Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[이 회장님]

True, SA is very time-consuming. And all of us will make mistakes. It’s impossible to be 100% successful.

But it’s now a buyer’s market. Most of the rich SDs are stuck at home with their wives. And with a struggling economy, SBs are more open and flexible when it comes to PPMs.

After a few days of exchanging messages, I ask them out to a “Meet and Greet”. I tell them that this cannot proceed and develop by just exchanging messages, we have to go out for food and drinks and see if there is potential.

I pick nice places in the city to eat and drink and I will let them know that I will treat them. Many of these girls are more than happy to eat and drink so it usually works out.

 

[WoodSpanker]

Haha I have a lot of free time right now and have been trying to build up a stable of girls to rotate for the next few months. I figure out of the 10 that agree to meet up probably 1-3 will actually have sparks that I’d want to see regularly. I’m not really just looking to bust a nut more just enjoy the company of various beautiful women from different walks of life.

I’ve had great success. Started in SA and quickly hooked up with two ebony hotties. Probably paid $150 PPM each. Then I met this 23 Indian beauty who is basically my GF today. She never really asked for money. Small things like a pair of jeans etc. we hang and bang all the time and I haven’t spent a cent on her in months. Eventually booted from SA. Tried what’s your price and had good success until I was banned from there. One girl met for dinner, and I casually said I would like to fool around. Ended up banging outside in a park. Didn’t give her a cent. Finally tried Sugar Daddy Meet. Met the most smoking hot black girl I’ve ever seen in my life. Overpaid for first hookup. 2nd join up we fucked in a movie theater and 3rd time in a hotel. Didn’t pay her after first date. I also hooked up from tinder. Just lower your search age range to 18 and before you know it you will be having girls asking for a SD. Hooked up with a girl in Miami for $200. Not a pro as she wore he work uniform to our meet as she just got off work. I find if your Resonably attractive and fit and can make them laugh you can turn the. I to more girlfriends than having to pay them. Takes so work. Hell I even scored a stripper I’m ft Lauderdale which was the best we’d of my life and money never came up. We just clixked and she wanted to fuck.

 

[threeforthemoney]

I’ve had great success. Started in SA and quickly hooked up with two ebony hotties. Probably paid $150 PPM each. Then I met this 23 Indian beauty who is basically my GF today. She never really asked for money. Small things like a pair of jeans etc. we hang and bang all the time and I haven’t spent a cent on her in months. Eventually booted from SA. Tried what’s your price and had good success until I was banned from there. One girl met for dinner, and I casually said I would like to fool around. Ended up banging outside in a park. Didn’t give her a cent. Finally tried Sugar Daddy Meet. Met the most smoking hot black girl I’ve ever seen in my life. Overpaid for first hookup. 2nd join up we fucked in a movie theater and 3rd time in a hotel. Didn’t pay her after first date. I also hooked up from tinder. Just lower your search age range to 18 and before you know it you will be having girls asking for a SD. Hooked up with a girl in Miami for $200. Not a pro as she wore he work uniform to our meet as she just got off work. I find if your Resonably attractive and fit and can make them laugh you can turn the. I to more girlfriends than having to pay them. Takes so work. Hell I even scored a stripper I’m ft Lauderdale which was the best we’d of my life and money never came up. We just clixked and she wanted to fuck.

your my hero

 

[IggyBuckets]

I'd like to share my experience as a newbie with sugar dating. Started in December and read thru this thread and others on TER to get some advice/guidance. Going thru the profiles and messaging took quite a bit of time. Alot of the girls ghost you are a few messages back and forth and some give one word replies like "lol"

Had several meet & greets which didnt go well, and one who ghosted me as I was waiting outside the cafe. Eventually connected with a 24 year old in Brooklyn where the messages back and forth where very polite and pleasant. Setup the meet without problems and it went very well. My first BCD was a week ago, and she was very easy to get along with and the sex was pretty good even though I ran into a few "technical difficulties".

We agreed to see each other twice a month, and even though we agreed on ppm a bit higher than I was hoping, I would definitely recommend it over other mongering options, as long as you understand it takes time and effort.

 

[이 회장님]

I'd like to share my experience as a newbie with sugar dating. Started in December and read thru this thread and others on TER to get some advice/guidance. Going thru the profiles and messaging took quite a bit of time. Alot of the girls ghost you are a few messages back and forth and some give one word replies like "lol"

Had several meet & greets which didnt go well, and one who ghosted me as I was waiting outside the cafe. Eventually connected with a 24 year old in Brooklyn where the messages back and forth where very polite and pleasant. Setup the meet without problems and it went very well. My first BCD was a week ago, and she was very easy to get along with and the sex was pretty good even though I ran into a few "technical difficulties".

We agreed to see each other twice a month, and even though we agreed on ppm a bit higher than I was hoping, I would definitely recommend it over other mongering options, as long as you understand it takes time and effort.

SA takes time and patience which you did and it has paid off for you.

SA is a nice option to have besides amps. Have fun and enjoy.

 

[nycballetlover]

I’ve had great success. Started in SA and quickly hooked up with two ebony hotties. Probably paid $150 PPM each. Then I met this 23 Indian beauty who is basically my GF today. She never really asked for money. Small things like a pair of jeans etc. we hang and bang all the time and I haven’t spent a cent on her in months. Eventually booted from SA. Tried what’s your price and had good success until I was banned from there. One girl met for dinner, and I casually said I would like to fool around. Ended up banging outside in a park. Didn’t give her a cent. Finally tried Sugar Daddy Meet. Met the most smoking hot black girl I’ve ever seen in my life. Overpaid for first hookup. 2nd join up we fucked in a movie theater and 3rd time in a hotel. Didn’t pay her after first date. I also hooked up from tinder. Just lower your search age range to 18 and before you know it you will be having girls asking for a SD. Hooked up with a girl in Miami for $200. Not a pro as she wore he work uniform to our meet as she just got off work. I find if your Resonably attractive and fit and can make them laugh you can turn the. I to more girlfriends than having to pay them. Takes so work. Hell I even scored a stripper I’m ft Lauderdale which was the best we’d of my life and money never came up. We just clixked and she wanted to fuck.

You're not a sugar daddy. You're obviously young and maybe good looking and guys like you can easily Date or hookup with young hot chicks. SDs are older guys with a wife or family and can't just hook up any which way

 

[Youngadvisor]

You're not a sugar daddy. You're obviously young and maybe good looking and guys like you can easily Date or hookup with young hot chicks. SDs are older guys with a wife or family and can't just hook up any which way

Not necessary I'm in my older 30s and have been on SA for a few years it never panned out in my favor because I never found a girl hit enough

 

[Gorby]

Has anyone used SA anonymously, a fuzzy pic and Vanilla gift card perhaps?

 

[didi88]

Has anyone used SA anonymously, a fuzzy pic and Vanilla gift card perhaps?

yes that’s the way I’ve always done it

 

[Koondog]

Found one near Hackensack and one in Sussex both in their 30's recently. Refreshing that they didn't ask for help through cashapp before even meeting, the usual scam on SA.

 

[threeforthemoney]

they all seem to be scammers lately, videos, online, cassapp, whatever. Total waste of $$ joining.

 

[Montco422]

Well here's a tale that just happened to me, anybody who's on SA or thinking of joining should listen up. Don't joke around with Canadians, it could get you banned.

Seriously. Got a message from a girl in Toronto, and I answered with something like "Hey, get me Canadian citizenship and I'll be your Sugar Daddy. Hell, I'll be your real Daddy." Big joke, right?
Next -- today -- I get banned from SA. When I ask why, they reply exactly as follows:

"Thank you for reaching out to us regarding your account status. Unfortunately, we have obtained and verified information that indicates you are looking for Green Card/Visas. This is not only a violation of our Terms of Use, but also legally a criminal offense.

You are henceforth banned from SeekingArrangement and any of our sister sites. Please be advised: we maintain the right to inform the appropriate authorities of any criminal activity conducted through our site, and we rigidly comply with any and all law enforcement investigations/legal action concerning crimes conducted therein. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response."

Now, I'm just 10 days away from my paid 90-day membership expiring, and I wasn't going to renew, so no big whoop. But let this serve as a warning to any of you looking to take a dive in the Sugar Bowl.

Don't kid around with Canadians.

 

[threeforthemoney]

Well here's a tale that just happened to me, anybody who's on SA or thinking of joining should listen up. Don't joke around with Canadians, it could get you banned.

Seriously. Got a message from a girl in Toronto, and I answered with something like "Hey, get me Canadian citizenship and I'll be your Sugar Daddy. Hell, I'll be your real Daddy." Big joke, right?
Next -- today -- I get banned from SA. When I ask why, they reply exactly as follows:

"Thank you for reaching out to us regarding your account status. Unfortunately, we have obtained and verified information that indicates you are looking for Green Card/Visas. This is not only a violation of our Terms of Use, but also legally a criminal offense.

You are henceforth banned from SeekingArrangement and any of our sister sites. Please be advised: we maintain the right to inform the appropriate authorities of any criminal activity conducted through our site, and we rigidly comply with any and all law enforcement investigations/legal action concerning crimes conducted therein. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response."

Now, I'm just 10 days away from my paid 90-day membership expiring, and I wasn't going to renew, so no big whoop. But let this serve as a warning to any of you looking to take a dive in the Sugar Bowl.

Don't kid around with Canadians.

send them an email and let them know you were joking, and they will reinstate you. Their male membership is way down, they cannot afford to lose people.

 

[Montco422]

send them an email and let them know you were joking, and they will reinstate you. Their male membership is way down, they cannot afford to lose people.

Oh, I did. And true to their word, they didn't respond. Like I said, I'm not really upset about this, just amused. It was a good time-waster, but I think it's largely a scam operation.

 

[threeforthemoney]

Oh, I did. And true to their word, they didn't respond. Like I said, I'm not really upset about this, just amused. It was a good time-waster, but I think it's largely a scam operation.

the whole site appears to be a scam operation these days.

 

[Montco422]

the whole site appears to be a scam operation these days.

It seems you know them pretty well, though -- just got an email saying they'll restore my membership. Didn't expect that.

 

[Koondog]

Once in awhile I will play with a scammer. I had one last week insist I send her some money to 'book her' before she would agree to give me her address. I said I don't know you, why the hell would anyone send a stranger money?

It was easy to tell she was a fraud from the start when I asked her her weight and she gave it in kilograms lol.

 

[Montco422]

I'm always getting messages from foreign accounts, mostly trying to sell photos and videos. If I'm in the mood, I'll take them to text and try to talk them into some samples. I think mostly it's hackers who have stolen Insta/OnlyFans/etc. content trying to make a quick buck. So many from South America and specifically Venezuela.

 

[Njgent]

I've been on the site for close to 8 years and have met and beded over 40 ladies. A couple lasted 2 years or more. Some only were good for 1 or 2 meets. About a dozen never got past the initial meeting for drinks or coffee. Of the 40, some were obvious pros.

A few tips:

- Never discuss money or hint of intimacy on the site. You can get banned. Always discuss details via text.
- If your conversation goes very very south, either on the site or via text, block the profile before she gets a chance to report you.
- Do not ever agree to a "meeting fee" or to advance them money to prove that you are real or serious. They are definitely scammers or rinsers
- Confirm your initial meeting a few hours before. Even then, I've had 8 or 10 that were no shows. Some have offered lame excuses as to not showing up and want to reschedule. I fell for that excuse 2 or 3 time and they stood me up again. Now it is one strike and you are out.
- Always check what country they are logging into from
- Be observant as to what their location is. Frequent changes in their location indicates a possible pro/scammer
- Use a burner phone/number. If you get a text/call from an unknown number threatening to blackmail you due to having offered to exchange money for sex, ignore it (hopefully you did not divulge any personnel info in any of your communications with these women)
- Do not fall for pleas for immediate money for such reasons as they have no food in the frig and they or their children are hungry, they want to get their nails/hair done so they look good when you meet, they need money upfront for a Uber so they can get to you, etc etc etc. The scams are endless.
- The arrangement starts when the panties hit the floor

 

[Montco422]

Eight years??? I think you need to change your screen name to Sugar King. I am impressed, I hope they're comping your subscription by now.

All good advice, by the way. Lots of scammers and flakes to be avoided.