It is nice to see a thread about us "more experienced" men.
I find it interesting to read other posters experiences. I have a different situation because I am almost constantly on the road. Other than a few cities I get to often, most the women i have seen know it will likely be quite a while before I get back to visit them. Some still write/text, but hardly ever with a "why don't you come see me today" kind of message--the ones that used to have realized it has a low return on their investment of time.
What I tend to get are more calls asking for advice on life in the US. Or someone to talk with because they are homesick/lonely. Sometimes a happy birthday call, or to send me a photo from a trip or family. I enjoy it, though I am sure a lot of guys would not.