This was exactly my take on this guy, as well: he doesn’t partake because of the risk, which is fine and not something that anybody would ever comment on, let alone criticize; meanwhile, it apparently drives him nuts to constantly read about other guys having the times of their lives, because they’ve decided to accept a higher level of risk. Other than being a classic example of sour grapes, I can’t imagine his motivation to argue this much about it, even if you give him the benefit of the doubt that his motivation for his OP was purely altruistic concern for guys he doesn’t even know except by their accounts of all the girls they’re BB’ing. I’m going with sour grapes, here, vs. altruism.