Several of the white providers I see say that they have more issues with white men than any other group by definition.
They also mention that black men expect more out of sessions and are more vocal when they’re not pleased. I think some fear of not meeting expectations.
And then there’s the issue/myth about size and girth. I once had a provider ask how big I was before she agreed to see me, lol. I undersold, finessed the deed and now she’s one of my faves. She asked me to be gentle to start but now she lets me have it anyway I want. Funny though- she told she was initially afraid that a big schlong would stretch her out and smaller guys wouldn’t be able to touch the walls.
The justifications are varied and some are blatantly racist. There’s one S. Philly Indy massage girl who doesn’t see black men because she had “2” bad encounters and feels uncomfortable. In the hobby life is it possible she had bad encounters with a few white men? Absolutely. One former provider told me confidentially that this person is absolutely racist and uses this rationale as an excuse. What’s worse is that her screening process involved requesting your ID. If you provided it and she refused to see you because of your race, not much you could say cause she had all of your pertinent details. Glad I asked more question before I decided to not provide that info.
Some you offer rationalizations to console those affected while at the same time benefitting from your skin color. That’s cool cause some of you also have racist tendencies or underlying bias.
One thing I do know is that for many of the providers deep in this game with no other skills, supply and demand kicks in and they become more flexible when the cash dries up cause the tits begin to sag or they no longer are classified as a spinner. Emptying pockets equals open mindedness. Just my two cents. 25 years in the game.
They also mention that black men expect more out of sessions and are more vocal when they’re not pleased. I think some fear of not meeting expectations.
And then there’s the issue/myth about size and girth. I once had a provider ask how big I was before she agreed to see me, lol. I undersold, finessed the deed and now she’s one of my faves. She asked me to be gentle to start but now she lets me have it anyway I want. Funny though- she told she was initially afraid that a big schlong would stretch her out and smaller guys wouldn’t be able to touch the walls.
The justifications are varied and some are blatantly racist. There’s one S. Philly Indy massage girl who doesn’t see black men because she had “2” bad encounters and feels uncomfortable. In the hobby life is it possible she had bad encounters with a few white men? Absolutely. One former provider told me confidentially that this person is absolutely racist and uses this rationale as an excuse. What’s worse is that her screening process involved requesting your ID. If you provided it and she refused to see you because of your race, not much you could say cause she had all of your pertinent details. Glad I asked more question before I decided to not provide that info.
Some you offer rationalizations to console those affected while at the same time benefitting from your skin color. That’s cool cause some of you also have racist tendencies or underlying bias.
One thing I do know is that for many of the providers deep in this game with no other skills, supply and demand kicks in and they become more flexible when the cash dries up cause the tits begin to sag or they no longer are classified as a spinner. Emptying pockets equals open mindedness. Just my two cents. 25 years in the game.