I certainly understand the forget “normal” girls approach. I rarely date American women anymore, it was way too much of a PIA, and stupid to go through the dating rituals of having to get a couple dates in, before action happens (I’m not a tinder user).
And let’s not discuss the sexual attractiveness, of a chubby American suburban frau, with the predictable bad hair, troweled on make up, and too many tattoos. I’m old, so maybe it’s the style for 20 something’s, but American women that age look terrible in comparison to the women I see in other countries.