For older guys..

[East Lake II]

My problem is that these providers and SBs keep calling a few times a week, so it becomes harder to stay away for more than a couple of days at a time. Too frequent draining then leads to less satisfying session next time around. I need to resist the urge but it’s not easy

This can become a real problem. I’m to the point where I don’t want their number no matter how good they are. There are too many out there and I don’t want to feel obligated to see a certain one just cause she called and sent a text or two.

 

[East Lake II]

A diversion to main topic, but curious -why would providers call you? how do amps have your number? Such a call might be too difficult to handle for married guys!!

Seriously, they call cause they want business. They know when you are home and what you do on weekends so they always call during the day.

 

[East Lake II]

Interesting observations, I’m guessing that they’re fairly typical at our age. Earlier there was a thread about supplements, etc... Late in that thorough discussion a gent shared about the importance of exercise as opposed to artificial supplementation.

I must say having finally gone back to the gym, in my case, he is 100% correct. Viagra is great, but exercise is even better.

Fantasy is the next discussion frontier. Knowing what you like - no matter where that takes - and actively exploring that is my thing now.

“Fantasy is the next discussion frontier. Knowing what you like - no matter where that takes - and actively exploring that is my thing now.”
Same here and it’s been a great ride. I find it interesting how no matter what it is, once you bring it up with the provider she’s got experience with it and will ask how you want it. They are never shocked or surprised. And, as you delve deeper, they will tell you about customer x who wants this or wants it this way, and ask if you would like it that way as well. They love it, as it’s one more hook they have on you.

A few providers have told me that their MMS wants to know about any non standard services. They claim it was for when they leave, the MMS will know exactly what you want and brief the new one.

 

[didi88]

This can become a real problem. I’m to the point where I don’t want their number no matter how good they are. There are too many out there and I don’t want to feel obligated to see a certain one just cause she called and sent a text or two.

I never feel obligated to see them if they get in touch. It’s just the reminder that temptation is out there that’s hard to resist. It may not even be for the provider that texted, just for the scene in general

 

[Uniquelyme]

I never feel obligated to see them if they get in touch. It’s just the reminder that temptation is out there that’s hard to resist. It may not even be for the provider that texted, just for the scene in general

I've got a few that text every few weeks on wechat. "I miss you" after the hello text. Lol it's a cute game they try and play.I play along tell them I miss them too. "Come in today" lol

 

[Koondog]

I've got a few that text every few weeks on wechat. "I miss you" after the hello text. Lol it's a cute game they try and play.I play along tell them I miss them too. "Come in today" lol

When they do that I text them "I miss you too, so let's go a hotel and spend the day together tomorrow". That shuts them up.

 

[Uniquelyme]

When they do that I text them "I miss you too, so let's go a hotel and spend the day together tomorrow". That shuts them up.

You don't know how to play along!! Lol

 

[haaretz]

I never feel obligated to see them if they get in touch. It’s just the reminder that temptation is out there that’s hard to resist. It may not even be for the provider that texted, just for the scene in general

...and this thread is for us older guys who've been ignored by the fair sex, so.. Mine will text reminders that I'm overdue for a checkup, complete with goofy Asian chick emojis. It's marketing but much nicer than robo calls.

 

[Wayne1250]

Us older guys rule. I am sitting next to a provider I just met while having lunch. She says are you blah, blah blah blah? I said but I am old guy.. She says that we all like older guys because you know how to treat women. The Asian culture values maturity first.

 

[chunfun]

Us older guys rule. I am sitting next to a provider I just met while having lunch. She says are you blah, blah blah blah? I said but I am old guy.. She says that we all like older guys because you know how to treat women. The Asian culture values maturity first.

To some extent they also like us old guys because once it's over...it's over. The younger versions of us might not be as welcome. 2-3 consecutive pops without rest would definitely cause problems in the spa. Only girlfriends and lovers will endure that kind of boning.

 

[chunfun]

Although, some of the spas in NYC and PHL allow 2 pops as the regular menu! But you'll pay big city prices.

 

[East Lake II]

When they do that I text them "I miss you too, so let's go a hotel and spend the day together tomorrow". That shuts them up.

I’ll ask, “Why do I only hear from you when you are working?”

 

[solomon_456]

I've been busting one out every hour and rarely 2 for the past 15 yrs and I'm 39. I fuck intercourse during a 60 minute session 15 mins and bbbj I get for about 10 mins, foreplay, showers time goes quick. I can bust twice but has to be 1hr30mins. I've never understood the need to bust twice in an hour. My orgasms are intense and long. So I get to the spot kiss undress if she's sexy this takes 5 mins. Shower 5 mins Bbbj 10 mins, daty 5 mins (not often) fuck 15 mins, bbbj cim 3 mins =43 mins - shower 5 mins, pillow chat and chill the rest of the time.

The longer you can prolong your orgasm the more intense it is and the harder it will be to get a second one, guys who can’t hold it that long can get a second ine sooner because they didn’t get it out as much. That’s my two cents, I might be wrong though

 

[BillaBong]

I’m 40, fit and workout an hour a day. I cannot pop twice within an hour. I would need at least another hour or two before I can pop again.

I was able to pop twice within an hour until I was in my mid-thirties but not anymore.

Unlike David Ortiz and Manny Ramirez (yes, I’m a Yankee fan) I don’t take any type of pills or performance-enhancing substances. lol

Key thing is to hold on you coming as long as one can because after that the girls will usually wind down

 

[BillaBong]

To some extent they also like us old guys because once it's over...it's over. The younger versions of us might not be as welcome. 2-3 consecutive pops without rest would definitely cause problems in the spa. Only girlfriends and lovers will endure that kind of boning.

Ya, haha..once over is over

 

[TGBeldin]

It is nice to see a thread about us "more experienced" men.

I find it interesting to read other posters experiences. I have a different situation because I am almost constantly on the road. Other than a few cities I get to often, most the women i have seen know it will likely be quite a while before I get back to visit them. Some still write/text, but hardly ever with a "why don't you come see me today" kind of message--the ones that used to have realized it has a low return on their investment of time.

What I tend to get are more calls asking for advice on life in the US. Or someone to talk with because they are homesick/lonely. Sometimes a happy birthday call, or to send me a photo from a trip or family. I enjoy it, though I am sure a lot of guys would not.

 

[haaretz]

It is nice to see a thread about us "more experienced" men.

I find it interesting to read other posters experiences. I have a different situation because I am almost constantly on the road. Other than a few cities I get to often, most the women i have seen know it will likely be quite a while before I get back to visit them. Some still write/text, but hardly ever with a "why don't you come see me today" kind of message--the ones that used to have realized it has a low return on their investment of time.

What I tend to get are more calls asking for advice on life in the US. Or someone to talk with because they are homesick/lonely. Sometimes a happy birthday call, or to send me a photo from a trip or family. I enjoy it, though I am sure a lot of guys would not.

Traveling businessman type?

I have two CFs that I alternate between, depending on the time of the month and so on.
While I comprehend that it's business to them in their outreach gestures, it's also highly personal.

The independent ones tend to be lonely, especially if there is no community of expatriates in the vicinity.

 

[TGBeldin]

I have one I am very close with who retired, and had some very bad things happen (not her doing, but she is the one who suffers). Moved away from where she was to a more rural area. The loneliness issue is real.

 

[didi88]

Us older guys rule. I am sitting next to a provider I just met while having lunch. She says are you blah, blah blah blah? I said but I am old guy.. She says that we all like older guys because you know how to treat women. The Asian culture values maturity first.

Yeah mature guys with $$$..

 

[chunfun]

The longer you can prolong your orgasm the more intense it is and the harder it will be to get a second one, guys who can’t hold it that long can get a second ine sooner because they didn’t get it out as much. That’s my two cents, I might be wrong though

It's age and inactivity that slowed me down. I had control across multiple orgasms. Not anymore. I can control the first one pretty well, but it's over when it's over. The best of the best can keep me hard, but all I can do is give her a nice ride. If she doesn't want it, I'm wasting my time.