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Are there any mongers that are 35 and under?

FriedFugu

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20s squad represent! Let's play Smash Bros later, dudes, lol

Legit shocked to see exactly how young and old the hobby gets, especially for being online, but that's just my prejudice lol.

I think of this whole thing exactly how it's described often, a hobby. Ain't getting hung up on it, too young too worry :)
 

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In my 30's now but started in my 20's. I had similar reasons to OP for using AMPS. Dating was not working for me. I had confidence issues. Actually this hobby cured some of it. Knowing I could have sex with a woman anytime made me less desperate. Being young has its pros and cons. Sometimes I don't get extras cause they don't feel comfortable with young person. Sometimes (especially older milfs) really enjoy being with young guys.

Wow Fugu I didn't think you were in your 20's. Your post sound like you are a veteran of this hobby.
 

FriedFugu

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In my 30's now but started in my 20's. I had similar reasons to OP for using AMPS. Dating was not working for me. I had confidence issues. Actually this hobby cured some of it. Knowing I could have sex with a woman anytime made me less desperate. Being young has its pros and cons. Sometimes I don't get extras cause they don't feel comfortable with young person. Sometimes (especially older milfs) really enjoy being with young guys.

Wow Fugu I didn't think you were in your 20's. Your post sound like you are a veteran of this hobby.
lol, I just get around a bit and am a fast learner. I find it fun to test out new places rather than just visiting the same tired, but quality, spots that everyone else does, so maybe that makes me seem more experienced than I am. Honestly all you need is a year in the hobby to get yourself situated.
Never had younger women reject me, but I imagine the attitude stems to our stamina. Younger men are perceived to have more stamina, which means that we will likely get our full time with our youthful hard on, which is something they don't want too much of. They want to keep themselves unworn, and I can understand that.
Thankfully the older providers still look pretty young, and they can go too, if you find the right ones. They want to snag the young dudes and keep you on as a repeat customer, you'll be in the game longer in their eyes. My speculation.

Mixed bag anyway you go. I'm also more into the milfs so God bless this possible prejudice.

The only people I've been rejected or ignored by are the Chinese only people, of course, and then some higher end agencies and Indies. I don't have an office phone or a pension so screening into those is nigh impossible. Ah well.
 

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Fugu, do you look like your 20's? Thing is I've always looked younger than my age. Most people think I look younger than my real age. It doesn't help that have a soft looking effeminate face.
 

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Op have fun and Hobby truly just hobby. All you young guys on here. You can't score if you don't shoot. Ask Women out. Women are around everywhere. Supermarkets, restaurants, bars, clubs etc.

Don't regret not trying enough. I started this hobby at 31 but never gave up on dating regular girls. I'm about to be 39 and in the 8 yrs or so I've gone on 3 breaks 1st 1+yrs. 2nd 1yr and now currently 3rd 8 mos.
 

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Well just to provide counterpoint, and coming from a viewpoint of having never married, I’d say dedicating too much time to chasing regular girls can be counterproductive and dangerous these days to your career if you do it in the office. Not saying I’d abstain from dating, but it is a huge timesuck dating a girl as compared to banging a spa girl, and you’re taking away time you can spend building a career, on doing stupid things with girlfriends, like shopping, or hanging with her girlfriends.

But it depends on your life goals. Marriage and children was never a life goal for me, and I am extremely jaded about American women in general these days.
 

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Well just to provide counterpoint, and coming from a viewpoint of having never married, I’d say dedicating too much time to chasing regular girls can be counterproductive and dangerous these days to your career if you do it in the office. Not saying I’d abstain from dating, but it is a huge timesuck dating a girl as compared to banging a spa girl, and you’re taking away time you can spend building a career, on doing stupid things with girlfriends, like shopping, or hanging with her girlfriends.

But it depends on your life goals. Marriage and children was never a life goal for me, and I am extremely jaded about American women in general these days.
Yes I could tell you are jaded. For myself it would be a disservice to only see pros. I've taken as noted 3 breaks in my 8 yr hobby career and have enjoyed them very much.

Girlfriends aren't for everyone. However everyone should at minimum date others.
 

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Yes agree. I'm just saying I wouldn't spend all my time, chasing girls to get laid. It's a lot quicker and easier to head to a spa when you want to fuck, instead of asking 20 girls out to get one date. If you had a steady girl, I wouldn't screw it up by going to an fs spa though.
 

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Fugu, do you look like your 20's? Thing is I've always looked younger than my age. Most people think I look younger than my real age. It doesn't help that have a soft looking effeminate face.
Sometimes. It doesn't help that my voice ain't that deep. When I shave its definitely something. I'll probably be able to say I'm 22 for a couple of years, although I don't know when that will ever come in handy. When I first started mongering around I got carded a lot, and then rejected and told to come back when I was 24 lol. Combination of how I looked and my composition, as I was very nervous during my first attempts
 

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Sometimes. It doesn't help that my voice ain't that deep. When I shave its definitely something. I'll probably be able to say I'm 22 for a couple of years, although I don't know when that will ever come in handy. When I first started mongering around I got carded a lot, and then rejected and told to come back when I was 24 lol. Combination of how I looked and my composition, as I was very nervous during my first attempts
It's a blessing to look young. When you are in your late 30's people will think you are in your late 20's. People don't believe ima be 39. They think I'm late 20's. They get shocked when I tell em my child is about to be 19.
 

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Yes agree. I'm just saying I wouldn't spend all my time, chasing girls to get laid. It's a lot quicker and easier to head to a spa when you want to fuck, instead of asking 20 girls out to get one date. If you had a steady girl, I wouldn't screw it up by going to an fs spa though.
It's definitely easier and I can say that's what makes it uninteresting at times. No challenge at all. Ymmv happens so rare too. I mean if you read up on some chicks you can tell who's with it and who's not. What I will say is dating is time consuming. So no need to always do it. But it's healthy to date non pros from time to time. Especially at your age.
 

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Op have fun and Hobby truly just hobby. All you young guys on here. You can't score if you don't shoot. Ask Women out. Women are around everywhere. Supermarkets, restaurants, bars, clubs etc.

Don't regret not trying enough. I started this hobby at 31 but never gave up on dating regular girls. I'm about to be 39 and in the 8 yrs or so I've gone on 3 breaks 1st 1+yrs. 2nd 1yr and now currently 3rd 8 mos.
Dating is different for your generation compared to the younger ones. Nowadays most men have no shot because women can easily find a better guy on social media, why would they give us the time of day?

It had gotten so bad for me that I felt like a worthless piece of shit since I was totally single while everyone else was out there in a relationship or having casual sex. That's when I came to the realization that normal dating just isn't for me.
 

FernanPerez1234

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Mate I’m extremely young...”22” the ladies always ask for ID but I ain’t giving it. Either way, I get in.

I get laid both the normal way and AMP. Sex is great and i love it. I recently got into mongering. Dating apps are fun but AMP are thrilling, just a different taste. Sometimes I just wish it wasn’t around 200 bucks, I have to ration myself. It’s a big waste of money since I’m a thrifty person.

Also, did anyone know that anyone under 22 can’t go inside a AMP? Crazy lol
 

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Dating is different for your generation compared to the younger ones. Nowadays most men have no shot because women can easily find a better guy on social media, why would they give us the time of day?

It had gotten so bad for me that I felt like a worthless piece of shit since I was totally single while everyone else was out there in a relationship or having casual sex. That's when I came to the realization that normal dating just isn't for me.
I'm 27 too! For me, it's just nicer than flirting/BS. Many women my age are upfront in what they want, even overtly saying so, just to get cold feet moments before. Screw that yo.
You have to think you are the Man. You have to be understanding but good with who you are. Flirty, fun, confident, funny, intelligent. Stand out make your personality great. These Women want to be around people who shine when they speak when they interact.

Dressing well and hitting the gym is big too. However Women want that Man that has a great personality and doesn't take shit from anyone unecessarily and someone she can brag to her girls about.

And ofc being successful is important as well.

Don't give up on your age range. I've fucked several girls ages 19-28 past few years. They all complain Men don't know how to be Men anymore. Competition isny what it used to be. Use that to your advantage.
 

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You have to think you are the Man. You have to be understanding but good with who you are. Flirty, fun, confident, funny, intelligent. Stand out make your personality great. These Women want to be around people who shine when they speak when they interact.

Dressing well and hitting the gym is big too. However Women want that Man that has a great personality and doesn't take shit from anyone unecessarily and someone she can brag to her girls about.

And ofc being successful is important as well.

Don't give up on your age range. I've fucked several girls ages 19-28 past few years. They all complain Men don't know how to be Men anymore. Competition isny what it used to be. Use that to your advantage.
Idk how old are you, but your advice doesn't apply to modern women. They can easily find a better guy than you on the Internet. Hell, literally every woman with social media has guys sliding into her DMs.

I'm not a good looking guy, that's what online dating and social media has taught me. I go to the gym 5x a week, but it's not going to make my face more attractive. Why would a woman want an ugly, confident guy when a shy, good looking guy gives her genetically superior offspring? It's basic biology that goes back since the caveman days.
 

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Idk how old are you, but your advice doesn't apply to modern women. They can easily find a better guy than you on the Internet. Hell, literally every woman with social media has guys sliding into her DMs.

I'm not a good looking guy, that's what online dating and social media has taught me. I go to the gym 5x a week, but it's not going to make my face more attractive. Why would a woman want an ugly, confident guy when a shy, good looking guy gives her genetically superior offspring? It's basic biology that goes back since the caveman days.
And there is a sex recession going on for ppl under 35. Dating apps far from the stereotype decrease sexual activity.

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/
 

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And there is a sex recession going on for ppl under 35. Dating apps far from the stereotype decrease sexual activity.

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/
Wow that article was really long but super interesting. I am technically on the old side of millennial but the younger generation has so many hang ups. I have def noticed when pursuing younger girls that a lot are down to flirt but can’t seem to actually pull the trigger on hooking up.

Idk if you classify yourself as “incel” but you seem to share a lot of those views. I know stuff is complicated but all I can tell you is if you are projecting a self-pity, “poor me” attitude then things will never get better for you. Read the article - it says women who aren’t the best looking really get no messages or dates from apps either - if you’re not the best looking dude consider that your standards may be too high. Look around you - fugly looking people are getting together all the time lol

Trying to be compassionate bc Dating is super hard and frustrating - maybe now more than ever - but it’s worth it dude. Do the AMP thing or whatever to get by but don’t give up on actually connecting with a girl bc when it happens it’s the best thing ever.
 

freehappy4ever

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Wow that article was really long but super interesting. I am technically on the old side of millennial but the younger generation has so many hang ups. I have def noticed when pursuing younger girls that a lot are down to flirt but can’t seem to actually pull the trigger on hooking up.

Idk if you classify yourself as “incel” but you seem to share a lot of those views. I know stuff is complicated but all I can tell you is if you are projecting a self-pity, “poor me” attitude then things will never get better for you. Read the article - it says women who aren’t the best looking really get no messages or dates from apps either - if you’re not the best looking dude consider that your standards may be too high. Look around you - fugly looking people are getting together all the time lol

Trying to be compassionate bc Dating is super hard and frustrating - maybe now more than ever - but it’s worth it dude. Do the AMP thing or whatever to get by but don’t give up on actually connecting with a girl bc when it happens it’s the best thing ever.
I'm not even ugly, I'm just not attractive, but that might as well be considered ugly nowadays, if you're a guy because I'm being constantly compared to guys who are better looking than me...so I might as well be ugly.

If my league is a bunch of obese and deformed fugly women, why should I even play?
 
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