If you could ask her just one question

[Koujiao]

Why do you do massage? Would be that question broadly speaking. Why? Because you already know the answer! She might even say - don't ask me stupi question.

If you know her better she may give you some background but the answer will remain the same! No stupid question. Time is up! Thank you honey! See you soon

Legit licensed masseuses do it because it pays better than being a waitresss, and they enjoy helping people feel healthier, there is a deep satisfaction to that part of their job.

 

[kgmspa]

Legit licensed masseuses do it because it pays better than being a waitresss, and they enjoy helping people feel healthier, there is a deep satisfaction to that part of their job.

Same holds true for a massage girl who is a caring person that does sensual. It's not just the money. Does she like her job? Sometimes like anyone else.

 

[Waterboy]

This just entered my mind.
It's a twofold question.
And I hope she reads it.

Do you think about me when I don't visit?
Will you remember me when you leave?

I know they are very selfish questions.
And I think I know the answers.
I will choose to believe them.

 

[Neveragain]

I’d ask which girl is best for an interactive four hand massage.

 

[lvwsp]

I actually asked my ATF if she could do anything besides work in a massage parlor, what would she do, she remained silent, then her initial response was, she doesn’t have another skill to do something else without having to be trained enough to earn a good wage, then she said society looks down on this industry, not sure why she included this. She seemed a bit troubled thinking about my question. She again answered after several minutes, she said she didn’t know. I guess she hadn't considered anything else.

and society's view is what forces it underground. I wish some of these girls understood me better. If I knew I could get an honest answer, I'd ask them what their dream job would be.

 

[xxxooz]

and society's view is what forces it underground. I wish some of these girls understood me better. If I knew I could get an honest answer, I'd ask them what their dream job would be.

...Their dream job would be to open their own Store and not to have to work as a provider ... they see it as a road to riches and they are right, if they don't have a Casino problem... and many do...

 

[chunfun]

Seen the DL/Green Card/Passport, the China husband, the US boyfriend(s), the legal/medical/business issues, and children, relatives and friends.
I've taken them places by air, land and sea that put them completely in my care and protection.
They "trust" me with so much deeply personal information, and they actually seem eager to be with me.

Yet, I am not from their culture, nor "rich", and I do not hide my marital status. So my question is "Why me?"

 

[haaretz]

Seen the DL/Green Card/Passport, the China husband, the US boyfriend(s), the legal/medical/business issues, and children, relatives and friends.
I've taken them places by air, land and sea that put them completely in my care and protection.
They "trust" me with so much deeply personal information, and they actually seem eager to be with me.

Yet, I am not from their culture, nor "rich", and I do not hide my marital status. So my question is "Why me?"

You wear Hai Karate, or you're a man that they're very comfortable with. You probably extend them kindness, don't try to buy their affection with just gifts. You're a mensch.

 

[TGBeldin]

Seen the DL/Green Card/Passport, the China husband, the US boyfriend(s), the legal/medical/business issues, and children, relatives and friends.
I've taken them places by air, land and sea that put them completely in my care and protection.
They "trust" me with so much deeply personal information, and they actually seem eager to be with me.

Yet, I am not from their culture, nor "rich", and I do not hide my marital status. So my question is "Why me?"

Because there is trust, and you treat them as people, not sex toys.

A lot of guys on here will never comprehend, and just call you a liar.

 

[xxxooz]

....I feel the same Chun....and have had the same experiences .... it is because you are trusted as a "good man" something these women value above all.... only difference is that I am not married... and that gives me the freedom to come and go as I please and fit into their world and lifestyles....
..I believe that your friends and GFs see you as a "good man" and not as a "white Knight" ... and that is the ultimate compliment attainable in the world these wonderful women..
Zhu hao yun!
Xooz

 

[chunfun]

Because there is trust, and you treat them as people, not sex toys.

A lot of guys on here will never comprehend, and just call you a liar.

Thanks, but sometimes I do treat them as sex toys. They seem to really like that!

 

[TGBeldin]

Thanks, but sometimes I do treat them as sex toys. They seem to really like that!

There is a huge difference between having a stranger treat you as a sex toy vs having someone you trust/like treat you that way.

My ATF would shut me down if I didn't treat her with respect and kindness 99% of the time, but when she is horny that all is forgotten. Temporarily!

 

[Ampme]

This just entered my mind.
It's a twofold question.
And I hope she reads it.

Do you think about me when I don't visit?
Will you remember me when you leave?

I know they are very selfish questions.
And I think I know the answers.
I will choose to believe them.

She won't even remember your name!

 

[TGBeldin]

She won't even remember your name!

How wrong you may be!

 

[VJLUTZ]

Seen the DL/Green Card/Passport, the China husband, the US boyfriend(s), the legal/medical/business issues, and children, relatives and friends.
I've taken them places by air, land and sea that put them completely in my care and protection.
They "trust" me with so much deeply personal information, and they actually seem eager to be with me.

Yet, I am not from their culture, nor "rich", and I do not hide my marital status. So my question is "Why me?"

Why me? is an excellent question. The answer probably varies for each girl. However, I suspect it is a combination of looks, skill, personality, gravitas and karma. A lot of these girls want someone they have a rapport with, can trust and will help them. However, more superficial factors like appearance, [perceived] wealth and sexual skill cannot be discounted either. It all has to come together in a way that makes you irresistible to them.

As far as culture, I get the feeling that many Asian women are fed up by men from their culture. They are also fascinated by American men & what we can do for them. Especially since we can put them on the track to citizenship.

I think I've said this before: Asian women seem far more attracted to me than White women. And, luckily, at this point in my life, I am more attracted to them too. Like you, I have often wondered: Why?

 

[PurpleRayne33]

Must look like you were born in the Sixties.

 

[superman06]

when are you gong back home to see your hubby or bf?
(.)(.)

 

[Slimm]

I would like to know their real names but hardly ever ask. I remember I asked one of them "So, are you a Kim or a Lee?", and she burst out laughing. She was a Lee, and she told me her first name too.

 

[Mampr]

When one of the ones I know well comes to visit for a (non working) vacation, this is one of the conversation topics that often comes up: she reflects on how much longer she will work, the pluses and minuses. It often digressed into these topics.

They use different words, but the ones who have survived in the business all compartmentalize it. Just like guys I know in other jobs they really would rather not be doing, from offices to manual labor to some sleazy work of different types. They compartmentalize the work as almost a different reality, different person, from the rest of their life and in many ways try to forget it (or at least not think about it) when off work.

Most say they have a few clients they like and enjoy--the ones who treat them like "a real person", be it a friend or just a really good lover. They have had some men who they despised, the ones who act as if she should be grateful that they see her. But most are work--emotionally nothing, neither good nor bad.

I've not been off on vacation with any but I do have a beyond-work relationship with a couple of girls which have included some very candid conversations. Basically, they say what TGBeldin's ones have told him, with particular emphasis on liking a handful of clients that treat them as not just a "real person" but with respect.

 

[chunfun]

I would like to know their real names but hardly ever ask. I remember I asked one of them "So, are you a Kim or a Lee?", and she burst out laughing. She was a Lee, and she told me her first name too.

Just ask. If she likes you and trusts you, she will tell you.