Confused

[RJ7]

Has anyone experienced this?....I've been going to my "go to" place for about two months now. It's been nothing but strictly therapeutic until around my tenth visit (which was two visits ago) Ended with a HJ without even asking for it. On my next visit, which was my last visit, it wasn't offered and when I inquired, I was offered DIY which I declined. Different girl this time around but I've seen them both an equal amount of times and have great chemistry with both (or as I thought). I always figured it would happen eventually and it would be this girl that it happened with because of the chemistry and her sensual massages, but it was the other girl. Not sure if I even want to go back because you never know who you will get. It's not a line up or anything. Which ever one of the two is sitting on the sofa when you walk in is who you get. Just confusing because you would think they would be on the same page. Is this a one off or does this happen often?

Side note: I was tipping (double tipping) pretty good even for the therapeutic massage because it was excellent. I still gave a generous tip after the last disappointing outing, but it wasn't the standard that she was accustomed to getting from me.

 

[Ampme]

Has anyone experienced this?....I've been going to my "go to" place for about two months now. It's been nothing but strictly therapeutic until around my tenth visit (which was two visits ago) Ended with a HJ without even asking for it. On my next visit, which was my last visit, it wasn't offered and when I inquired, I was offered DIY which I declined. Different girl this time around but I've seen them both an equal amount of times and have great chemistry with both (or as I thought). I always figured it would happen eventually and it would be this girl that it happened with because of the chemistry and her sensual massages, but it was the other girl. Not sure if I even want to go back because you never know who you will get. It's not a line up or anything. Which ever one of the two is sitting on the sofa when you walk in is who you get. Just confusing because you would think they would be on the same page. Is this a one off or does this happen often?

Side note: I was tipping (double tipping) pretty good even for the therapeutic massage because it was excellent. I still gave a generous tip after the last disappointing outing, but it wasn't the standard that she was accustomed to getting from me.

They take ya for granted when you double tip. Go to Philly, get fs for the hj she or you gave.

 

[Freddy]

As a matter of fact, just yesterday, a girl I visit for foot reflexology and body massage combo, I asked for the full hour of just body massage, she never so much as hinted anything extra before. During the massage, she begins lightly running her fingers over my back and ass, never did that before, when I flipped she kept me covered, I pulled it down but she said “you do”, I asked her to do the deed, she eventually did, I don’t know if it was her first time, it sure felt like it, she hadn’t done much of it if any at all to this point, I guided her as to the appropriate stroke or she may have ripped my Johnson off my body, once she adjusted I blew my load, she wanted 1.0 tip, I gave her .6 which was what I had in my wallet. It’s a shop reported as non erotic, so I won’t review for obvious reasons. The massage was good, has been to this point. I wonder if it’ll ruin future visits, it’s a place I visit for actual therapy.

 

[Wayne1250]

I like Ampme's comment. If you want more just go to a place that guarantees more.

Or make an appointment with the girl that gave you the better service and build a relationship for continued better service. Never just do a walkin

 

[RJ7]

That's exactly how I feel about my future visit...Wondering if it will be awkward with her the next time since she wouldn't go for the HJ. Although she was cool and gave me a hug afterwards I didn't give her the norm. The standard damage is .6 for an hour but I always extend to 1.5 hours and leave 2.0 because the massage was that good and very sensual. When I got the HJ the other girl she never asked for a tip. I guess he just assumed that I would be generous as usual...which I was (a little too generous). Like I said before it's a crapshoot on which girl you will get so that makes it tough. This place advertises as therapeutic only as well so did I just get lucky that one time or should I go back and just play it cool? Obviously I really like this place but on the fence now.

 

[RJ7]

Good point. I have walked in on every visit. I like both girls so it worked for me but now I should just call ahead. The only thing is I really don't want to blow the other girl off completely. I do enjoy her massage and I thought I had more of a connection with her.

 

[East Lake II]

You can call ahead and schedule the one you want. Or, when you walk in, let them know who want. Personally, I think it’s time you move on. You can find a lot of AMPs where you can get a good massage and a decent HE for a less. But, if you are pleased with the service and the value, keep going. Just remember there is no such thing as legit, as you have found out.

 

[mitchxy1]

If you liked both girls and their massages, why stop? Just treat it as a one off since it seems like you weren't expecting it anyway. And why should you feel awkward? You didn't ask for it the first time around. Since you tip so much, maybe it was a "reward" for you. As long as you enjoy the massages and sensuality, don't worry so much about it. Maybe the drama and suspense of "will she or won't she" will keep it interesting. I myself have a goto that I've been seeing for months for legit massages, but I flirt with her often. She gives me sensual massages for which I tip extra. My birthday is coming up and I'm wondering if she'll give me a present? I doubt it though since the owner is really strict about extras. But if I get a bonus, that's how I'll treat it.
BTW, $110 tip for a 90 minute legit massage????? Wayyyy too much, even if you're being generous. Then when you get bonuses, they'll expect even more! You've established a way high floor and should be getting lots more in services for your tip amounts. Too late now.

 

[charliebrown]

Don't be confused. a legit massage parlor is just that, legit. If someone went above and beyond the typical services, keep your mouth shut and do not say anything to anyone. A Gentleman Never kisses and tells, A Masseuse never wacks and tells. If you like the massage from both woman, then keep seeing both woman. I wish you many more quality massages and I hope these providers are long term fixtures in your community.

 

[Srhsrh]

There’s a million reasons why action can be varying. Maybe the cops are watching. Maybe there is a woman coming in for a massage. Maybe she just had a call from her boyfriend and she’s getting back at him. Maybe you haven’t shown in a while and she’s upped the ante. Maybe she needs money bad this month. But no, the girls don’t necessarily talk and standardize service. Nope they don’t give every guy the same service.

I had a girl I regularly ass fucked, completely shut me down one day, because there was a nosy lady customer in the next room. She just said sorry next time. Adjust your tip if you’re unhappy, and if that doesn’t get what you want, move on.

 

[Ampme]

There’s a million reasons why action can be varying. Maybe the cops are watching. Maybe there is a woman coming in for a massage. Maybe she just had a call from her boyfriend and she’s getting back at him. Maybe you haven’t shown in a while and she’s upped the ante. Maybe she needs money bad this month. But no, the girls don’t necessarily talk and standardize service. Nope they don’t give every guy the same service.

I had a girl I regularly ass fucked, completely shut me down one day, because there was a nosy lady customer in the next room. She just said sorry next time. Adjust your tip if you’re unhappy, and if that doesn’t get what you want, move on.

I remember my ATF whispered in my ear, said quiet this time there's a woman here pointing at the door next to us

 

[krideynyc]

Maybe she confused with another regular?

 

[solomon_456]

I remember my ATF whispered in my ear, said quiet this time there's a woman here pointing at the door next to us

As if women can’t handle some extras?
I once recommended a woman friend of mine to an amp she got a great massage and then some boob massage and they got her an orgasm at the end and she loved it

 

[Ampme]

As if women can’t handle some extras?
I once recommended a woman friend of mine to an amp she got a great massage and then some boob massage and they got her an orgasm at the end and she loved it

No one can't handle. Provider said quiet. Called respect

 

[Srhsrh]

As if women can’t handle some extras?
I once recommended a woman friend of mine to an amp she got a great massage and then some boob massage and they got her an orgasm at the end and she loved it

Most women are not interested in sexual activity during massage, despite our lurid lesbian fantasies. Although the woman in my story was quiet on the day I mentioned, she was in another time loudly complaining about her feet hurting, her back hurts, etc. Just another suburban wife with a bitchy attitude and lots of issues caused by being 75 pounds overweight. The spa girls called this woman hotteok, which is pancake, because she spread out across the whole table. Even if you’re bi-curious, how do you start with that mess?

 

[kgmspa]

Most women are not interested in sexual activity during massage, despite our lurid lesbian fantasies. Although the woman in my story was quiet on the day I mentioned, she was in another time loudly complaining about her feet hurting, her back hurts, etc. Just another suburban wife with a bitchy attitude and lots of issues caused by being 75 pounds overweight. The spa girls called this woman hotteok, which is pancake, because she spread out across the whole table. Even if you’re bi-curious, how do you start with that mess?

I concure my GF is not looking for anyrhing but a great massage at AMP! She is not bi-curious in any way. Hell my favorite massage girl has no interest ! Just how SHE takes care of business! I dont need that! I like seperate

 

[Koujiao]

Has anyone experienced this?....I've been going to my "go to" place for about two months now. It's been nothing but strictly therapeutic until around my tenth visit (which was two visits ago) Ended with a HJ without even asking for it. On my next visit, which was my last visit, it wasn't offered and when I inquired, I was offered DIY which I declined. Different girl this time around but I've seen them both an equal amount of times and have great chemistry with both (or as I thought). I always figured it would happen eventually and it would be this girl that it happened with because of the chemistry and her sensual massages, but it was the other girl. Not sure if I even want to go back because you never know who you will get. It's not a line up or anything. Which ever one of the two is sitting on the sofa when you walk in is who you get. Just confusing because you would think they would be on the same page. Is this a one off or does this happen often?

Side note: I was tipping (double tipping) pretty good even for the therapeutic massage because it was excellent. I still gave a generous tip after the last disappointing outing, but it wasn't the standard that she was accustomed to getting from me.

Severe overtipping will make some masseuses suspicious and uncomfortable, unless it is around chinese new year and in a red envelope. I've been told that too many guys believe overtipping buys them favoritism and special attention, and the right to misbehave.

 

[Srhsrh]

Severe overtipping will make some masseuses suspicious and uncomfortable, unless it is around chinese new year and in a red envelope. I've been told that too many guys believe overtipping buys them favoritism and special attention, and the right to misbehave.

But it does work. I know I overtip, and I know I get lots of extras, favoritism. Right to misbehave sounds too predatorial to me. I think of it like she’ll bend her rules for me. I never mess around with girls in legit service this way. But any girl that’s doing HJ already, is on a slippery slope IMO.

 

[mitchxy1]

Money talks, in every language.

 

[Ampme]

Severe overtipping will make some masseuses suspicious and uncomfortable, unless it is around chinese new year and in a red envelope. I've been told that too many guys believe overtipping buys them favoritism and special attention, and the right to misbehave.

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