There are too many of them like that. I guess within their circle, this abnormal becomes a norm, nothing peculiar. Happily married, I doubt it. Its a mutual benefit, here you have a man behind you and also the father of your kids, there you have the financial support. And all their friends are like that, nothing to be shamed about. I was in a spa recently when the husband was enjoying lunch while the wife owner being banged in a room, business as usual. Not you and me.
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Dating a provider?
- Thread starter rya550
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“Happily married” depends on how they define it. It may not be a romantic, loving relationship but rather a marriage of convenience for both of them. And also consider the possibility that the husband/BF might be doing his own hobbying while his mate is working at the spa. I know of one Chinese woman who actually saw customers at her own home while her husband was in another room. They needed money so he put up with it
How does it work with American girls either? Why would a hot young girl at the height of her youth and beauty be with a useless thug/pimp in a situation where she has to bang other guys to support them both? Why would she rather have that life over being with one of her well off clients? The answer? Because females are nuts, that's why.
Its actually trauma and history. All people seek out comfort. You do this unconsciously. If you gre w up seeing mom get hit you'll seek out a partner who is abusive because v its familiar. Thats what love is for them. If a guy isn't abusive they'd think he doesn't love them. Yes, its distorted but a product of conditioning. Add self esteem issues, substance se, etc. You get the picture.
Their children know. But, the last thing they want is for their daughters to be involved in the business. I’ve gone to their homes when their children have been there, they have invited me to join them for dinners with their daughters and sons. I’ve met more daughters than sons. Usually they ask their sons or daughters along as they have questions about colleges, trade schools, applications, etc. A few have had legal questions.
Did the "dating" thing with a provider for a few months but not my cup of tea. It was fun but the whole scenario is weird to me but that is just me.
A lot of good information has already been provided, especially by BroBear. I will just say this.
You, especially you, have to respect the dynamics of that relationship. If you or the girl is trying to make it into something more than what it should be, you will need to pull out for obvious reasons. If you can do that, then sure, go for it. These girls come here to "work" but they are girls nonetheless. So show them around cause what girl doesn't love a little adventure. Be cool and casual about the whole thing.
But if you find yourself entertaining the idea of making it into something real, come on over to this site. Read a review. Will help you purge that silly thought and just have fun with it.
A lot of good information has already been provided, especially by BroBear. I will just say this.
You, especially you, have to respect the dynamics of that relationship. If you or the girl is trying to make it into something more than what it should be, you will need to pull out for obvious reasons. If you can do that, then sure, go for it. These girls come here to "work" but they are girls nonetheless. So show them around cause what girl doesn't love a little adventure. Be cool and casual about the whole thing.
But if you find yourself entertaining the idea of making it into something real, come on over to this site. Read a review. Will help you purge that silly thought and just have fun with it.
I think that depends on the type of person you are, and what you're willing to accept or tolerate. In addition to that, who you are willing to become.
I feel as if its two separate things. One is a married provider and the other is a, in most cases single, young female. In the case of the married provider, I just don't see the point of a husband he is dead weight, so why keep him around? Unless they actually love each other, but that must be a mentally exhausting relationship. In the case of the young provider, I feel as if it more has to do with money and having that luxurious life style (look at those instagram "models" who go to Saudi Arabia). But in the end I suppose both situations are tied to money.
I feel as if its two separate things. One is a married provider and the other is a, in most cases single, young female. In the case of the married provider, I just don't see the point of a husband he is dead weight, so why keep him around? Unless they actually love each other, but that must be a mentally exhausting relationship. In the case of the young provider, I feel as if it more has to do with money and having that luxurious life style (look at those instagram "models" who go to Saudi Arabia). But in the end I suppose both situations are tied to money.
That’s true. In the case I cited, this woman had a daughter who knew what her mom was doing, and hated her for it. Fortunately, her father was emotionally supportive and the girl did well in school, eventually graduated from college, and found a good job. So despite having a degenerate parent, she was able to go in the opposite direction