I'm married, in my 60's, been in the hobby since I was in and out of my early 20's
Married/family life is stable, financially secure but romantically and sexually void
Seeing the girls gives me what I am missing. Sometimes I fall way to far for one of them. But it keeps me able to stay married and generally happy (long as I never get caught). Staying Married keeps me grounded enough to keep me from emptying all my savings into whichever girl I am into at the present time.
As per the Philosopher Michel De Montaigne "An acceptance of the duality of the human condition (man's spiritual aspirations, counterbalanced by the physical limitations of the body) enables Man to pursue the 'Masterpiece of Living Well'.
Moderation was his philosophy, and mine too
Married/family life is stable, financially secure but romantically and sexually void
Seeing the girls gives me what I am missing. Sometimes I fall way to far for one of them. But it keeps me able to stay married and generally happy (long as I never get caught). Staying Married keeps me grounded enough to keep me from emptying all my savings into whichever girl I am into at the present time.
As per the Philosopher Michel De Montaigne "An acceptance of the duality of the human condition (man's spiritual aspirations, counterbalanced by the physical limitations of the body) enables Man to pursue the 'Masterpiece of Living Well'.
Moderation was his philosophy, and mine too