Yes, yes, yes ! Over time, they will not be as inscrutable as they appear. What happens is as you get to know them, understand them and love them, you are able to read them and find out what you want or in some cases don’t want to know. You may find out by their actions, or by what other spa workers tell you, or thru actual conversations. As you come to know and understand them, you will find that you really don’t want to know what you are finding out. We tell ourselves that it can’t really be true and we get in deeper and deeper and deeper until it is too late and then we blame them. When it was really us who dove deeper. It was all there for us to see, we saw it but ignored it, preferring what we wanted to what was real. They do love us, as much as they can given their obligations, commitments and existing relationships, but unfortunately, often that’s not enough for us.
“.it also should be noted that they don't often ask questions directly and very often a casual observation can be an important question in disguise.”
This is we need to be very astute. Depends on how long I’ve known them, but if I’ve known them a long time, and they start asking about certain things I get nervous. I’ve found they have great memories. You might mention something in passing, but they will bring it up months later and frame what you said in a serious comment or discussion.
......just kidding lol I love the Chinese zodiac!
