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Dating a provider?
- Thread starter rya550
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I know of several providers ,who I have become friends with ,over the years.
We get together for dinners, see a Chinese movie or two at AMC, and even hit the casinos. Even been to some weddings with them.
They are normal people and it is not all work .
Outside the work place, I treat them as I would anyone else and if you do develop a friendship you should too.
We get together for dinners, see a Chinese movie or two at AMC, and even hit the casinos. Even been to some weddings with them.
They are normal people and it is not all work .
Outside the work place, I treat them as I would anyone else and if you do develop a friendship you should too.
The big questions here is - define "dating". Technically, and if you look at it from a different perspective you do the same "see a girl who might average 4+ etc." but without a personal connection and also damage yourself in a certain financial way, right? So, emotions and feelings aside I don't see a big deal in dating a provider, it all depends on what you are looking for as Bricktop had said. It may turn out to be a good relationship for all with no strings attached. Not talking about marriages though.
I’ll meet the amp providers during their day off. We’ll spend a day together, eat, hang out, drink and spend the night at their place and have sex. I’ll leave them $500 with a thank you note and leave. They refuse the money but I insist they keep it.
They fully understand that I’m not looking for a relationship.
They give me great sex and I compensate them for their time.
There is one apartment complex in Flushing and I’ve seen four different providers in that same building. The guy at the front desk gives me a funny look when he sees me. lol.
They fully understand that I’m not looking for a relationship.
They give me great sex and I compensate them for their time.
There is one apartment complex in Flushing and I’ve seen four different providers in that same building. The guy at the front desk gives me a funny look when he sees me. lol.
Totally depends on you and what your intentions are, and I guess your mental stability as well. Are you the jealous / paranoid type? Can you mentally handle the fact that your woman does things like bbbj, cim, p2p rubbing, or maybe even bbfs? If your goal is a relationship, and you can't handle the thought of some of these things I've stated, then maybe its not a good idea.
If you're just looking to have fun and know its not gonna be anything serious then go for it. But just remember, shes not your girl, shes everyone's girl.
Also like a couple of members have stated, outside of the spa, these girls are just normal women. So treat them like a normal girl. I took a spa girl and her roommate out to a bar a couple of years back. Another time I took a girl to see Crazy Rich Asians, cause she really wanted to go see it. Most recently I've been meeting with another spa girl, and we've just been going to different parks and walking around. Point is, maybe don't expect sex. Maybe they're willing or want to hang out with you, because they're comfortable with you or they just wanna chill with someone they trust. If you think about it, they get the D multiple times a day, what makes you think she wants it on her off hours? (but then again, that's subjective. depends on the type of woman. if anything let her initiate.)
But yeah... I don't know the status or the type of relationship you have with your provider. So assess the situation yourself, and if you can handle it and want to do it, go for it.
If you're just looking to have fun and know its not gonna be anything serious then go for it. But just remember, shes not your girl, shes everyone's girl.
Also like a couple of members have stated, outside of the spa, these girls are just normal women. So treat them like a normal girl. I took a spa girl and her roommate out to a bar a couple of years back. Another time I took a girl to see Crazy Rich Asians, cause she really wanted to go see it. Most recently I've been meeting with another spa girl, and we've just been going to different parks and walking around. Point is, maybe don't expect sex. Maybe they're willing or want to hang out with you, because they're comfortable with you or they just wanna chill with someone they trust. If you think about it, they get the D multiple times a day, what makes you think she wants it on her off hours? (but then again, that's subjective. depends on the type of woman. if anything let her initiate.)
But yeah... I don't know the status or the type of relationship you have with your provider. So assess the situation yourself, and if you can handle it and want to do it, go for it.
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If you're just looking to have fun and know its not gonna be anything serious then go for it. But just remember, shes not your girl, shes everyone's girl.
Great advice and spot on as a provider is keeping every door open and failure to understand this fact will lead to jealousy and bitter feelings.
If you're just looking to have fun and know its not gonna be anything serious then go for it. But just remember, shes not your girl, shes everyone's girl.
Great advice and spot on as a provider is keeping every door open and failure to understand this fact will lead to jealousy and bitter feelings.
There are girls I would totally try and have a relationship with outside of the hobby, and there are girls who I would totally stay away from.
The ones I would see outside I totally would chill with, go out to eat, see a movie, etc. and then hopefully spend the night together (if they want). I know there real names, family details, etc. There are other girls who are dimes but are totally in the business of business. I would love to see them outside of this, but again it would be transactional in one sense or another - they would be more a SB than a true provider.
The ones I would see outside I totally would chill with, go out to eat, see a movie, etc. and then hopefully spend the night together (if they want). I know there real names, family details, etc. There are other girls who are dimes but are totally in the business of business. I would love to see them outside of this, but again it would be transactional in one sense or another - they would be more a SB than a true provider.
The thread you linked is about falling in love with a provider.
Here is one that covers asking one out and dating. Both have a lot of information and personal experiences.
https://ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/asking-a-amp-girl-out.33652/
Here is one that covers asking one out and dating. Both have a lot of information and personal experiences.
https://ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/asking-a-amp-girl-out.33652/
Been with many out of the spa. Even the ones that are transactional are a lot of fun. A real thrill ride. But it doesn’t last long. Either for her or me. Just can’t keep juicing the thrill meter. The other ones, some I’ve been seeing for many years and we’ve done a lot and had a great time. The problem is when they invite their friends along and their friends want my contact information. Never a good thing.
I totally get that, I normally see IND girls. And as I mentioned there are chill girls and then there are the girls which has been are expecting Hermès and Louis Vuitton. Those are the girls that are cheaper to keep it strictly professional, unless you decide to find yourself a woman who wishes to be “kept” and you have the resources to do so
I hangout our with girls outside the spa for dinner, movie, KTV, occasionally some hanky panky. I even visit one of my old favorite that had move to LA when I visited there earlier this year. But nothing serious, most girls understand you not going to marry then even though they are willing to marry you. The are normal people just looking for Normal social interaction and some fun on their off days. Definitely don’t recommend getting serious unless you are okay with their work history.
Most of these girls have a husband or ex-husband that they are supporting in China or a boyfriend (either unemployed and relying on her), drives an Uber or Chinese cab (nothing wrong with that), or has a job but pays very little and they live together in Flushing.
So these girls love to get away for a day or two. So I’ll pick them up, go for a drive, grab a bite, drink a bottle of wine and spend the night together.
So these girls love to get away for a day or two. So I’ll pick them up, go for a drive, grab a bite, drink a bottle of wine and spend the night together.
I don't understand how that dynamic works. I know a spa girl, in Elmhurst, who is married to her high school sweetheart. She told me he works, but gets paid very little (about $120 a day). I didn't inquire further about their relationship, I'm not the type of person who likes to pry. But how in the hell does that relationship work? The guy either doesn't know or he does know. If he does know, it must be killing him, as I'm pretty sure it would torment me if I were him. If he doesn't know, well holy hell... wouldn't want to be him. As for that relationship, I was speaking of, the girl told me they are happily married.