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If you could ask her just one question

benzy45

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Here's what I'd ask: When they take a two week break to go back to China do they miss the sex after that two weeks or are they dreading coming back to the routine?
 

VJLUTZ

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Well, I can ask them questions anytime. I'm just not guaranteed a truthful response.
You mean: if you could ask her just one question where she HAD to reply honestly. Assuming she even knows the answer.

Mine might be something like: What percentage of what you tell me is a total lie? Beyond that, there's really not much point. Trying to figure them out is part of the fun. And that goes for any type of woman.

One day, someone will invent an app that can reliably detect a lie just by analyzing their voice. Probably after I'm dead.
 

kgmspa

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You know when I ask her I get the most sweet and brutal answer! It's not about the money or love! She is a true friend ! And I will always be her friend! :)
 

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Money or love isn’t a binary answer. For every women, even wives, it’s a mix of both.

If I could ask just one question, where they have to answer truthfully, it’s their marital status. I feel like that’s the root of all their dishonesty, and getting that established and out of the way reduces the other BS. And yes, I’d still see a spa girl if she’s married.
 

kgmspa

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You know what her answer was? Don't ask me stupid questions! Put up or shut up! Paraphrased

oh well such is life :) I always wish her best but she not want to hear anymore! So I take her advice and go quiet
 

xxxooz

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Money or love isn’t a binary answer. For every women, even wives, it’s a mix of both.

If I could ask just one question, where they have to answer truthfully, it’s their marital status. I feel like that’s the root of all their dishonesty, and getting that established and out of the way reduces the other BS. And yes, I’d still see a spa girl if she’s married.
....Yes, your right SRH...my current GF is in a "green card" marriage and she told me shortly after we became seriously involved... she told me openly and upfront... strangely her credibility rating went way up because of the revelation... needless to say going down the rabbit hole can take one to some "strange" places emotionally...LOL..
...btw we're still involved and quite content...
 

haaretz

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What do you look like in the civvie world? In civvie makeup?
One of my companions looks like a mousy librarian and the other says that she looks like a grammar school teacher....

A lot of my unasked questions have been answered over the course of time, as in any friendship. The information that's not given up is theirs to keep. Like their real name, I don't know what I would do with the information.

Part of the attraction is the mystery.
 

kgmspa

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My GF still says she love me even though I hurt her! She is an Irish woman and let me tell you she is more brutal than any chinese girl I ever met! But she is mine and I am hers! BTW she told me same thing! If she had the money I would be gone! Lol
 

kgmspa

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I feel like such a stupid man my emotions get me about a girl but yea another stupid question. My GF hasn't killed me. Yet lol Thank God for her.

All is well that ends well :)
 

xxxooz

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My Question would be..."What's it like emotionally to have sex with 5 to 6 Mongers a day for a weeks on end?"... do they become jaded, numb, compartmentalized, in denial or is the work ever enjoyable?...
I assume they don't like providing services to all, since most most gals refrain from working if they get a place and become MMS...
 

TGBeldin

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My Question would be..."What's it like emotionally to have sex with 5 to 6 Mongers a day for a weeks on end?"... do they become jaded, numb, compartmentalized, in denial or is the work ever enjoyable?...
I assume they don't like providing services to all, since most most gals refrain from working if they get a place and become MMS...
When one of the ones I know well comes to visit for a (non working) vacation, this is one of the conversation topics that often comes up: she reflects on how much longer she will work, the pluses and minuses. It often digressed into these topics.

They use different words, but the ones who have survived in the business all compartmentalize it. Just like guys I know in other jobs they really would rather not be doing, from offices to manual labor to some sleazy work of different types. They compartmentalize the work as almost a different reality, different person, from the rest of their life and in many ways try to forget it (or at least not think about it) when off work.

Most say they have a few clients they like and enjoy--the ones who treat them like "a real person", be it a friend or just a really good lover. They have had some men who they despised, the ones who act as if she should be grateful that they see her. But most are work--emotionally nothing, neither good nor bad.
 

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When one of the ones I know well comes to visit for a (non working) vacation, this is one of the conversation topics that often comes up: she reflects on how much longer she will work, the pluses and minuses. It often digressed into these topics.

They use different words, but the ones who have survived in the business all compartmentalize it. Just like guys I know in other jobs they really would rather not be doing, from offices to manual labor to some sleazy work of different types. They compartmentalize the work as almost a different reality, different person, from the rest of their life and in many ways try to forget it (or at least not think about it) when off work.

Most say they have a few clients they like and enjoy--the ones who treat them like "a real person", be it a friend or just a really good lover. They have had some men who they despised, the ones who act as if she should be grateful that they see her. But most are work--emotionally nothing, neither good nor bad.
"Compartmentalize" is a fitting term to use in this context...
 

xxxooz

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When one of the ones I know well comes to visit for a (non working) vacation, this is one of the conversation topics that often comes up: she reflects on how much longer she will work, the pluses and minuses. It often digressed into these topics.

They use different words, but the ones who have survived in the business all compartmentalize it. Just like guys I know in other jobs they really would rather not be doing, from offices to manual labor to some sleazy work of different types. They compartmentalize the work as almost a different reality, different person, from the rest of their life and in many ways try to forget it (or at least not think about it) when off work.

Most say they have a few clients they like and enjoy--the ones who treat them like "a real person", be it a friend or just a really good lover. They have had some men who they despised, the ones who act as if she should be grateful that they see her. But most are work--emotionally nothing, neither good nor bad.
...Very insightful TGB... I agree with all you have observed... I spend a lot of time with a GF and a group of providers off duty in NY and find them to have fairly "normal" lives when they are away from the Stores...Flushing is a sanctuary emotionally for them unless they are working up there, which is a different story completely...
 

East Lake II

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What do you look like in the civvie world? In civvie makeup?
One of my companions looks like a mousy librarian and the other says that she looks like a grammar school teacher....

A lot of my unasked questions have been answered over the course of time, as in any friendship. The information that's not given up is theirs to keep. Like their real name, I don't know what I would do with the information.

Part of the attraction is the mystery.
A lot of asked and unasked questions get answered over the course of time. I’ve found that they WANT you to know, and they do tell you, but not in a way that is easily understood. At least not right away. Over time, they will tell you but be prepared to listen and not interrupt. And, think on what they say and be grateful they told you what they did. Don’t follow up with a lot of clarifying questions.

Also, be careful as they will have questions of their own. Some of which you might not be ready to answer.
 

East Lake II

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Money or love isn’t a binary answer. For every women, even wives, it’s a mix of both.

If I could ask just one question, where they have to answer truthfully, it’s their marital status. I feel like that’s the root of all their dishonesty, and getting that established and out of the way reduces the other BS. And yes, I’d still see a spa girl if she’s married.
Their marital status? Oh, that’s a loaded one. It should probably be expanded to relationship status. They may have a husband in China but they are living with another guy in Flushing. They consider themself divorced and unattached.

I once estimated that 90% of them are married even though they say they are divorced. I’ve mentioned my guesstimate to more than a few and they agreed and said most who say they are divorced are still married but they put the % at 60-70.
 

East Lake II

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What do you look like in the civvie world? In civvie makeup?
One of my companions looks like a mousy librarian and the other says that she looks like a grammar school teacher....

A lot of my unasked questions have been answered over the course of time, as in any friendship. The information that's not given up is theirs to keep. Like their real name, I don't know what I would do with the information.

Part of the attraction is the mystery.
What do they look like in the civvie world ? Love it! They look great! They really do! They are more relaxed and you see a different more complete beauty.
 

East Lake II

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"Compartmentalize" is a fitting term to use in this context...
We also compartmentalize. Our spa visits and the friendships we develop in the spas are compartmentalized. We we think of them and their layered compartmentalized complicated life, our life’s are also compartmentalized, perhaps not as complicated, but repeated spa visits will lead to complications.
 

TGBeldin

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We also compartmentalize. Our spa visits and the friendships we develop in the spas are compartmentalized. We we think of them and their layered compartmentalized complicated life, our life’s are also compartmentalized, perhaps not as complicated, but repeated spa visits will lead to complications.
Very true.
 
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