Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[Koondog]

I like when they ask you what you're interested in. I'm like well this isn't a dating site---it's a hook-up site so what do you THINK I'm interested in?

 

[uOnlyLiveOnce]

I like when they ask you what you're interested in. I'm like well this isn't a dating site---it's a hook-up site so what do you THINK I'm interested in?

I usually tell them for shits and giggles!

 

[Montco422]

I'm outside Philly. Had one from Dayton OH message me no less than three times under three different screen names (all from Dayton, OH, though - she was real smart) giving me a long sad story about needing money for her daughters prescriptions....and offering naked pix in exchange. The exact same text each time. Lots and lots of scammin' going on. And I guess it works on some guys or they wouldn't keep doing it.

 

[virgil0000]

I had one Jersey girl tell me she's 22---7 months pregnant, both parents died, boyfriend that knocked her up died, no friends, works 2 jobs. Real sob story. Yet the photos she sent her face looks like a million bucks. A week or so after texting she tries to hit me up for a 'phone bill payment'. Of course said no way, yet she keeps in contact. Weird.

 

[Unknownuser69]

Guys be careful when these sugar baby’s when they are recording videos with you. (Maybe you don’t want other people to know that ur in this hobby)I just seen a video on tiktok (social media app) with over 4 million views about a sugar baby being on a date with her sugar daddy. (And she’s in NYC) She didn’t even blurr his face. I hope she asked him if it was okay to be posted in the video. So stay alert when they record a video with you because you might end up on the internet. (I doubt she asked permission as the video was low key and didn’t seem like they guy knew that she was recording)

 

[rongetcha]

Guys be careful when these sugar baby’s when they are recording videos with you. (Maybe you don’t want other people to know that ur in this hobby)I just seen a video on tiktok (social media app) with over 4 million views about a sugar baby being on a date with her sugar daddy. (And she’s in NYC) She didn’t even blurr his face. I hope she asked him if it was okay to be posted in the video. So stay alert when they record a video with you because you might end up on the internet. (I doubt she asked permission as the video was low key and didn’t seem like they guy knew that she was recording)

I don't think I've ever been recorded but most of my SA girls let me take pics and vids of them in the bedroom. Mostly in their panties some pussy. Some face. They trust me that I'd never let them go beyond my phone. I would never post any online and only text their pics with their permission. If I'm trying to set up a threesome I'll ask girl A if I can send her pic to girl B. They are cool with that.

 

[248Lancer]

"They trust me that I'd never let them go beyond my phone.".

Right up until your phone or cloud storage gets hacked.... Why not just request a device free meetup? Then nobody worries.

 

[rongetcha]

Right up until your phone or cloud storage gets hacked.... Why not just request a device free meetup? Then nobody worries.

They keep their phones off.
It's my phone so I'm in control.
If I get hacked so be it.

 

[timleecl]

Uber-ing the SB home

1. Do you pay? I saw several guys say hard no. My instinct is to pay if it's late, please share why that's a bad idea?
   
   
2. How to pay? Order on my app (risky opsec) or just give her extra cash (feels transactional, just got upsold lol)

Appreciate any experienced advice

 

[timleecl]

How to proceed?

Texting with cute white co-ed in the Bronx. She asked for either a face pic (hard no, I'm married), or small PPM to cover travel for initial meet and greet (only in case we don't vibe and go to a hotel).

Hard no, or worth a few bucks to see if she's worth it?

Thanks all

 

[rongetcha]

Uber-ing the SB home

1. Do you pay? I saw several guys say hard no. My instinct is to pay if it's late, please share why that's a bad idea?
   
   
2. How to pay? Order on my app (risky opsec) or just give her extra cash (feels transactional, just got upsold lol)

Appreciate any experienced advice

I assume you mean after a hotel session.. If it's late I'll Lyft them home . Sometimes I'll offer and sometime they ask. I don't want them taking a d a dangerous subway at nite. They really appreciate it and after lovingly playing with my dick for three hours how do I say no .

I give them my phone so they can write in the destination.

 

[rongetcha]

How to proceed?

Texting with cute white co-ed in the Bronx. She asked for either a face pic (hard no, I'm married), or small PPM to cover travel for initial meet and greet (only in case we don't vibe and go to a hotel).

Hard no, or worth a few bucks to see if she's worth it?

Thanks all

Go with your gut on this. Yes I have a policy of no pay to meet and greet but I've Lyft'd girls into the city if I felt really good about her. Sometimes it's worth it.

 

[이 회장님]

Uber-ing the SB home

1. Do you pay? I saw several guys say hard no. My instinct is to pay if it's late, please share why that's a bad idea?
   
   
2. How to pay? Order on my app (risky opsec) or just give her extra cash (feels transactional, just got upsold lol)

Appreciate any experienced advice

After our session is over and if I’m too tired to drive them home then I will give them extra cash so they can get an Uber home. The SBs appreciate this and the next session gets much better.

 

[이 회장님]

How to proceed?

Texting with cute white co-ed in the Bronx. She asked for either a face pic (hard no, I'm married), or small PPM to cover travel for initial meet and greet (only in case we don't vibe and go to a hotel).

Hard no, or worth a few bucks to see if she's worth it?

Thanks all

Don’t send your face pic. I don’t either. I send them a pic with my face blurred but they see the rest of me and they know that I’m fit.

I’ll joke to these girls by promising them that I’m more handsome than Bobby Lee or Ken Jeong. lol
They laugh and then we meet up for a “Meet and Greet”.

If they live nearby, I’ll pick them up. If not, then I’ll Uber them. We’ll grab coffee and have a small snack and that’s when I will feel them out and listen to my gut if she’s worth it or not.

Worst case, I thank them for their time and we move on.

 

[timleecl]

I’ll joke to these girls by promising them that I’m more handsome than Bobby Lee or Ken Jeong. lol
They laugh and then we meet up for a “Meet and Greet”.

I say I'm a better version of Psy! ha ha

 

[IggyBuckets]

Can you guys give any tips on your opening message that you send, when you find a girl your interested in?

My response rate is very low and alot of the profiles are pretty generic, so I send more or less the same message of "nice to meet you blah blah, I;m looking for ...., let me know if your interested"

Granted my annual income/net worth is alot less than other men on the site.

 

[rongetcha]

Can you guys give any tips on your opening message that you send, when you find a girl your interested in?

My response rate is very low and alot of the profiles are pretty generic, so I send more or less the same message of "nice to meet you blah blah, I;m looking for ...., let me know if your interested"

Granted my annual income/net worth is alot less than other men on the site.

It you are not able to give a girl at least $400 SA will be a real struggle.

 

[IggyBuckets]

It you are not able to give a girl at least $400 SA will be a real struggle.

I'm comfortable with up to $500 PPM, but I dont mention numbers in my profile or messages since people have said you can get banned for that.

 

[rongetcha]

I'm comfortable with up to $500 PPM, but I dont mention numbers in my profile or messages since people have said you can get banned for that.

That's true. Wait till you text them.

 

[Tyler1]

Do you guys ever bother with "platonic" chick's? Cause they don't explicitly say platonic only. Was talking to a girl and she wants to talk and meet in person.