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Dating a provider?
- Thread starter rya550
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If you're not in it for a relationship, like she seems to want, then drop her. If you're in it for the long haul, and willing to accept her (and if she was actually being honest about giving it all up) then that's up to you to decide.
Either way, be up front about what you want with her. If you're just in it for the fun, and she gives up her job for you (her sole means of income), then tell her so she can make her own decision as well.
I was in a similar situation during the thick of this pandemic. Started seeing a new provider, and on her part she seemed to really like me. She told me how this job is shameful to her (many of them have told me this though), and that if I would wait for her because she was only doing this to pay a debt, and that she wanted to come over to my place and sleep with me on my bed, she offered me bbfs and even told me she loved me. I felt bad for her, and so I had to put her down, gently of course.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't give them false hope. I know a vast majority of them, string us along and some of us even fall for it. But for those of us who know better, we should at least act better than them, and realize its just their hussle.
Either way, be up front about what you want with her. If you're just in it for the fun, and she gives up her job for you (her sole means of income), then tell her so she can make her own decision as well.
I was in a similar situation during the thick of this pandemic. Started seeing a new provider, and on her part she seemed to really like me. She told me how this job is shameful to her (many of them have told me this though), and that if I would wait for her because she was only doing this to pay a debt, and that she wanted to come over to my place and sleep with me on my bed, she offered me bbfs and even told me she loved me. I felt bad for her, and so I had to put her down, gently of course.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't give them false hope. I know a vast majority of them, string us along and some of us even fall for it. But for those of us who know better, we should at least act better than them, and realize its just their hussle.
I'm not going to say they are all bad but its extremely high risk. I've made this mistake more than once in the past. Even knowing it was only temporary and that I was only in it for the sex. What ruined it was getting to involded or knowing too much about their personal lives and afairs. I got to see the reality they hid from clients. Even the most well put together ladies were hiding something. In my experience its been drugs, alcohol, personal and emotional trama, and financial dependency. They aren't all bad but just ask yourself if that's something you wouldn't want from anyone else you would date then why accept it just because she is a provider or former provider. Chances are nothing has changed in your life that would accommodate her issues and she is very likely to have issues.
I agree. But sometimes they read into it too much too quickly.
“I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't give them false hope. I know a vast majority of them, string us along and some of us even fall for it. But for those of us who know better, we should at least act better than them, and realize its just their hussle.”
I’ve never wanted or tried to give them what you call false hope but some thought there was more there there was and got really pissed.
“I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't give them false hope. I know a vast majority of them, string us along and some of us even fall for it. But for those of us who know better, we should at least act better than them, and realize its just their hussle.”
I’ve never wanted or tried to give them what you call false hope but some thought there was more there there was and got really pissed.
Two peas in a pod if you ask me.
I heard horror stories from prostitutes regarding tricks.
Obsessive Stalking
Attachment issues
Sexual Addiction
Borderline Personality Disorder
Sociopathy
Depression
Alcoholism
Problems with self esteem
Commitment issues
And, the list goes on.
Moral of the story is that there are a lot of screwed up people on both sides of the hobby.
I heard horror stories from prostitutes regarding tricks.
Obsessive Stalking
Attachment issues
Sexual Addiction
Borderline Personality Disorder
Sociopathy
Depression
Alcoholism
Problems with self esteem
Commitment issues
And, the list goes on.
Moral of the story is that there are a lot of screwed up people on both sides of the hobby.
I saw a spa girl last week and she asked if I had a girlfriend. When I told her no, she asked why? Did I have a bad temper? I said that wasn't the problem. Then I asked her if she had a boyfriend. She said no. I asked why not? She said because she has a bad temper! LOLOLOL!!!
Back in the winter I was hanging out with a spa girl once a week or so. More when she was off for her period. She told me that she really liked me and that she would only be working for a couple of more years!!!! So be patient with her and in two years she'll be ALL MINE!
One time I went to see her when she was working and she genuinely looked ashamed that I was there. She told me to not come visit her anymore because I was special to her. But as soon as we were done she put out her hand and said "You still tip me, right????"
The amount of guys (CUSTOMERS) that these spa girls have in their wechat contact list is IMPRESSIVE. Unless a girl actually sees you on her days off AND HAS SEX WITH YOU FOR FREE, you're just another client that is banging her for $$$$
The girls that I know that have gotten out of the spa game in the past ten years in Flushing and have settled into a normal life is THREE. Yes. 3. THREE.
You have better odds playing the lottery than thinking you're gonna wifey up a spa girl. Or even make her your girlfriend. Can you have great sex with some of these girls? YES. Can you have a good, stable, honest relationship with some of these girls? PROBABLY NOT.
Back in the winter I was hanging out with a spa girl once a week or so. More when she was off for her period. She told me that she really liked me and that she would only be working for a couple of more years!!!! So be patient with her and in two years she'll be ALL MINE!
One time I went to see her when she was working and she genuinely looked ashamed that I was there. She told me to not come visit her anymore because I was special to her. But as soon as we were done she put out her hand and said "You still tip me, right????"
The amount of guys (CUSTOMERS) that these spa girls have in their wechat contact list is IMPRESSIVE. Unless a girl actually sees you on her days off AND HAS SEX WITH YOU FOR FREE, you're just another client that is banging her for $$$$
The girls that I know that have gotten out of the spa game in the past ten years in Flushing and have settled into a normal life is THREE. Yes. 3. THREE.
You have better odds playing the lottery than thinking you're gonna wifey up a spa girl. Or even make her your girlfriend. Can you have great sex with some of these girls? YES. Can you have a good, stable, honest relationship with some of these girls? PROBABLY NOT.
I saw a spa girl last week and she asked if I had a girlfriend. When I told her no, she asked why? Did I have a bad temper? I said that wasn't the problem. Then I asked her if she had a boyfriend. She said no. I asked why not? She said because she has a bad temper! LOLOLOL!!!
Back in the winter I was hanging out with a spa girl once a week or so. More when she was off for her period. She told me that she really liked me and that she would only be working for a couple of more years!!!! So be patient with her and in two years she'll be ALL MINE!
One time I went to see her when she was working and she genuinely looked ashamed that I was there. She told me to not come visit her anymore because I was special to her. But as soon as we were done she put out her hand and said "You still tip me, right????"
The amount of guys (CUSTOMERS) that these spa girls have in their wechat contact list is IMPRESSIVE. Unless a girl actually sees you on her days off AND HAS SEX WITH YOU FOR FREE, you're just another client that is banging her for $$$$
The girls that I know that have gotten out of the spa game in the past ten years in Flushing and have settled into a normal life is THREE. Yes. 3. THREE.
You have better odds playing the lottery than thinking you're gonna wifey up a spa girl. Or even make her your girlfriend. Can you have great sex with some of these girls? YES. Can you have a good, stable, honest relationship with some of these girls? PROBABLY NOT.
Back in the winter I was hanging out with a spa girl once a week or so. More when she was off for her period. She told me that she really liked me and that she would only be working for a couple of more years!!!! So be patient with her and in two years she'll be ALL MINE!
One time I went to see her when she was working and she genuinely looked ashamed that I was there. She told me to not come visit her anymore because I was special to her. But as soon as we were done she put out her hand and said "You still tip me, right????"
The amount of guys (CUSTOMERS) that these spa girls have in their wechat contact list is IMPRESSIVE. Unless a girl actually sees you on her days off AND HAS SEX WITH YOU FOR FREE, you're just another client that is banging her for $$$$
The girls that I know that have gotten out of the spa game in the past ten years in Flushing and have settled into a normal life is THREE. Yes. 3. THREE.
You have better odds playing the lottery than thinking you're gonna wifey up a spa girl. Or even make her your girlfriend. Can you have great sex with some of these girls? YES. Can you have a good, stable, honest relationship with some of these girls? PROBABLY NOT.
I saw a spa girl last week and she asked if I had a girlfriend. When I told her no, she asked why? Did I have a bad temper? I said that wasn't the problem. Then I asked her if she had a boyfriend. She said no. I asked why not? She said because she has a bad temper! LOLOLOL!!!
Back in the winter I was hanging out with a spa girl once a week or so. More when she was off for her period. She told me that she really liked me and that she would only be working for a couple of more years!!!! So be patient with her and in two years she'll be ALL MINE!
One time I went to see her when she was working and she genuinely looked ashamed that I was there. She told me to not come visit her anymore because I was special to her. But as soon as we were done she put out her hand and said "You still tip me, right????"
The amount of guys (CUSTOMERS) that these spa girls have in their wechat contact list is IMPRESSIVE. Unless a girl actually sees you on her days off AND HAS SEX WITH YOU FOR FREE, you're just another client that is banging her for $$$$
The girls that I know that have gotten out of the spa game in the past ten years in Flushing and have settled into a normal life is THREE. Yes. 3. THREE.
You have better odds playing the lottery than thinking you're gonna wifey up a spa girl. Or even make her your girlfriend. Can you have great sex with some of these girls? YES. Can you have a good, stable, honest relationship with some of these girls? PROBABLY NOT.
Back in the winter I was hanging out with a spa girl once a week or so. More when she was off for her period. She told me that she really liked me and that she would only be working for a couple of more years!!!! So be patient with her and in two years she'll be ALL MINE!
One time I went to see her when she was working and she genuinely looked ashamed that I was there. She told me to not come visit her anymore because I was special to her. But as soon as we were done she put out her hand and said "You still tip me, right????"
The amount of guys (CUSTOMERS) that these spa girls have in their wechat contact list is IMPRESSIVE. Unless a girl actually sees you on her days off AND HAS SEX WITH YOU FOR FREE, you're just another client that is banging her for $$$$
The girls that I know that have gotten out of the spa game in the past ten years in Flushing and have settled into a normal life is THREE. Yes. 3. THREE.
You have better odds playing the lottery than thinking you're gonna wifey up a spa girl. Or even make her your girlfriend. Can you have great sex with some of these girls? YES. Can you have a good, stable, honest relationship with some of these girls? PROBABLY NOT.
