Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[rongetcha]

You just have to come up with a believable story and discuss it ahead of time. Any possibility she could be a co-worker, a freelancer, a relative ? If there is no PDA, all kinds of scenarios for a young woman and older guy to be together at a bar or restaurant.

Co worker? How do you explain why you were holding hands with her ?

 

[Tyler1]

Co worker? How do you explain why you were holding hands with her ?

She's legally blind XD

On the other side though, holy shit fixing your profile gets you the best results. Shit was like night and day...

 

[rongetcha]

She's legally blind XD

On the other side though, holy shit fixing your profile gets you the best results. Shit was like night and day...

I'd rather my wife sees us than HR!

 

[nycdude]

Co worker? How do you explain why you were holding hands with her ?

LOL !

Well yeah, PDA in private less public areas. Seriously, I've spent plenty of time in public with sugar babies. No pda, no eye flirting. Depending on what kind of work you do or what hobbies your have, all kinds of reasons for you to be sharing time with a younger woman. How the woman dresses is a big part of it.

 

[jzdevil2]

It was easy to tell she was a fraud from the start when I asked her her weight and she gave it in kilograms lol.

Yes tells like this have helped weed out a lot of pointless chases. Another is if profile mentions they're "in university" vs. "in college". At times I've wondered if SA itself employs armies of call centers running these intl accts to make it seem more active on unsuspecting users...

 

[Montco422]

At times I've wondered if SA itself employs armies of call centers running these intl accts to make it seem more active on unsuspecting users...

I suspect exactly the same. Not call centers but freelancers writing thousands of fake profiles to go with the stolen photos they've scraped from the Internet. I think that's entirely possible.

 

[timleecl]

Buy the Vanilla Visa with cash to avoid the paper trail? Or does buying a prepaid cc with cash draw more attention?

Thanks

 

[didi88]

Buy the Vanilla Visa with cash to avoid the paper trail? Or does buying a prepaid cc with cash draw more attention?

Thanks

Buy Vanilla Visa with cash. I’ve done this several times. Never an issue at the time

 

[Gorby]

I don’t show real photo, just someone who looks somewhat like me. It’s usually enough to satisfy them

So what you just find random a pic on the internet of a guy who could be mistaken for you?

 

[didi88]

So what you just find random a pic on the internet of a guy who could be mistaken for you?

Yup

 

[rongetcha]

So what you just find random a pic on the internet of a guy who could be mistaken for you?

That's what 90% of the girls do .
I don't use any public pic only private.

 

[timleecl]

My 3rd day on SA:

• Sent 120 dms
• 31 replies
• 5 moved to text
• Pretty sure 1 is trans
• 1 meeting scheduled, then I cancelled after I sussed out she wants $1000 ppm
• 1 meeting for tmmr, seems promising

Impressions so far:

• It's def a grind like a sales funnel
• my numbers will improve now that I know better which profiles to skip for GPS (golden p*ssy syndrome) and IG influencer wannabes
• bronx and queens look promising, if you're into AA or latina
• timing seems to matter. if they're on, they're ready to meet today
• there's some game to sending good chats/texts
• the advice on here has saved me a TON of time and effort, so MANY THANKS ALL

 

[Montco422]

My 3rd day on SA:

• Sent 120 dms
• 31 replies
• 5 moved to text
• Pretty sure 1 is trans
• 1 meeting scheduled, then I cancelled after I sussed out she wants $1000 ppm
• 1 meeting for tmmr, seems promising

Impressions so far:

• It's def a grind like a sales funnel
• my numbers will improve now that I know better which profiles to skip for GPS (golden p*ssy syndrome) and IG influencer wannabes
• bronx and queens look promising, if you're into AA or latina
• timing seems to matter. if they're on, they're ready to meet today
• there's some game to sending good chats/texts
• the advice on here has saved me a TON of time and effort, so MANY THANKS ALL

Good luck mate. My SA membership just expired and I'm still mulling whether to renew or not. It can be a fun time-killer, but here in the Philly area, there's not a huge pool of talent like NYC. You increase your chances by a big amount if you're interested in meeting heavier, older, or uglier women. There are plenty of those. If you restrict your choices to slim young things, you are either dealing with fakes, photo sellers, scams, very high-priced professionals, or very, very, very high-priced (and largely inexperienced) amateurs.

The interaction is still fun and helps polish your game, whether or not it leads to anything. That would be the only reason for me to renew.

 

[rongetcha]

Good luck mate. My SA membership just expired and I'm still mulling whether to renew or not. It can be a fun time-killer, but here in the Philly area, there's not a huge pool of talent like NYC. You increase your chances by a big amount if you're interested in meeting heavier, older, or uglier women. There are plenty of those. If you restrict your choices to slim young things, you are either dealing with fakes, photo sellers, scams, very high-priced professionals, or very, very, very high-priced (and largely inexperienced) amateurs.

The interaction is still fun and helps polish your game, whether or not it leads to anything. That would be the only reason for me to renew.

With a defeatist outlook like that you are wasting your money on SA. It requires positive thinking and perseverance. There are plenty of 20 yr olds in Philly looking for a daddy .

 

[Montco422]

If you waste your time on 19-21 year olds, you are asking for whatever that site brings you. Or you are bullshitting. One or the other, but you will not end up in Pussy Valhalla, that I can guarantee.

Unless, of course, you are some decent-looking 35-45 year old with tons of cash and free time to spare. In that case, you're bringing something to the table that I could not. Rule 1 in the civilian game is to be attractive; Rule 2 is not be unattractive. In the SA game, that counts, too.

But the accounts of guys rolling in great lays from SA is complete bullshit.

 

[rongetcha]

If you waste your time on 19-21 year olds, you are asking for whatever that site brings you. Or you are bullshitting. One or the other, but you will not end up in Pussy Valhalla, that I can guarantee.

Unless, of course, you are some decent-looking 35-45 year old with tons of cash and free time to spare. In that case, you're bringing something to the table that I could not. Rule 1 in the civilian game is to be attractive; Rule 2 is not be unattractive. In the SA game, that counts, too.

But the accounts of guys rolling in great lays from SA is complete bullshit.

I'm pretty unattractive to the opposite sex. It's been decades since I've been able to pick up a girl in a bar. Have no game either. But I do have 5 girls I've met on SA on rotation. All in their 20's. This Saturday it's a Filipina who likes me and even begs me to fuck her in the ass. Following Saturday it's a Chinese and Mexican threesome when the girls love to play with each other. I'm not a rich guy as it boils down to about $150 an hour all in.
All thanks to SA and my disciplined approach to it .

 

[Montco422]

I'm pretty unattractive to the opposite sex. It's been decades since I've been able to pick up a girl in a bar. Have no game either. But I do have 5 girls I've met on SA on rotation. All in their 20's. This Saturday it's a Filipina who likes me and even begs me to fuck her in the ass. Following Saturday it's a Chinese and Mexican threesome when the girls love to play with each other. I'm not a rich guy as it boils down to about $150 an hour all in.
All thanks to SA and my disciplined approach to it .

I've got no way to disprove what you say other than my experience. Sounds like complete bullshit to me, but like I said, here online we have only your word. Everyone can draw their own opinion.

 

[rongetcha]

I've got no way to disprove what you say other than my experience. Sounds like complete bullshit to me, but like I said, here online we have only your word. Everyone can draw their own opinion.

If it was five years ago and I was reading those comments I wrote I'd of thought it was BS as well! That's when I first started SA and was feeling like it was a waste of time. But I found a discussion thread in another site that was led by a real expert at it and basically followed his advice and stuck with it. Now I have to pinch myself thinking wow I'm really fucking these hot young things. Think what you like but I'm only trying to help you .

 

[Montco422]

If it was five years ago and I was reading those comments I wrote I'd of thought it was BS as well! That's when I first started SA and was feeling like it was a waste of time. But I found a discussion thread in another site that was led by a real expert at it and basically followed his advice and stuck with it. Now I have to pinch myself thinking wow I'm really fucking these hot young things. Think what you like but I'm only trying to help you .

Listen, I've heard your story. You are free to tell it. Others are free to buy into it. But I've got a decent amount of experience on SA and to my ears, you are a shill of the site and are spouting bullshit. What you are selling doesn't exist there.

 

[rongetcha]

Listen, I've heard your story. You are free to tell it. Others are free to buy into it. But I've got a decent amount of experience on SA and to my ears, you are a shill of the site and are spouting bullshit. What you are selling doesn't exist there.

An SA shill ? That's a first , haha.
I'll remember that Saturday when my Filipina is saying something to the effect of ' please fuck me harder daddy ' .