Unofficial Survey... The Mongering Hobby and Marriage...

[Srhsrh]

I know what you mean about the moral programming. There is an amp close to home that I drove by every day, kicking myself for not going in. The long hours that I worked helped keep me away too. I did that for a decade, at least. Then one day something just died inside of me and I had to make the move. The relief (and the euphoria) was incredible. BTW, I still have the bottle of whiskey that I was working on at the time. The need to drink myself into a stupor vanished.

Good for you, for not drinking. That stuff is really bad for you.

 

[KittyHawk]

Good for you, for not drinking. That stuff is really bad for you.

I put a river of bourbon and corn whiskey under the bridge before I started hobbying. You're right, it is not good. I still don't know how I avoided alcoholism.

 

[Srhsrh]

I put a river of bourbon and corn whiskey under the bridge before I started hobbying. You're right, it is not good. I still don't know how I avoided alcoholism.

Off topic, but I think smoking pot or cigars are safer vices and better for society than alcohol. Or seeing spa girls.

 

[rottie]

Off topic, but I think smoking pot or cigars are safer vices and better for society than alcohol. Or seeing spa girls.

I smoke and go to AMPs quite often actually. Much better than alcohol across the board. And getting a massage while you're high is like a premium experience. So long as you aren't the paranoid type, at least.

 

[Bricktop]

Good for you, for not drinking. That stuff is really bad for you.

Poison

 

[Srhsrh]

I smoke and go to AMPs quite often actually. Much better than alcohol across the board. And getting a massage while you're high is like a premium experience. So long as you aren't the paranoid type, at least.

I dont smoke pot, it was generally too strong for me, or maybe I should say too unpredictable. But I do frequently light a Cigar post spa visit for the ride home and have often thought about asking her to do a Clinton dip to moisten the outer wrapper.

 

[chunfun]

It's been almost 7 years since I had sex with my wife and, frankly, it is not a big deal. After 25 years of marriage, the quality of our sex had declined dramatically. Post menopause, when she said she no longer wanted sex, I just shrugged. By that time, I'd been turning down FS offers from AMP girls for years, so I knew exactly where to go and was eager to finally partake.

I started out with AMP girls in-spa CFS. Then branched out to AMP girls in-spa BBFSCIP. Then AMP girls out of the spa. Then Asian civvies (mostly nail spa girls). Then SA girls. It's bee quite a ride. These days, it's mostly SA girls and a select group of Asian civvies. I still explore AMPs (especially when I get good tips from some trusted fellow mongers), but the quality in my area has gone downhill from what it was even 1-2 years ago. That is largely thanks to busts; our tax $$ at work. One issue is that these girls move around and some relationships sour; so my stable of girls must be periodically replenished,

In some ways, I feel like my wife let me out of prison. We are still married and, other than the no-sex part, she is still a great wife and companion. And, of course, the mother of my children. No plans to get divorced as long as I can play.

Our paths are almost identical, give or take a few years (10+ years of menopausal hiatus from wifely duties). I did not discover AMPs until I dated many civvies (single and married-but-looking). Civilian entanglements involve "love" ultimately, either mutual or one-sided. AMPs can become emotional, but because providers are always on the move, they tend to be less painful for all involved. I now maintain a few loose civilian contacts, and AMP providers in and out of spa. The progression for me is also very similar, regardless of their status. The best arrangements usually culminate in air travel (the further away from the wife, the better). As we run in similar circles, I've pulled out of the AMP scene while I groom providers who have left the area.

 

[chunfun]

I smoke and go to AMPs quite often actually. Much better than alcohol across the board. And getting a massage while you're high is like a premium experience. So long as you aren't the paranoid type, at least.

In my younger, much younger days, I used to be a massive stoner. Sex was always fantastic while baked! Alas, it was over half a lifetime ago, long before I discovered AMPs. Even as a broke college student, I would have spent a pretty penny to get a FS massage while high. Now, it's impossible for so many reasons.

 

[Drjon7]

It's been almost 7 years since I had sex with my wife and, frankly, it is not a big deal. After 25 years of marriage, the quality of our sex had declined dramatically. Post menopause, when she said she no longer wanted sex, I just shrugged. By that time, I'd been turning down FS offers from AMP girls for years, so I knew exactly where to go and was eager to finally partake.

I started out with AMP girls in-spa CFS. Then branched out to AMP girls in-spa BBFSCIP. Then AMP girls out of the spa. Then Asian civvies (mostly nail spa girls). Then SA girls. It's bee quite a ride. These days, it's mostly SA girls and a select group of Asian civvies. I still explore AMPs (especially when I get good tips from some trusted fellow mongers), but the quality in my area has gone downhill from what it was even 1-2 years ago. That is largely thanks to busts; our tax $$ at work. One issue is that these girls move around and some relationships sour; so my stable of girls must be periodically replenished,

In some ways, I feel like my wife let me out of prison. We are still married and, other than the no-sex part, she is still a great wife and companion. And, of course, the mother of my children. No plans to get divorced as long as I can play.

This actually might be the ideal situation. In reality you have the best of both worlds. It's nice to have a companion you like and can share life with on a daily basis. Of course the sex gets old so you get that somewhere else. Since you don't have sex with your wife you don't have to worry about giving her any diseases so you're really free to play. You're probably a better husband and a nicer person because you are happier. Yea "cheating sucks" but nothing is perfect.
This may be the template
on how to be truly happy in a marriage. Funny...but true

 

[rottie]

In my younger, much younger days, I used to be a massive stoner. Sex was always fantastic while baked! Alas, it was over half a lifetime ago, long before I discovered AMPs. Even as a broke college student, I would have spent a pretty penny to get a FS massage while high. Now, it's impossible for so many reasons.

The only part I get self conscious about is my breath after I smoke weed and go to AMPs. So I either use a vape pen or just listerine the shit out of my mouth before. Most of the time they provide listerine too so never had an issue at AMPs, but I know my wife hates the weed smoke breath!

 

[mikemendez]

Puff puff pass, lol

 

[tsharp38]

In my younger, much younger days, I used to be a massive stoner. Sex was always fantastic while baked! Alas, it was over half a lifetime ago, long before I discovered AMPs. Even as a broke college student, I would have spent a pretty penny to get a FS massage while high. Now, it's impossible for so many reasons.

Funny you say that. I don't smoke much, but traveled out west to a place where it was legal. Brought some eds back with me and took a couple before going for a massage. The thought of a bust during my visit creeped into my head but i was able to push it back. Agree that it can be more fun as long as you don't worry.

 

[Mw20]

In regards to the wife do any of u guys think ur wife might know but r ok with it?

 

[mitchxy1]

In regards to the wife do any of u guys think ur wife might know but r ok with it?

I'm wondering if your wives know because you told them, and justified it with the fact that you're not getting anything at home. Even if just standard service?
Any brave souls out there? Been contemplating this for a while.

 

[rottie]

I'm wondering if your wives know because you told them, and justified it with the fact that you're not getting anything at home. Even if just standard service?
Any brave souls out there? Been contemplating this for a while.

No. It's a trap.

 

[Mandalorian]

If most wives found out they would take you for everything you’ve got in divorce court and they would win.

 

[mitchxy1]

If most wives found out they would take you for everything you’ve got in divorce court and they would win.

Oooh. I thought it might just be better to be honest. I believe a lot in honesty. The wife already knows that I'm entirely dissatisfied with our marriage, so it wouldn't be a surprise. Maybe not.

 

[Mandalorian]

Oooh. I thought it might just be better to be honest. I believe a lot in honesty. The wife already knows that I'm entirely dissatisfied with our marriage, so it wouldn't be a surprise. Maybe not.

I think if you’re honest and get permission first that’s one thing but if you’re caught doing it they have a solid divorce case against you.

 

[mitchxy1]

I think if you’re honest and get permission first that’s one thing but if you’re caught doing it they have a solid divorce case against you.

Didn't know divorce is like that. I thought it was all just based on financial formulas that determined how assets were split. Hmmmm.

 

[casualplayer]

If most wives found out they would take you for everything you’ve got in divorce court and they would win.

Depends on the state you live in and what the circumstances are. My wife goes to hand and stone. Sometimes I don't know she went. She had me go with her once and it was the worst massage I've ever had. I can easily tell her I'm trying it again and go to an AMP and easily get away with it. The reason I don't is she kind of knows I have an Asian thing.