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Almost went down a stupid path... Falling for a J Girl...
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One of the best quotes on this forum in a long time (besides some of the great zingers in my reviews).
Really apt and helpful. Thank you! Of course! People are always asking, “don’t they enjoy me to some extent? They must like me! It’s too real! They must!”
Well, they do, but only as it serves and protects. It’s not “just about money” or “just a job”. The lifestyle transcends to a philosophical tier of hubris and greed, loneliness and gratification, pleasure and pain, desire and human connection.
Like the Cylon ships of Battlestar, living organisms merging to create a super-conducive ecosystem.
Really apt and helpful. Thank you! Of course! People are always asking, “don’t they enjoy me to some extent? They must like me! It’s too real! They must!”
Well, they do, but only as it serves and protects. It’s not “just about money” or “just a job”. The lifestyle transcends to a philosophical tier of hubris and greed, loneliness and gratification, pleasure and pain, desire and human connection.
Like the Cylon ships of Battlestar, living organisms merging to create a super-conducive ecosystem.
Since this quote is being bantered about, I'll add my small contribution: when we are away on those weekends, it's not a transactional session. It's during her off-hours, and she is there by her own choice. The only additional financial gain is maybe I'll tip more during our normal sessions, or spring a longer session once in a while. This "dating" with providers is very complex, and it's fine if you want to not go down road.
Most of the comments here completely lack understanding and perspective. The girls can fall for a guy, but they are very scared to do so and they are afraid to invest the time because there is no way for them to trust any of you all, and making the time and effort would be disruptive to their very delicate financial situation. More so than a US citizen girl that has a regular job, regular family, has the ability to find another job, health insurance, etc...
If you want this J girl, you'll have to do quite a bit for her to prove to her that are neither a player and/or not just here today, and gone tomorrow. The effort is bigger than the typical girls because these girls will experience tremendous hardships if left in a lurch. They hear all kinds of bullshit from insensitive/abusive guys. Try being sensitive, helpful and unselfish for a lengthy time period until trust is built. Then, she will see a real person who cares about you and not so much your money.
If you want this J girl, you'll have to do quite a bit for her to prove to her that are neither a player and/or not just here today, and gone tomorrow. The effort is bigger than the typical girls because these girls will experience tremendous hardships if left in a lurch. They hear all kinds of bullshit from insensitive/abusive guys. Try being sensitive, helpful and unselfish for a lengthy time period until trust is built. Then, she will see a real person who cares about you and not so much your money.
That's exactly the problem. A few years back I saw my ATF about once a month and she was fine with that.
That's total BS. These women were so used to getting attention from many men as an amp girl and they don't know how to think like a regular civvie and to be devoted to one man. There are some amp girls who managed to close the door on their amp life and managed to live in regular lives but most of them just can't cope, including this J girl. I understand that men have this 'white knight' instinct in trying to save these amp women, but ultimately these women (and not the man) have to save themselves out of this by saving enough money all these years.
That's total BS. These women were so used to getting attention from many men as an amp girl and they don't know how to think like a regular civvie and to be devoted to one man. There are some amp girls who managed to close the door on their amp life and managed to live in regular lives but most of them just can't cope, including this J girl. I understand that men have this 'white knight' instinct in trying to save these amp women, but ultimately these women (and not the man) have to save themselves out of this by saving enough money all these years.
It's entirely possible to date them and not have to save them. As it's entirely possible to date them without being in any form of committed relationship.
And she would be one of those that would be a bad choice for dating. Not every provider is. Just that some are. You'll never find them when you rule them all out.
And she would be one of those that would be a bad choice for dating. Not every provider is. Just that some are. You'll never find them when you rule them all out.
For these gals to take you seriously as a potential dating partner, you’re dealing with the classic catch-22.
They’ll only seriously go for the men who are in the top 5% on attributes such as physical appearance, income, etc., but if you’re in the top 5%, you wouldn’t be looking to date a provider because you should have access to many better options.
These gals know this and are secretly turned off by guys who want to date a person like them. They’ll still date you, but only if you have sufficient resources for them to exploit.
Even these gals ask: “If the guy is such a great catch, why would he want to date a gal who is taking 10 dicks a day?”
It’s a well-reasoned question, and they’re smart enough to know when something is too good to be true.
They’ll only seriously go for the men who are in the top 5% on attributes such as physical appearance, income, etc., but if you’re in the top 5%, you wouldn’t be looking to date a provider because you should have access to many better options.
These gals know this and are secretly turned off by guys who want to date a person like them. They’ll still date you, but only if you have sufficient resources for them to exploit.
Even these gals ask: “If the guy is such a great catch, why would he want to date a gal who is taking 10 dicks a day?”
It’s a well-reasoned question, and they’re smart enough to know when something is too good to be true.
Exactly. What's worse is that there are simp 'husbands' who are willing to accomodate that request. Today we are normalizing this by having the same simp husbands' who share their OF 'wives' earning money.
One of my ex's relatives did well off was an amp woman back in the days, now in her 70's and managed saved enough money to own rental properties. Of course, she is living by herself alone. And that's a smarter woman who saved enough money to retire. Many of these amp woman don't have the financial sense to save enough money to 'retire' once their looks fade and age catches up with them.
One of my ex's relatives did well off was an amp woman back in the days, now in her 70's and managed saved enough money to own rental properties. Of course, she is living by herself alone. And that's a smarter woman who saved enough money to retire. Many of these amp woman don't have the financial sense to save enough money to 'retire' once their looks fade and age catches up with them.
You would be amaze at how attractive a Green Card can make you in their eyes.
And that's why some providers quit the game after scoring a husband. But you don't have to become a husband to date them. Some of them just enjoy a good meal, take in a Broadway show, or just get away for a weekend. I'm fine with that since it's mutual exploitation.
But they'll still date you. They just won't marry you.
And that's why some providers quit the game after scoring a husband. But you don't have to become a husband to date them. Some of them just enjoy a good meal, take in a Broadway show, or just get away for a weekend. I'm fine with that since it's mutual exploitation.
But they'll still date you. They just won't marry you.
@DeuceJiggalow told me about a popular and “sweet” NYC provider who worked an average guy over for a green card. A green card is a resource to exploit as I asserted in my original post.