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Almost went down a stupid path... Falling for a J Girl...

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chochalovr69

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I guess this is the only place where I can vent since only one friend would semi-understand and everyone here gets it. So yeah, I almost forgot that these girls we meet are looking to make money and nothing more. I've been mongering for 16 years, lost my virginity to a 3 way of hookers when I was a teen. I had an 8 year break when I was in a serious relationship which turned into marriage. Now that that's been over for a year I've been back. One of the J girls I fucked I ended up befriending on social and we've been chatting for a bit now. She opened up to me and while she was home we got closer but who knows maybe she shows everyone her personal life after she yells "Iku!"

In the past I kept this strictly sexual and nothing more, no feelings or shit like that. Purely transactional. Which fucked up my real relationships over the years. Just wanted to fuck, no holding hands with girls and they'd be ok with it til they fell in love with me. Even back in the day, I had more fun fucking hookers over normal girls, gave me a rush. Although I did date a stripper senior year in college so that was fun.

For some reason this one girl got me and the way she looked at me so I went with it. We talked about meeting outside of the room semi soon. But I think she came to her senses that she needs to make money and doesn't want to get in trouble so she doesn't think we can meet which made me realize what the fuck am I thinking. Time for me to get out of my fantasy which would inevitably lead nowhere and I should just be happy fucking her when she comes into town. Plus there's definitely other girls I'd want to fuck too at the aamps and outside. Now that I'm single again, I feel like the energizer bunny.

Also, every time I leave these spots I guess girls sense I just had sex or I'm more confident and I get girls numbers. That happen to any of ya'll too?
Rant over...

My friend just told me one thing she wrote to me in Japanese which didn't translate well... she did pick a date to meet but then changed her mind... bitch. lol
 
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I say go for it. These girls are still human. Especially the Japanese girls who lead semi normal lives at home. The last j girl I fucked was a medical technician in Japan. She just was looking to make some extra money.

I have been to the home of my favorite provider and it is cool to get away from the one hour and you’re done. Despite what goes on in the massage places, most of these women are just regular people outside the business. They aren’t full time whores. It’s the best way to make big dollars if you are here illegally. Do you really think most of the women would really want to fuck horny, perverted, hairy, fat, bald, smelly, old guys that come to see them. Hell no.

If this girl is into you and you are into her, then make it happen.
 
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chochalovr69

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Jerzeyboy said:
I say go for it. These girls are still human. Especially the Japanese girls who lead semi normal lives at home. The last j girl I fucked was a medical technician in Japan. She just was looking to make some extra money.

I have been to the home of my favorite provider and it is cool to get away from the one hour and you’re done. Despite what goes on in the massage places, most of these women are just regular people outside the business. They aren’t full time whores. It’s the best way to make big dollars if you are here illegally. Do you really think most of the women would really want to fuck horny, perverted, hairy, fat, bald, smelly, old guys that come to see them. Hell no.

If this girl is into you and you are into her, then make it happen.
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Thanks... I bet a "co-worker" told her to not do it. Who knows, but I'll see how things go.
 
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chochalovr69 said:
I guess this is the only place where I can vent since only one friend would semi-understand and everyone here gets it. So yeah, I almost forgot that these girls we meet are looking to make money and nothing more. I've been mongering for 16 years, lost my virginity to a 3 way of hookers when I was a teen. I had an 8 year break when I was in a serious relationship which turned into marriage. Now that that's been over for a year I've been back. One of the J girls I fucked I ended up befriending on social and we've been chatting for a bit now. She opened up to me and while she was home we got closer but who knows maybe she shows everyone her personal life after she yells "Iku!"

In the past I kept this strictly sexual and nothing more, no feelings or shit like that. Purely transactional. Which fucked up my real relationships over the years. Just wanted to fuck, no holding hands with girls and they'd be ok with it til they fell in love with me. Even back in the day, I had more fun fucking hookers over normal girls, gave me a rush. Although I did date a stripper senior year in college so that was fun.

For some reason this one girl got me and the way she looked at me so I went with it. We talked about meeting outside of the room semi soon. But I think she came to her senses that she needs to make money and doesn't want to get in trouble so she doesn't think we can meet which made me realize what the fuck am I thinking. Time for me to get out of my fantasy which would inevitably lead nowhere and I should just be happy fucking her when she comes into town. Plus there's definitely other girls I'd want to fuck too at the aamps and outside. Now that I'm single again, I feel like the energizer bunny.

Also, every time I leave these spots I guess girls sense I just had sex or I'm more confident and I get girls numbers. That happen to any of ya'll too?
Rant over...

My friend just told me one thing she wrote to me in Japanese which didn't translate well... she did pick a date to meet but then changed her mind... bitch. lol
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Every Meeting will involve money. They're in it for tye financial gain. I had this Venezuelan chick's number. She wanted $$$ evert time.

Don't cross your personal life with the monger life.
 
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chochalovr69 said:
Thanks... I bet a "co-worker" told her to not do it. Who knows, but I'll see how things go.
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Did you initiate the conversation about hanging out or did she?
I feel like that’s a common misconception here. A lot these chicks will lead on costumers when they get asked to meet outside the AMP so they can keep a regular by acting interested. If the girl initiates it, then that’s likely genuine.

Same with texting/social media. If you initiate the conversations, she’s likely just been polite/friendly and feels like it’s an extension of her job. If she’s the one texting you first out of the blue, maybe a different story.
 
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Phlip said:
Yes. My ATF "meets me" outside of the agency for "dates" and overnights, but it is always business first. I literally wrote a "date description" and gave it to her. It clearly states all expectations: time, money, sleep time, etc. There are no misunderstandings. It has worked well. I have a huge crush on her and have to "watch myself" always. If she said "lets run off together" tomorrow, my little head would win! But I am smart enough to know I am just lucky to have established this connection and this arrangement with her. It took time and patience. I am 59 yrs old. She is a 28 yr. old, smoking hot Korean beauty. I am grateful. Its not easy to keep a level head and these girls are real people too. Go with the flow, see what happens. Be realistic and dont expect anything for FREE unless she offers it up!
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How much do overnight or all day sessions cost?
 
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Thanks y'all. I do agree with not mixing things up. I usually don't.
But yeah... and I wasn't looking to get any freebies with her. Not now at least. But definitely not my initial intention. I know she needs to make money and that's fine with me.
And I first brought up us hanging out and then she started to as well once she realized I'm not a creep.
 
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Phlip said:
Wide variety of prices. Online youll find "upscale companions" in NYC advertising a 14 or 15 hr overnight from $5 - $10K. I have a nice agreement with my ATF. Considwrably less than that plus a shopping trip to Chanel once in a while, and she uses her discretion.
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So like 1k a night? I mean Chanel shopping trips is basically 10k…. U are paying a bunch
 
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chochalovr69 said:
Thanks y'all. I do agree with not mixing things up. I usually don't.
But yeah... and I wasn't looking to get any freebies with her. Not now at least. But definitely not my initial intention. I know she needs to make money and that's fine with me.
And I first brought up us hanging out and then she started to as well once she realized I'm not a creep.
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I think she realized you are a good customer and treat her well(did not want to lose you as a customer), more than she realized that you’re not a creep and wanted something out of this outside the AMP.
 
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chochalovr69 said:
Thanks y'all. I do agree with not mixing things up. I usually don't.
But yeah... and I wasn't looking to get any freebies with her. Not now at least. But definitely not my initial intention. I know she needs to make money and that's fine with me.
And I first brought up us hanging out and then she started to as well once she realized I'm not a creep.
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I’ve thought that i had fallen for a provider in the past too. But as she was touring elsewhere i kept fucking other girls and realized it was just lust cuz that first girl was just hot af. When she toured my area again and i saw her again, i realized we werent very compatible personality wise so im glad i didnt try anything stupid. Thats my experience
 
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Phlip said:
"A bunch" is a relative term. All depends on how much you have and what you like to do with it. Some people spend "a bunch" on nice cars. Some don't. To each his own. I have a nice agreement with a beautiful young Korean woman. At some point, I'm sure it will end.
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Im just saying if you are spending 1k a night and 10-20k on a chanel bag that is the same as an overnight for an upscale companion.
 
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A long time ago, I developed rapport with a J-girl who gave the best bbbj I've ever had in my long mongering history. We got to know each other even after she left the spa and kept in touch via Line. Even though she officially dropped out of the spa scene, I would still see her on the side in hotels on and off for a couple of years. We kept the $240 price for each event, even though she foot the bill for the hourly stay. At some point, she asked if I would consider marriage to help her get a green card. Given the quality of her services and the fact that she's absolutely adorable, I would've considered it but I was sane enough to know better. Eventually, she did land a husband, but would still see me on the side. Logistics prevent me from seeing her now. She's still married, has a kid, but continues to see original clients on the side. The husband knows what's up and accommodates her. Some evidence that if you're open to a certain lifestyle, it's possible to make it work. Not for everyone though, so I think you have to take a hard look at yourself to determine if you've got the traits necessary. I don't, but I'm kinda jealous of her husband.
 
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An impossible question to answer, not knowing you, OP.
Seems like you’re looking for intimacy, maybe to replace the loss of your marriage?
Are you the sort of person who falls in love easily?
Probably everyone here would agree that getting emotionally attached to a hooker is a bad idea…
 
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Blixen said:
An impossible question to answer, not knowing you, OP.
Seems like you’re looking for intimacy, maybe to replace the loss of your marriage?
Are you the sort of person who falls in love easily?
Probably everyone here would agree that getting emotionally attached to a hooker is a bad idea…
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But it is a great learning experience....and I know that from experience.

I fell in love with a hooker once...once
 
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