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What made you guys start hobbying? This is my story.
- Thread starter lokithewolf
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Agree. This is a great thread. Just hope we hear from the OP soon.
And I have to say, I never thought that I, a LIFELONG monger, was getting more sex than married guys.
I see girls 3 to 4 times a week, and have been doing so for a very long time.
Even when I was in my very early 20s, I was seeing girls either once or twice a week (that I could afford).
But Cripes, if I had a live in girlfriend or a wife? I would expect sex regularly, mostly every day.
And then to marry her and not get anything? Awful!
What do you think it is?
Having a kid messes with their hormones?
But some of these women don't even have kids, like you stated about your first wife.
I suppose I am old fashioned, but I see it as part of their duty. I guess they see differently.
Glad I was never in a position to even consider marriage as a possibility. Being unattractive to females has its advantages after all. Who knew?!
And I have to say, I never thought that I, a LIFELONG monger, was getting more sex than married guys.
I see girls 3 to 4 times a week, and have been doing so for a very long time.
Even when I was in my very early 20s, I was seeing girls either once or twice a week (that I could afford).
But Cripes, if I had a live in girlfriend or a wife? I would expect sex regularly, mostly every day.
And then to marry her and not get anything? Awful!
What do you think it is?
Having a kid messes with their hormones?
But some of these women don't even have kids, like you stated about your first wife.
I suppose I am old fashioned, but I see it as part of their duty. I guess they see differently.
Glad I was never in a position to even consider marriage as a possibility. Being unattractive to females has its advantages after all. Who knew?!
Agree. This is a great thread. Just hope we hear from the OP soon.
And I have to say, I never thought that I, a LIFELONG monger, was getting more sex than married guys.
I see girls 3 to 4 times a week, and have been doing so for a very long time.
Even when I was in my very early 20s, I was seeing girls either once or twice a week (that I could afford).
But Cripes, if I had a live in girlfriend or a wife? I would expect sex regularly, mostly every day.
And then to marry her and not get anything? Awful!
What do you think it is?
Having a kid messes with their hormones?
But some of these women don't even have kids, like you stated about your first wife.
I suppose I am old fashioned, but I see it as part of their duty. I guess they see differently.
Glad I was never in a position to even consider marriage as a possibility. Being unattractive to females has its advantages afterall. Who knew?!
And I have to say, I never thought that I, a LIFELONG monger, was getting more sex than married guys.
I see girls 3 to 4 times a week, and have been doing so for a very long time.
Even when I was in my very early 20s, I was seeing girls either once or twice a week (that I could afford).
But Cripes, if I had a live in girlfriend or a wife? I would expect sex regularly, mostly every day.
And then to marry her and not get anything? Awful!
What do you think it is?
Having a kid messes with their hormones?
But some of these women don't even have kids, like you stated about your first wife.
I suppose I am old fashioned, but I see it as part of their duty. I guess they see differently.
Glad I was never in a position to even consider marriage as a possibility. Being unattractive to females has its advantages afterall. Who knew?!
Yeah that must be why you see so many families with 8 and 10 kids. Females went to protect the offsprig they have, not create a tribe. Men and women are very different in that respect go look at some evolutionary biology before you interrupt one of my angry rants, LOL. We are bashing shitty wives now so try and follow the plot.
I’ll start off with “Believe Women”
After I graduated from college and settled in the burbs. My then wife started an affair with a neighbor and in the process the paternity lie popped out. Believe it or not we reconciled and I Made a good faith effort to fix things. Don’t ask me why. Five years later I starting running and two years after that I left. About five years later in the my second marriage I discovered massage parlors sparingly but it was 15 years later before I tried FS. Five years later I left after years of deliberate sexual starvation At this point I have reservations about the dishonesty with current GF but she’s strayed so screw it.
I know there’s a pattern her but part of it is I’m attracted to difficult women.
I’m in the three times a month mode and I’d like to gradually scale it back for peace of mind, personal pride/esteem and budget help
After I graduated from college and settled in the burbs. My then wife started an affair with a neighbor and in the process the paternity lie popped out. Believe it or not we reconciled and I Made a good faith effort to fix things. Don’t ask me why. Five years later I starting running and two years after that I left. About five years later in the my second marriage I discovered massage parlors sparingly but it was 15 years later before I tried FS. Five years later I left after years of deliberate sexual starvation At this point I have reservations about the dishonesty with current GF but she’s strayed so screw it.
I know there’s a pattern her but part of it is I’m attracted to difficult women.
I’m in the three times a month mode and I’d like to gradually scale it back for peace of mind, personal pride/esteem and budget help
I’ve survived two divorces. My conclusion is if you’re divorced with children you are stupid to ever do it again. Involving the state in your romantic relationships is foolish. You sign a contract when you sign the marriage license. It’s a one-side contract. She can walk out and be guaranteed a minimum of 50% plus some alimony plus all she can steal. If you get the urge go sleep it off
BTW after admitting it she then denied it and refused to discuss it. I told the child when she was 24. I thought she had a right to know. I got called a liar and things stalemated. Mom died. Then last year I suggested Ancestry.com and we finally have closure. Now we’re rebuilding. Sad part is she can’t locate her real father. Apparently he didn’t subscribe to Ancestry. She however knows a man that stood by her despite the circumstances. I paid support for nine years and took her on my weekends.
I saw my first escort at age 30 (I'm 34 now). I was going through a ridiculously long dry spell that I didn't really take very seriously until I realized that I had a porn addiction. I saw a girl from backpage. The experience actually wasnt that good. I couldn't even cum for some reason. The second experience was fucking great.
I stopped doing it for a while after falling for a woman I met at work. She had me jumping through all sorts of loops to prove I was interested in her beyond sex. Later it became clear that she had serious mental problems. It didn't work out and I was heartbroken. Out of frustration, I started seeing escorts again...this time regularly. Some of my early sessions were amazing while others left me feeling empty and depressed.
One day I decided to visit an agency. I think it was this experience that turned me out. It was fucking amazing. This was the first girl I started seeing regularly. She was 21, foreign and beautiful. Overtime we shared things with each other and she started developing feelings for me. We started seeing each other outside of the agency and shit got real. I told her I could never commit to monogamy with a woman who had sex with men for a living. Eventually we stopped seeing each other.
A part of me really wants a close, intimate relationship with a woman but, at this point, It's hard for me to imagine myself no longer partaking. I simply enjoy it too much. My desire for a monogamous relationship is virtually zero, but a part of me still wants to love and be loved. And I don't want to break a woman's heart.
I'm also spending too much of my budget on this hobby. Its starting to effect my finances. I don't want to stop seeing escorts, but I really need to get a grip.
I stopped doing it for a while after falling for a woman I met at work. She had me jumping through all sorts of loops to prove I was interested in her beyond sex. Later it became clear that she had serious mental problems. It didn't work out and I was heartbroken. Out of frustration, I started seeing escorts again...this time regularly. Some of my early sessions were amazing while others left me feeling empty and depressed.
One day I decided to visit an agency. I think it was this experience that turned me out. It was fucking amazing. This was the first girl I started seeing regularly. She was 21, foreign and beautiful. Overtime we shared things with each other and she started developing feelings for me. We started seeing each other outside of the agency and shit got real. I told her I could never commit to monogamy with a woman who had sex with men for a living. Eventually we stopped seeing each other.
A part of me really wants a close, intimate relationship with a woman but, at this point, It's hard for me to imagine myself no longer partaking. I simply enjoy it too much. My desire for a monogamous relationship is virtually zero, but a part of me still wants to love and be loved. And I don't want to break a woman's heart.
I'm also spending too much of my budget on this hobby. Its starting to effect my finances. I don't want to stop seeing escorts, but I really need to get a grip.
The fact that you have awareness of yourself is a good thing. I would try maybe going down two twice a month and spend your time during off weeks doing something else you enjoy as a hobby. See how you feel... i would imagine you will see that you dont need it and have other things to take up your time. Then reduce visits more until you dont go at all for 1 month.
This is true. You guys won't like what I'm about say but the reason why your wife isn't having sex is probably because she isn't attracted to you anymore. I'm sure she's biologically fine and given the opportunity for a more attractive guy in her eyes she would.
Now as your partner she should make sacrifices but we know how selfish woman are.
Now as your partner she should make sacrifices but we know how selfish woman are.
Honestly, its hard for me to go a week without a session or two at this point. The only way I can even imagine going a whole month is with frequent jacking off to porn (which tends to make me want to see a girl) or having a girlfriend. If I had a girlfriend, I have no doubt that I would partake less frequently.
I get that. It's understandable. Sometimes the physical part fades and its just not there anymore on both ends. I can only speak for myself here, but I wouldn't want to be in a relationship outside my marriage because its just too much work carrying on a home life and another life outside with another woman so providers offer a service i need with zero commitment and no headaches. I drop a load, leave some cash and im on my way. In the grand scheme of things, paying a provider costs much less than if i were to get a divorce and have to start over again.
I remember a study which said that women tend to lose attraction in relationships faster than men. Funny because the message portrayed in the media is usually that men lose attraction first. I think men are more inclined to have extramarital affairs while remaining married to his wife whereas women are more likely to leave you for another man or have brief flings before discarding their guy on the side.
I'll go you one better.
She doesn't want sex because the husband isn't attracted to HER anymore. He still wants sex, but he doesn't look at her the same way. She's not young and hot anymore. He doesn't look at her like he wants to devour her anymore. Females need to feel attractive. If she doesn't she probably will not want sex.
I'm going to see a semi regular later in week. She's in her early 20s but could EASILY pass for a teenager. I devour this girl. I can't imagine doing that to a wrinkled 40 yo. Even with blindfold on.
She doesn't want sex because the husband isn't attracted to HER anymore. He still wants sex, but he doesn't look at her the same way. She's not young and hot anymore. He doesn't look at her like he wants to devour her anymore. Females need to feel attractive. If she doesn't she probably will not want sex.
I'm going to see a semi regular later in week. She's in her early 20s but could EASILY pass for a teenager. I devour this girl. I can't imagine doing that to a wrinkled 40 yo. Even with blindfold on.