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Are there any mongers that are 35 and under?

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Shibsaeggi

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freehappy4ever said:
Dating is different for your generation compared to the younger ones. Nowadays most men have no shot because women can easily find a better guy on social media, why would they give us the time of day?

It had gotten so bad for me that I felt like a worthless piece of shit since I was totally single while everyone else was out there in a relationship or having casual sex. That's when I came to the realization that normal dating just isn't for me.
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No need for you to feel like that. You’re right—dating is different now. And if you see a guy with a very attractive woman, he’s sacrificing a lot for her (e.g. time, money, emotional roller coaster).
 
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freehappy4ever said:
Idk how old are you, but your advice doesn't apply to modern women. They can easily find a better guy than you on the Internet. Hell, literally every woman with social media has guys sliding into her DMs.

I'm not a good looking guy, that's what online dating and social media has taught me. I go to the gym 5x a week, but it's not going to make my face more attractive. Why would a woman want an ugly, confident guy when a shy, good looking guy gives her genetically superior offspring? It's basic biology that goes back since the caveman days.
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Based on the women in their 20s that I have met, social status and money are the top two most important things that these women look for in a man.

I’m just an above-average looking man. I’ve met several members here so they’ll agree that I’m not a handsome guy. lol. And I’m in my 40s so I’m not a very young guy either.

At clubs such as PHD, Tao or at private parties, I’ll dress nice and give them my business card.

My success rate is 25% so I’ll strike out three out of four times but I’m fine with that. lol.

If I strike out then I’ll head out to an amp as back up. But one time, I struck out at 3am and there was no amp to go to so I just took a cab home. lol.
 
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Horseshoehandgrenade said:
Wow that article was really long but super interesting. I am technically on the old side of millennial but the younger generation has so many hang ups. I have def noticed when pursuing younger girls that a lot are down to flirt but can’t seem to actually pull the trigger on hooking up

Idk if you classify yourself as “incel” but you seem to share a lot of those views. I know stuff is complicated but all I can tell you is if you are projecting a self-pity, “poor me” attitude then things will never get better for you. Read the article - it says women who aren’t the best looking really get no messages or dates from apps either - if you’re not the best looking dude consider that your standards may be too high. Look around you - fugly looking people are getting together all the time lol

Trying to be compassionate bc Dating is super hard and frustrating - maybe now more than ever - but it’s worth it dude. Do the AMP thing or whatever to get by but don’t give up on actually connecting with a girl bc when it happens it’s the best thing ever.
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Great post. Many Women don't even use those dating apps. I see plenty of Women with average to non attractive Men some of which don't even have money. Women want a Confident, Intelligent, Funny, Attractive, Kind Man. Some do look more at attractiveness than some others do. However make the best of what you got. Dress well, work out make your body as nice as you can. Just be comfortable being you. Seeing these amp girls is sooooo easy.

freehappy4ever said:
I'm not even ugly, I'm just not attractive, but that might as well be considered ugly nowadays, if you're a guy because I'm being constantly compared to guys who are better looking than me...so I might as well be ugly.

If my league is a bunch of obese and deformed fugly women, why should I even play?
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Perhaps you are trying for girls too pretty but you don't have to date fugly Women as you call them. You need to love yourself and what you bring to the table as corny as that sounds that shit is real. I'm rooting for you dude.
 
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. If you think you are ugly then you will be ugly. Personality is so much more important. I am a good looking guy but that only goes so far. Women like confidence, sweet, and yes men who are successful far more than looks :)
 
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Thank you to everyone who's been contributing to this topic, but I have to disagree with all of you. Most members here are 40+ or are already attractive enough, so they don't understand what I've been going through.

All these posts telling me I need to be more confident or whatever feel like I'm being gaslighted, or that the experiences I've had can't be real. I know that isn't the intention, but it does come off that way.

So you enjoy hobbying + normal relationships, I'll try to enjoy hobbying even though I'll have a void forever inside me.
 
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freehappy4ever said:
Thank you to everyone who's been contributing to this topic, but I have to disagree with all of you. Most members here are 40+ or are already attractive enough, so they don't understand what I've been going through.

All these posts telling me I need to be more confident or whatever feel like I'm being gaslighted, or that the experiences I've had can't be real. I know that isn't the intention, but it does come off that way.

So you enjoy hobbying + normal relationships, I'll try to enjoy hobbying even though I'll have a void forever inside me.
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When you find that girl to fill the void she will tell you are worthless! Don't believe her! She is just like you trying to fill the void! One day I found a woman who loves me! She asks me why I still love someone else! I can only say I don't but if I did it would be you. She not believe me. Why should she!

Live your life! Always love the women you are with! And always try and be understanding too her! :)
 
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Don't be selfish! My friend! If you understand yourself and care about people around you and ask God for help it will be allot easier understanding her! It may not bring you too the promise land and great sex but you will have a new start! I have ti go now. My GF is demanding I eat pizza for dinner! :)
 
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freehappy4ever said:
Thank you to everyone who's been contributing to this topic, but I have to disagree with all of you. Most members here are 40+ or are already attractive enough, so they don't understand what I've been going through.

All these posts telling me I need to be more confident or whatever feel like I'm being gaslighted, or that the experiences I've had can't be real. I know that isn't the intention, but it does come off that way.

So you enjoy hobbying + normal relationships, I'll try to enjoy hobbying even though I'll have a void forever inside me.
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You may need to see a counselor or psychiatrist if you truly feel you have a void and can't overcome it on your own.

I don't see what you look like if I did I could judge better. I do know that you need to be optimistic and find the good qualities and attributes in oneself.
 
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kgmspa said:
Don't be selfish! My friend! If you understand yourself and care about people around you and ask God for help it will be allot easier understanding her! It may not bring you too the promise land and great sex but you will have a new start! I have ti go now. My GF is demanding I eat pizza for dinner! :)
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I'm not sure God approves of us being on a hobbying board, except maybe the God of Tits&Wine


Uniquelyme said:
You may need to see a counselor or psychiatrist if you truly feel you have a void and can't overcome it on your own.

I don't see what you look like if I did I could judge better. I do know that you need to be optimistic and find the good qualities and attributes in oneself.
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Don't worry, after I send you a selfie of me holding my driver's license, I'll also enter a 25% deposit for the session...wait, what? (that joke sucked)
 
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