What the hell is wrong with me ? Am I jaded?

[richardp2918]

Hell, I 61 and banging a hot twenty something is fun, but they want the second round too fast for me.

If you have a second round in you, respect. I'm younger than you, banging mostly older girls in late 20s/30s, and I only occasionaly muster a second round.

 

[Nutopia1]

I agree with many points made by both of you (and disagree with a few) even when they are the opposite approach. there's a million ways to skin a cat and different approaches have pros and cons, depending on the situation and people involved.

my take is (1) it was low probability OP could have banged the girl, (2) it was still worth trying for fun, learning, and off chance it works, (3) giving it a shot is how OP will figure out his game.

I'm much more of a patient guy playing the long game now, but there was a time I used to jump into the lion's den and pull out girls surrounded by a pack of guys like I owned her. It worked bc I was a young, successful, and fit, and girls were into me more, guys assumed she was with me, and I was on top of the world.

I can't pull that off anymore bc I'm obviously older than the girl, the girl is less likely to go along or be intrigued by me, the guys wouldn't believe she was with me as I'm clearly out of her league age wise, etc etc...so I just changed my game.

the only thing I disagree with both of you on is that there's one approach. everybody needs to experiment and find their game

The next time I'm in that situation I'm hiring you as a consultant. You can come to dinner with me and the girl with you guiding my every move. And if I still can't get anywhere then you can take her home and fuck her.

 

[이 회장님]

Richardp2918, it’s great to see you back in the site again!!!

 

[Uniquelyme]

I agree with many points made by both of you (and disagree with a few) even when they are the opposite approach. there's a million ways to skin a cat and different approaches have pros and cons, depending on the situation and people involved.

my take is (1) it was low probability OP could have banged the girl, (2) it was still worth trying for fun, learning, and off chance it works, (3) giving it a shot is how OP will figure out his game.

I'm much more of a patient guy playing the long game now, but there was a time I used to jump into the lion's den and pull out girls surrounded by a pack of guys like I owned her. It worked bc I was a young, successful, and fit, and girls were into me more, guys assumed she was with me, and I was on top of the world.

I can't pull that off anymore bc I'm obviously older than the girl, the girl is less likely to go along or be intrigued by me, the guys wouldn't believe she was with me as I'm clearly out of her league age wise, etc etc...so I just changed my game.

the only thing I disagree with both of you on is that there's one approach. everybody needs to experiment and find their game

I agree there is not just one way to get a girl. How what i am saying is being perceived as caveman style is absurd and funny to me .

Also an empowered Woman sounds good but they are not empowered in their early 20's, know your target. That goes for anyone reading it, not just you specifically.

 

[richardp2918]

The next time I'm in that situation I'm hiring you as a consultant. You can come to dinner with me and the girl with you guiding my every move. And if I still can't get anywhere then you can take her home and fuck her.

I have an entire manual on how to pretend like I'm helping somebody as a third wheel while sabotaging them so I can swoop in and take the girl

Richardp2918, it’s great to see you back in the site again!!!

It's GREAT to be back. I look forward to learning from the Chairman!

 

[Retired032824]

I agree with many points made by both of you (and disagree with a few) even when they are the opposite approach. there's a million ways to skin a cat and different approaches have pros and cons, depending on the situation and people involved.

my take is (1) it was low probability OP could have banged the girl, (2) it was still worth trying for fun, learning, and off chance it works, (3) giving it a shot is how OP will figure out his game.

I'm much more of a patient guy playing the long game now, but there was a time I used to jump into the lion's den and pull out girls surrounded by a pack of guys like I owned her. It worked bc I was a young, successful, and fit, and girls were into me more, guys assumed she was with me, and I was on top of the world.

I can't pull that off anymore bc I'm obviously older than the girl, the girl is less likely to go along or be intrigued by me, the guys wouldn't believe she was with me as I'm clearly out of her league age wise, etc etc...so I just changed my game.

the only thing I disagree with both of you on is that there's one approach. everybody needs to experiment and find their game

I didn’t say there is one approach , I said his was too aggressive exactly for all your reasons - it might have worked if he was 30 , fit and rich . And if my aunt had balls she’d be my uncle . Point is for the situation agreed. It was very low probability .

So why then is the post called what the hell is wrong with me am I jaded. That doesn’t sound like a guy that went for a good time and company does it?

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Also an empowered Woman sounds good

No it doesn't.
Sounds bloody awful to me.

 

[richardp2918]

I didn’t say there is one approach , I said his was too aggressive exactly for all your reasons - it might have worked if he was 30 , fit and rich . And if my aunt had balls she’d be my uncle . Point is for the situation agreed. It was very low probability .

So why then is the post called what the hell is wrong with me am I jaded. That doesn’t sound like a guy that went for a good time and company does it?

appreciate the correction, I misunderstood. As for the thread title, seems like somebody just trying to figure things out after getting super excited and then let down. I've been down that road many times.

 

[Whizzard]

In regard to the op’ s original post. The outcome of his story had a high probability of happening. It would have been much more shocking had it ended up a sexual encounter. I politely disagree the people saying he should have played it slower. What’s next in the slow play? Buy her jewelry and take her to Chanel?

She was enjoying the experience of one last lovely day in the states. A memory. It didn’t include hooking up with an old dude.

He took his shot and missed but I applaud him for that.

As the saying goes…. Sometimes you need to cross the line in order to know where the line is.

 

[Retired032824]

In regard to the op’ s original post. The outcome of his story had a high probability of happening. It would have been much more shocking had it ended up a sexual encounter. I politely disagree the people saying he should have played it slower. What’s next in the slow play? Buy her jewelry and take her to Chanel?

She was enjoying the experience of one last lovely day in the states. A memory. It didn’t include hooking up with an old dude.

He took his shot and missed but I applaud him for that.

As the saying goes…. Sometimes you need to cross the line in order to know where the line is.

Agreed, she wasn't looking for sex with an old dude. He took a quasi formidable shot. If that is all it was why oh why is the thread called: What the hell is wrong with me?

I interpret this as a man, who like all of us, has become accustomed to pay and play, and forgotten how to engage with a real woman, in the real world. It bothered him that he was summarily excused and rejected. There is an important monger lesson here. Being in a restaurant with a beautiful young woman, for a night or whatever, is a far cry from a TS nuru slide red light experience in the boom boom room.

The lesson, and what the op is trying to say is that he is jaded. he has become so used to slapping down a donation and doing the deed, that he has forgotten how to treat a real woman. I think this is a lesson for us all. What we do here is fantasy. When you are in Little Italy with a woman half your age, that is a whole other deal, one most of us have forgotten how to handle. Truth be told.

 

[이 회장님]

These type of Korean girls who rely on their family for financial assistance have a strict curfew. Her dad is calling her every night and checking up on her.

And all families that live in the Gangnam-Gu (Southern Seoul) area will make sure that their kids live in Manhattan while studying in the city. It’s an ego and bragging right. So she’s from a rich family and building up her credentials so she can marry a family that is either from one of the chaebols such as Lotte, Hyundai or Samsung or from a rich family in Southern Seoul.

And this is the kind of life that so many Korean amp FS women dream of.

 

[이 회장님]

No it doesn't.
Sounds bloody awful to me.

I told my sisters and nieces that women need to stay home, take care of the children, cook and clean while the men go out and work hard for the family.

 

[Rutts Hutt]

No it doesn't.
Sounds bloody awful to me.

If she feels empowered please me I'm all for it.

 

[Whizzard]

Agreed, she wasn't looking for sex with an old dude. He took a quasi formidable shot. If that is all it was why oh why is the thread called: What the hell is wrong with me?

I interpret this as a man, who like all of us, has become accustomed to pay and play, and forgotten how to engage with a real woman, in the real world. It bothered him that he was summarily excused and rejected. There is an important monger lesson here. Being in a restaurant with a beautiful young woman, for a night or whatever, is a far cry from a TS nuru slide red light experience in the boom boom room.

The lesson, and what the op is trying to say is that he is jaded. he has become so used to slapping down a donation and doing the deed, that he has forgotten how to treat a real woman. I think this is a lesson for us all. What we do here is fantasy. When you are in Little Italy with a woman half your age, that is a whole other deal, one most of us have forgotten how to handle. Truth be told.

I don’t necessarily agree he doesn’t know how to treat a lady. If anything, the sweet young exchange student was the jaded one.

Let’s lighten this up a bit.

To make sure my daughter wasn’t jaded, when she was about 14 1/2 I had the “talk”with her. My one question was “do you know what boys want?” What dad? To get in your pants!!! Anyway they can. Then I proceeded pile on ten minutes of examples.

 

[Whizzard]

I don’t necessarily agree he doesn’t know how to treat a lady. If anything, the sweet young exchange student was the jaded one.

Let’s lighten this up a bit.

To make sure my daughter wasn’t jaded, when she was about 14 1/2 I had the “talk”with her. My one question was “do you know what boys want?” What dad? To get in your pants!!! Anyway they can. Then I proceeded pile on ten minutes of examples.

If the exchange student were my daughter, she’d have left that bench in 20 seconds. Love ya Nutopia

 

[Rutts Hutt]

If she feels empowered please me I'm all for it.

To please me that is.

 

[richardp2918]

I told my sisters and nieces that women need to stay home, take care of the children, cook and clean while the men go out and work hard for the family.

don't forget working hard for the family include the tremendous sacrifice of having to go to room salons with business associates with jiggly scantily clad women pouring whiskey into us. the things we do for family...

 

[이 회장님]

don't forget working hard for the family include the tremendous sacrifice of having to go to room salons with business associates with jiggly scantily clad women pouring whiskey into us. the things we do for family...

Exactly Bro.

Yesterday, I played golf with clients, had BBQ and Soju which I’m not a big fan of. But if clients want BBQ and Soju then so be it. We then went to CEO room salon for more drinks. There were six of us. I let all five choose first and I was left with an older and ugly one. lol

As long as the client is happy and signs the deal with me then I’m good.

 

[richardp2918]

Exactly Bro.

Yesterday, I played golf with clients, had BBQ and Soju which I’m not a big fan of. But if clients want BBQ and Soju then so be it. We then went to CEO room salon for more drinks. There were six of us. I let all five choose first and I was left with an older and ugly one. lol

As long as the client is happy and signs the deal with me then I’m good.

Korean tales of hardship used to be about parents walking through miles of snow up hill both ways to get to school. Our children will grow up listening to us having to bang the runt of the litter at room salons several times a week and only being able to bang top pick girls at kmps

 

[Nutopia1]

I don’t necessarily agree he doesn’t know how to treat a lady. If anything, the sweet young exchange student was the jaded one.

Let’s lighten this up a bit.

To make sure my daughter wasn’t jaded, when she was about 14 1/2 I had the “talk”with her. My one question was “do you know what boys want?” What dad? To get in your pants!!! Anyway they can. Then I proceeded pile on ten minutes of examples.

What ?