Unofficial Survey... The Mongering Hobby and Marriage...

[MongersGonnaMong]

Would it kill a wife to give her husband a fooking hand job from time to time, I realize she may be menopausal but what’s wrong with her hand? Just saying.

Once they’re married and acquired what society brainwashed them to believe in they feel they don’t have to put in any more effort. “I gave him 2 sons so I deserve everything”
Really fucked up, the husbands are supposed Continue buying shit like expensive purses and pay for vacations so their wives can compare notes with others on social media and what does he get? The once a year BJ. Thats why the MGTOW movement is real and growing every decade. I fucking love Chuck Palahniuk’s “Fight Club” both film and novel because it really hits on the head of what role men have in our society these days. What is masculinity? And why even though women want to demonize “toxic masculinity” they’re still drawn to our most masculine aspects? Ever seen an ugly chick at a MMa fight? Nope, it’s mainly ladies with extreme cleavage getting hot n bothers by all the testosterone flowing about

 

[Bricktop]

Once they’re married and acquired what society brainwashed them to believe in they feel they don’t have to put in any more effort. “I gave him 2 sons so I deserve everything”
Really fucked up, the husbands are supposed Continue buying shit like expensive purses and pay for vacations so their wives can compare notes with others on social media and what does he get? The once a year BJ. Thats why the MGTOW movement is real and growing every decade. I fucking love Chuck Palahniuk’s “Fight Club” both film and novel because it really hits on the head of what role men have in our society these days. What is masculinity? And why even though women want to demonize “toxic masculinity” they’re still drawn to our most masculine aspects? Ever seen an ugly chick at a MMa fight? Nope, it’s mainly ladies with extreme cleavage getting hot n bothers by all the testosterone flowing about

Those hot girls at MMA are call girls.

 

[KittyHawk]

? And why even though women want to demonize “toxic masculinity” they’re still drawn to our most masculine aspects

That is a system app. You can tweak it but you can't delete it. Look at how we are drawn to them no matter how much of a pain in the ass they become.

 

[chunfun]

Would it kill a wife to give her husband a fooking hand job from time to time, I realize she may be menopausal but what’s wrong with her hand? Just saying.

I don't even use MY hands...why would I need hers? If it ain't warm and wet, it ain't worth a fuck!

 

[KittyHawk]

I don't even use MY hands...why would I need hers? If it ain't warm and wet, it ain't worth a fuck!

I have heard of guys using warmed up boneless steaks. I have a feeling that is not what you are referring to.

 

[chunfun]

I have heard of guys using warmed up boneless steaks. I have a feeling that is not what you are referring to.

No, it'd be the warm, wet VJ variety. STEAK?!?!

 

[Micawber]

My wife is off the boat Japanese (actually I brought her here after working in Japan a couple of years). Over there, it's normal for husbands to go seek "hostess girls." As long as you don't brag about it or spend too much money, it's out of sight and out of mind.

 

[Srhsrh]

It's fading out as a practice now in China and Korea, but it was very normal when I started an engagement working for a company, to have 2 welcome dinners. the first night with the wives in attendance, and the second with girlfriends in a hostess bar. I used to have a lot of difficulty keeping the women straight when i'd meet them later in the engagement on a more ad hoc basis. It seemed pretty much expected that if you were an executive in a chinese company, that you had to have a mistress.

 

[MongersGonnaMong]

 

[rottie]

I’ve been going to AMPs since I was in my late 20s in my first marriage. She let me go one year for my birthday and I was hooked. Later to find out she was cheating on me and let me go to help with her guilt. Once we got divorced I dated civvies for a few years and honed those skills again after being married for most of my 20s.

Now I go to AMPs to supplement sex with my second wife. We have young children and she’s still breastfeeding my youngest, who’s not even a year yet. Going to AMPs is a must if I want sex regularly. Our sex wasn’t what it was because we just don’t have any free time together, not even at night since the baby is with us. I use it as a tool. I’m not addicted and know I can stop any time I want to. But right now, my wife is just always tired and not in the mood. Having said that, just last month I had sex with her, she went to work and then I went to an AMP anyway because I was still horny. Ended up getting 4 hands that day too.
The only thing I want to make sure of is that I still have sex with my wife and show her I want that. Having been cheated on in the past I know the warning signs. Good news is she is Indian and they rarely stray from their husbands unlike white and Hispanic chicks.

 

[Bricktop]

I’ve been going to AMPs since I was in my late 20s in my first marriage. She let me go one year for my birthday and I was hooked. Later to find out she was cheating on me and let me go to help with her guilt. Once we got divorced I dated civvies for a few years and honed those skills again after being married for most of my 20s.

Now I go to AMPs to supplement sex with my second wife. We have young children and she’s still breastfeeding my youngest, who’s not even a year yet. Going to AMPs is a must if I want sex regularly. Our sex wasn’t what it was because we just don’t have any free time together, not even at night since the baby is with us. I use it as a tool. I’m not addicted and know I can stop any time I want to. But right now, my wife is just always tired and not in the mood. Having said that, just last month I had sex with her, she went to work and then I went to an AMP anyway because I was still horny. Ended up getting 4 hands that day too.
The only thing I want to make sure of is that I still have sex with my wife and show her I want that. Having been cheated on in the past I know the warning signs. Good news is she is Indian and they rarely stray from their husbands unlike white and Hispanic chicks.

Yeah your addicted

 

[rottie]

Yeah your addicted

Haha I’ve stopped for years at a time. Months at a time, etc. I don’t get the shakes if I don’t go! But it sure does feel good.

 

[KittyHawk]

Haha I’ve stopped for years at a time. Months at a time, etc. I don’t get the shakes if I don’t go! But it sure does feel good.

Damn your good. Twice a month is all I can afford and every week I'm not at an amp feels like a month.

 

[Thumper]

Once they’re married and acquired what society brainwashed them to believe in they feel they don’t have to put in any more effort. “I gave him 2 sons so I deserve everything”
Really fucked up, the husbands are supposed Continue buying shit like expensive purses and pay for vacations so their wives can compare notes with others on social media and what does he get? The once a year BJ. Thats why the MGTOW movement is real and growing every decade. I fucking love Chuck Palahniuk’s “Fight Club” both film and novel because it really hits on the head of what role men have in our society these days. What is masculinity? And why even though women want to demonize “toxic masculinity” they’re still drawn to our most masculine aspects? Ever seen an ugly chick at a MMa fight? Nope, it’s mainly ladies with extreme cleavage getting hot n bothers by all the testosterone flowing about

Get out of my head man!

 

[Chicagoboy]

Wife hasn't done me in over a dozen years. I got tired of masturbation. Figured I'd visit an AMP a few times to see what it was all about. That was six years ago and still going strong. I can't get enough.

 

[VJLUTZ]

It's been almost 7 years since I had sex with my wife and, frankly, it is not a big deal. After 25 years of marriage, the quality of our sex had declined dramatically. Post menopause, when she said she no longer wanted sex, I just shrugged. By that time, I'd been turning down FS offers from AMP girls for years, so I knew exactly where to go and was eager to finally partake.

I started out with AMP girls in-spa CFS. Then branched out to AMP girls in-spa BBFSCIP. Then AMP girls out of the spa. Then Asian civvies (mostly nail spa girls). Then SA girls. It's bee quite a ride. These days, it's mostly SA girls and a select group of Asian civvies. I still explore AMPs (especially when I get good tips from some trusted fellow mongers), but the quality in my area has gone downhill from what it was even 1-2 years ago. That is largely thanks to busts; our tax $$ at work. One issue is that these girls move around and some relationships sour; so my stable of girls must be periodically replenished,

In some ways, I feel like my wife let me out of prison. We are still married and, other than the no-sex part, she is still a great wife and companion. And, of course, the mother of my children. No plans to get divorced as long as I can play.

 

[KittyHawk]

It's been almost 7 years since I had sex with my wife and, frankly, it is not a big deal. After 25 years of marriage, the quality of our sex had declined dramatically. Post menopause, when she said she no longer wanted sex, I just shrugged. By that time, I'd been turning down FS offers from AMP girls for years, so I knew exactly where to go and was eager to finally partake.

I started out with AMP girls in-spa CFS. Then branched out to AMP girls in-spa BBFSCIP. Then AMP girls out of the spa. Then Asian civvies (mostly nail spa girls). Then SA girls. It's bee quite a ride. These days, it's mostly SA girls and a select group of Asian civvies. I still explore AMPs (especially when I get good tips from some trusted fellow mongers), but the quality in my area has gone downhill from what it was even 1-2 years ago. That is largely thanks to busts; our tax $$ at work. One issue is that these girls move around and some relationships sour; so my stable of girls must be periodically replenished,

In some ways, I feel like my wife let me out of prison. We are still married and, other than the no-sex part, she is still a great wife and companion. And, of course, the mother of my children. No plans to get divorced as long as I can play.

We traveled parallel paths with a couple differences. My wife opted out long before yours and I don't need the harem that you have. One with some minor adventures on the side has been enough. When the "one" is gone I"ll look for another "one". It still beats the hell out of drinking myself to sleep every night.

 

[VJLUTZ]

We traveled parallel paths with a couple differences. My wife opted out long before yours and I don't need the harem that you have. One with some minor adventures on the side has been enough. When the "one" is gone I"ll look for another "one". It still beats the hell out of drinking myself to sleep every night.

Yeah, Mongering was definitely a learning experience and progressed in fits and starts. The SH website helped out a lot, but it took a long time for me to get where I am today (and I've been at this for almost 19 years). My two biggest regrets were:
1. Waiting until my wife was done with sex to start doing FS at AMPs. I could have started years earlier and, in retrospect, should have. I passed up some great opportunities during the "Golden Age" of AMPs out there that I'll never get again. This was largely due to my own morals "programming". As long as my wife was giving honey (of any kind), I did not want to risk FS with any other woman. I look back now and want to throttle my younger self.
2. Until about 4 years ago, I tried to be as anonymous as possible in my AMP visits, which meant I never gave out any contact info to girls.. It was mostly due to fear (of being busted, blackmailed or my wife finding out). Again, thanks to SH, I changed my pattern in a way that did not compromise my identity (I always give a faux name and use WeChat). But I could have started building my stable of girls much, much earlier. Plus, there are some girls that I still lay awake at night & kick myself because I did not even try to get their contact info. Sometimes I even theorize about ways I could, even now, discover their identity, but its a futile exercise; the trails are just too cold.

 

[KittyHawk]

I know what you mean about the moral programming. There is an amp close to home that I drove by every day, kicking myself for not going in. The long hours that I worked helped keep me away too. I did that for a decade, at least. Then one day something just died inside of me and I had to make the move. The relief (and the euphoria) was incredible. BTW, I still have the bottle of whiskey that I was working on at the time. The need to drink myself into a stupor vanished.

 

[Srhsrh]

I pretty much ask for a kakao or wechat at first visit if I think there’s a chance I’ll see her again. Then keep tabs on them if they leave my area, for where they’ve gone. The problem I have is I remember the girl from the icon she uses. I’ll get situations where I drop into same town as a girl I saw three years ago, but she’s changed her photo icon, and I have no idea who I’m talking to when I set up a liaison sometimes. could be an FS girl, could be a legit granny.