me to Heaven. Thanks”. Classic

 

[We Need More MPS]

I can’t argue with you. Wait until you get over 60 and dating old white bats who just want a free dinner.
Does the middle leg still work when you get over 60 ???
Take them old white bats for an early bird special they don't even deserve that why waste your money on an old hag on the rag when you can buy yourself some Young Wang Dang Sweet Pootang !!!!