Are there any mongers that are 35 and under?

[VJLUTZ]

I've posted on this topic before on other threads.

I think there HAS been a marked decline in the attractiveness of young women (18-29) raised in the US. Go back and look at pics from the 60s, 70s, and 80s. Girls in that age bracket used to be far more attractive. My wife and I both agree. She attributes the difference to the food supply. I have no idea, but its as good a theory as any. So many of these girls are fat and bland looking; to me, they evoke almost no sexual desire. The percentage who are 7+ out of 10 has declined from maybe 50% in the late 70s to 10-15%% today. The difference from my youth is actually pretty shocking. In Europe, where they have better food, women are far more attractive.

Even so, I think the younger guys are missing out by not going after civvies. It can be the School of Hard Knocks, but you definitely learn a lot. For most of my life, probably until the age of 40, I thought guys who had to "pay for it" were losers. My view on that has obviously changed, but I still think its better to get it for free than to have to pay (directly). Which is why I try to establish relationships with the better providers I meet. Trying to get a provider to give it up for free is a challenge and ultimately ups your game.

 

[PurpleRayne33]

I'd assume that food from the '80s was far more processed than that of the '60s (not to mention there's no lack of organic options today). Other factors could be growing portion sizes or chemical exposure such as herbicides, BPA, etc.

 

[Ronin]

Add in social media and video games instead of being outside....and fast food. Their foundation is shit.

 

[Srhsrh]

I've posted on this topic before on other threads.

I think there HAS been a marked decline in the attractiveness of young women (18-29) raised in the US. Go back and look at pics from the 60s, 70s, and 80s. Girls in that age bracket used to be far more attractive. My wife and I both agree. She attributes the difference to the food supply. I have no idea, but its as good a theory as any. So many of these girls are fat and bland looking; to me, they evoke almost no sexual desire. The percentage who are 7+ out of 10 has declined from maybe 50% in the late 70s to 10-15%% today. The difference from my youth is actually pretty shocking. In Europe, where they have better food, women are far more attractive.

Even so, I think the younger guys are missing out by not going after civvies. It can be the School of Hard Knocks, but you definitely learn a lot. For most of my life, probably until the age of 40, I thought guys who had to "pay for it" were losers. My view on that has obviously changed, but I still think its better to get it for free than to have to pay (directly). Which is why I try to establish relationships with the better providers I meet. Trying to get a provider to give it up for free is a challenge and ultimately ups your game.

Sounds like the music discussion to me, where you guys said there is no good music out there today.
Personally I think the problem is bad makeup, and chubby girls with too many piercings and tattoos, not the underlying fundamentals.

 

[TGBeldin]

I'd assume that food from the '80s was far more processed than that of the '60s (not to mention there's no lack of organic options today). Other factors could be growing portion sizes or chemical exposure such as herbicides, BPA, etc.

And lack of physical activity/sports in favor of computer games, disappearance of recess often for liability reasons, and other similar factors. Add in an incessant advertising campaign of junk food.

It doesn't help when there is also a big push to eliminate "body shaming" that goes to unreasonable lengths. While I agree it is cruel to taunt kids because their hair is the "wrong color" or they are an average looking person, etc., we still need to tell the 5'4" 250 pound person "you are fat--it is unattractive, and worse, unhealthy".

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Agree that on average the girls were prettier way back when. But the hottest ones today are hotter than the hottest of then.

Back the 125 lbs was the avg weight of the hot ones. Now it's 100 to 115. I prefer that. Also, I like straight, flat hair better than curly or poofed up.
Just my thoughts...

 

[2019]

I believe that some of the nationalities of the newer immigrants that are coming here are not attractive in my opinion. For me at least, I find a girl with German or Italian or Irish heritage much more attractive that a girl with Laos, or Nigerian, or Turkish heritage. There’s other reasons as well but that’s one of my opinions on it.

 

[Horseshoehandgrenade]

To each their own - personally I find girls today extremely attractive. As much as I think the Kardashians are a plague on society I don’t mind women trying to look like them lol. I think the makeup trends and the emphasis on ass are all positive developments.

I will say I think a lot of them are weird. They seem to want validation via social media and dating apps more than they actually want sex. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I will agree their behavior makes things harder.

 

[Bricktop]

This seems to be an old man's game, but I've always been a horny lad. I'm 27 and mongering.

Who else is a young'in?

Why? You’re not going to ever afford to retire

 

[VJLUTZ]

There is a school of thought that says the good looking women migrate to the trendy urban areas, leaving the dregs in the 'burbs and more rural areas. Maybe so. But I have not noticed that big of a difference in US cities, except maybe on SA profiles. A few years ago in London, I did not see one bad looking girl, but that's another story.

Again, pick up any yearbook from the 1960s. The students, both men and women, look much better and healthier. That's even with the square looking glasses they wore back then. My wife thinks that the 1960s were the time of peak attractiveness in the US and I agree with her.

Why are they so fat? For many of the reasons stated. Plus, they force-feed growth hormones to livestock. Eventually that shit ends up in our bodies. And even if the Powers-that-Be knew why we had an obesity epidemic, they wouldn't do jack about it. Far more $$ to be made from sickness than from health.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Why? You’re not going to ever afford to retire

Why not?
Both are doable.

 

[Hardrobert]

Not sure that women/young ladies/girls today are less pretty - but I agree they may be less attractive. My theory is that they do not take the time or expend the energy they used to in terms of dressing and grooming to attract the Male. Years ago a female dressing for a date might ask of another female "do you think he will like it?"; today if she asked that question she would be consigned to the politically incorrect re-education camp. They also dress (they think) for success and to compete in the work force with men. If I never see another pant suit again it is too soon. Whatever happened to stockings, heels, skirts that ended just above the knee and a blouse that had a little bit of decolletage to tease. Oh, and if you wash the hair it also helps.

 

[hithere456]

Not sure that women/young ladies/girls today are less pretty - but I agree they may be less attractive. My theory is that they do not take the time or expend the energy they used to in terms of dressing and grooming to attract the Male. Years ago a female dressing for a date might ask of another female "do you think he will like it?"; today if she asked that question she would be consigned to the politically incorrect re-education camp. They also dress (they think) for success and to compete in the work force with men. If I never see another pant suit again it is too soon. Whatever happened to stockings, heels, skirts that ended just above the knee and a blouse that had a little bit of decolletage to tease. Oh, and if you wash the hair it also helps.

Guess you don't live in NYC.

All I see this summer and especially during this heat wave is Tits and Ass left and right!

 

[Erotes]

Why? You’re not going to ever afford to retire

This seems to be an old man's game, but I've always been a horny lad. I'm 27 and mongering.

Who else is a young'in?

This is an old man's game because older people tend to have both higher income and higher disposable income because of smaller expenses (eg no kids in the house or in college).

But young people should first be concerned about building a good financial base and only then start hobbying.

 

[hithere456]

This is an old man's game because older people tend to have both higher income and higher disposable income because of smaller expenses (eg no kids in the house or in college).

But young people should first be concerned about building a good financial base and only then start hobbying.

This is an old man's game? Wtf you talking about???

I started in my teens...gone through stretches where I mongered hard (7-10 ladies a week)...then taken sabbaticals and committed to a single woman.

You're here once...enjoy it while you can!

 

[Erotes]

I'm not saying that you must be old or that only older folks partake, but the avg age of ppl on this forum is higher for a reason. Think about it.

 

[Srhsrh]

I think it’s dangerous to be young and dive heavily into this hobby. It does take significant time, that younger guys should be spending establishing themselves in a career, and can drain significantly from investments / retirement income.
I started early, where the summer job I had after high school was across the parking lot from and Asian spa that opened. I drained every penny I had into that place, and a ton of hours. It got me in serious trouble, resulting in delaying college and going into military. Walked away for about 30 years from heavy involvement. Now play 2-3 days a week, just using money that I’ve allocated for spending now, meaning retirement is safe. If I was young, I’d set a limit of say once a month, and stick to it. And certainly not if you’re dating . Unsafe to balance a young career, dating, and spa visits, IMO.

 

[DannyG]

Young or younger men imho, should go ahead and indulge, yet make an attempt to set a budget and adhere to it as much as possible, in the end you’ll spend your hard earned money on something else, might as well enjoy it.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Completely depends on the individual circumstances.

If a guy is a natural mesomorph with a strong jawline and chiseled facial features, and can fairly easily pull hot, young girls for free, then IMO he is nuts for doing this. And that goes for guys of any age.

If not the above, and he is unwilling to settle for plain janes, and has the $$$ for this type of thing, then go for it. I started at 20 and I am doing just fine. Just be sure to balance it out by cutting down in other areas. For instance, I've had 2 cars since 1995. Both have been Camries. My current is 14 years old.

 

[Ampme]

I always feel odd being one of the few younger mongers, makes me wonder wtf the providers are thinking when someone my age pays them a visit.

Lots of providers ask me my age. I tell them, they say really? You look 43, so now I'm 43.