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What the hell is wrong with me ? Am I jaded?

Timtinytool

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Sunday afternoon I was sitting by Bethesda Fountain in Central Park and noticed a young asian girl college age sitting next to me. I asked her to take a pic of me and she then asked to take one of her on her phone. We struck up a convo that went very smooth Turns out she's an exchange student from Korea and just finished her one and only semester at NYU. She speaks perfect English and obviously well educated. She looked quite pretty in a GND way. Age 22. We talked about NYC, music ( she once came from Korea to see the Red Hot Chili Peppers for a single concert in NJ , paid by dad), and talked more topics like living in NYC etc. Then we walked around the park watching different performers while enjoying the beautiful day and each others company. I'm thinking to myself that this is incredible , just hanging with a young girl in park something Ive never done.

I asked her to join me for dinner in Little Italy that night and she said sure. So took a taxi to my apt in Murray Hill. By amazing coincidence she is staying in the building right across the street. Told her to meet me in front in 15 min and we'll take a taxi to Little Italy. )

( I'll now distress with some background in me . I'm 68 in a sexless marriage but in my hobby life get plenty of sex between AMP's and NYC students sugar babies etc. Just the night before I had 2 amazing hours with Barbie of AF. I can get it anytime I want as I have the time , money and live in midtown)

So I go to my apt thinking to myself this is almost TGBTT. This amazing girl lives by herself across the street and we are about to have dinner after spending an amazing day together. I grab a few condoms and 50MG of V just incase. I tell myself I need to make a move before or during desert.

We enjoy a great dinner and walk around before going to a cafe. I'm debating in my mind do I make a move or just leave it alone as a good memorable day and be thankful I got to hang out with her. At no point had she given any signals that this can go the next step. My little head prevails. I asked her if I can hold her hand. She got nervous and held out her hand as if to shake mine. Then I asked her if she's ever been with an older man before. She was getting uncomfortable as this seemed to be coming out on nowhere.
Then I said I'd like to take her home and please her..

That did it. She said she had to leave to meet a friend and was gone in a few seconds.

Looking back now it was clear she was just a nice kid who enjoyed hanging out with me . I was a real Ahole to try and transition it to more.
After years of mongering I am jaded I guess .

I texted her to send some pics. No reply .
Nah you just did what a normal guy does. You got shot down. It happens. Try second date next time
 

FuryOfFlashX

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I understand where you are coming from.

I have a 24-year-old niece and I slept with her friend last year. My niece got furious. She told her mom (my older sister) who got pissed at me. lol
LOL that's wild. I assume your niece's friend is in her 20's as well. Are you in your 60's also? (asking respectfully of course), If so that's impressive. I still have a 3 in front of my age thankfully. :LOL:
 

Dynaguy

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I understand where you are coming from.

I have a 24-year-old niece and I slept with her friend last year. My niece got furious. She told her mom (my older sister) who got pissed at me. lol
I’m just an average looking dude and, over the years, I’ve fucked:
- a friend’s daughter
- a close friend’s girlfriend
- a girlfriend’s sister

All it takes is opportunity and questionable judgment.
 

Uniquelyme

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I’m just an average looking dude and, over the years, I’ve fucked:
- a friend’s daughter
- a close friend’s girlfriend
- a girlfriend’s sister

All it takes is opportunity and questionable judgment.
A friends daugher is on some real grimey type of time.
A close friends girlfriend. How do you even say close friend that's some sucker shit.

Glad i dont know you!
 

FuryOfFlashX

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A friends daugher is on some real grimey type of time.
A close friends girlfriend. How do you even say close friend that's some sucker shit.

Glad i dont know you!
Yeah he's over here parading that around like it's a badge of honor or some shit. Not one of those 3 things he said is something to be proud of...

"Friend's daughter, close friend's girlfriend, girlfriend's sister" the fuck?! SMH... agreed, glad I don't know a person like him!
 

이 회장님

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LOL that's wild. I assume your niece's friend is in her 20's as well. Are you in your 60's also? (asking respectfully of course), If so that's impressive. I still have a 3 in front of my age thankfully. :LOL:
I’m 48. My niece’s friend is in her early 20s. Lucky of you to have a 3 in front of your age. It will soon be 5 for me. lol
 

Blixen

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A friends daugher is on some real grimey type of time.
A close friends girlfriend. How do you even say close friend that's some sucker shit.

Glad i dont know you!
Well @Dynaguy did confess to questionable judgment.
‘Rogue’ would probably be the right term.
I’m glad that I don’t have his accomplishments under my belt, but I’m sure some of my friends do. I probably like associating with a few rogues.
 

Dynaguy

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A friends daugher is on some real grimey type of time.
A close friends girlfriend. How do you even say close friend that's some sucker shit.
Not a brag but admissions of remorse. The OP asks whether mongering clouds judgement. Someone gave an example where his choice led to adverse effects with his sister. I too made some bad choices that had consequences. They happened years ago.
 

FuryOfFlashX

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I’m 48. My niece’s friend is in her early 20s. Lucky of you to have a 3 in front of your age. It will soon be 5 for me. lol
The older the wiser haha, nothing wrong with that lol. Since I'm still relatively young I just hobby just here and there on the side. (Also because beautiful Asian women are my flavor of choice respectfully). Just being honest. I'm black also, so there's always that unique interesting dynamic of BM/AW and just B/A period, which is always fun, whether hobbying, serious relationships, hook-ups or casual dating.

Nevertheless she must have been crazy hot for you to want to take her down lol
 

Uniquelyme

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The older the wiser haha, nothing wrong with that lol. Since I'm still relatively young I just hobby just here and there on the side. (Also because beautiful Asian women are my flavor of choice respectfully). Just being honest. I'm black also, so there's always that unique interesting dynamic of BM/AW and just B/A period, which is always fun, whether hobbying, serious relationships, hook-ups or casual dating.

Nevertheless she must have been crazy hot for you to want to take her down lol
I gotta say idk why she would have to be crazy hot fucking friends niece imo isn't anything to be shamed for lol.
 

thepleaser62

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I think the moral of the story is that the hobby universe and the real universe operate by different laws and it's best to keep them separate. In hobbyverse your two brains can operate in concert, but in the real universe u really have to keep the little brain in check. Especially with a young naive girl like that. U made an easy mistake and no harm done but clearly creeped her out which is unfortunate. Young girls these days get creeped out really easily so u have to tread lightly and go real slow. I'm sensitive to this as I have daughters so I feel bad for them as they have to deal with a lot of shit. In hobbyverse u can let go of that and get right to business. The other situation is best left to fantasy.
 

Chinatownluv

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I’m just an average looking dude and, over the years, I’ve fucked:
- a friend’s daughter
- a close friend’s girlfriend
- a girlfriend’s sister

All it takes is opportunity and questionable judgment.
You on demon time bro. Your the type of guy that would sell your own mom down the river for some puntang. Nothing is worth betraying the ones your supposed to love.
 

Zippy17

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I never did any super lowlife slimey shit like fuck a good friend’s girl or daughter, but back when meeting girls online necessarily meant AOL, I’d been talking to this girl for a few days and agreed to meet her at a tattoo shop in Queens, because she was thinking about getting one. She’d said she was in college, but one look at her textbooks and I knew she was still in high school, and not even a senior. So, I offered to buy her first tattoo if it was relatively small and not anywhere crazy on her body...because it was a legit place and I knew they’d ask for her ID in the process. Sure enough, when the time came, she gave them some bullshit card without her DOB and couldn’t produce anything with her DOB, despite having her whole purse and wallet with her. I gave her the cosmology book I’d gotten her, based on our conversations and told her that we could still talk online anytime she needed advice or whatever, but that she shouldn’t be meeting any guys at least twice her age, because plenty of them would be all too happy to take advantage of her (or worse).

The next day, I get an IM from her, only it’s her mom on her account, who was exactly my age, thanking me for how I handled things with her daughter, because she told her about me when her mom asked her about the book. We met for coffee at a diner by LaGuardia the next night and I ended up fucking her (divorced) MILFY brains out that night at the motel right next door and a few more times after that. She said she liked that her daughter had an adult besides her to give her advice online and just asked me not to let her daughter know that we were hooking up. Saw the mom only a few times but continued just talking to her daughter online for about a year. I was able to be pretty helpful to her because I was also talking to her mom on her own account, so I was able to give her some sensible advice that she’d never had accepted from her mom, directly.
 

smatera

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I actually have the opposite mindset since I started mongering. I rarely view civis as prospects, everything feels platonic no matter who I meet. I've had the opposite issue where someone I thought I was just hanging out with as friends got the impression that I wanted more. I was dumbfounded when she tried to advance things and it was because I had zero attraction to her physically and I had made no indication that I wanted more. She was great to hang out with but I'm so use to 20-30 something curvy bombshells, model/IG and pixie amp types, it's hard for me to consider the average civi sexually attractive.
The Monger world is a separate universe.
 
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