Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[Koondog]

Mostly Queens and Manhattan. 300-400 each time. I’m not looking for bargains, just girls I can connect with

To me it's overpaying. Unless the girl plans to spend the night for 3 or 4 bills which I would doubt. Much easier to befriend an amp girl you are comfortable with and see offsite. Much cheaper and no wining, dining, and headaches involved.

 

[didi88]

To me it's overpaying. Unless the girl plans to spend the night for 3 or 4 bills which I would doubt. Much easier to befriend an amp girl you are comfortable with and see offsite. Much cheaper and no wining, dining, and headaches involved.

Yeah but I don’t want to see a girl who’s been with 20 other guys the same week

 

[Koondog]

That's cool. Just the work involved and uncertainty about the girl (not to mention the usual high tariff they usually ask for) doesn't make it worth my time. I am pretty picky and for the most part 75% of the girls I contacted don't even respond. Maybe it's because I refuse to show a photo but that can be done via phone once you chat a few times. A lot of girls you ask them for their number so you can send a photo and many don't even respond or think it's a weird request.

 

[didi88]

That's cool. Just the work involved and uncertainty about the girl (not to mention the usual high tariff they usually ask for) doesn't make it worth my time. I am pretty picky and for the most part 75% of the girls I contacted don't even respond. Maybe it's because I refuse to show a photo but that can be done via phone once you chat a few times. A lot of girls you ask them for their number so you can send a photo and many don't even respond or think it's a weird request.

I don’t show real photo, just someone who looks somewhat like me. It’s usually enough to satisfy them

 

[Koondog]

My first experience with SA: a young Chinese girl with totally awesome model-like photos agrees for a meeting in Brooklyn. I drive way the hell out there only to find the photos were fake and the lady I met was like nearly 60 years old. Fraud!

I'm like, well since I'm out here might as well have some sex (that she promised) and get home. Then she says NO SEX! You gotta be fucking kidding me.

 

[Uniquelyme]

To me it's overpaying. Unless the girl plans to spend the night for 3 or 4 bills which I would doubt. Much easier to befriend an amp girl you are comfortable with and see offsite. Much cheaper and no wining, dining, and headaches involved.

Really an amp girl is sleeping over for less than $3-400 in Manhattan I doubt that happens often. Even if it does. How many sessions before she feels comfortable sleeping over 10-15?? Over 2500-3k to get that going. On SA by the 3rd date sometimes sooner they are sleeping over.

Also in Manhattan busy successful amp girls are fucking 40-50 Men per week. Low volume SA girl 3 or less per week.

 

[Koondog]

I have had NJ amp girls sleep over or at least a hotel visit after 2 or 3 sessions. Last month one girl went to a hotel with me the very same day we met at an amp, and a week later was sleeping at my house (for free). You gotta get to work right at the start of the first session and make them comfy. If it takes longer than that then I haven't fully stepped up to the plate.

Mileage doesn't bother me. I'm not marrying them.

 

[nycballetlover]

That's cool. Just the work involved and uncertainty about the girl (not to mention the usual high tariff they usually ask for) doesn't make it worth my time. I am pretty picky and for the most part 75% of the girls I contacted don't even respond. Maybe it's because I refuse to show a photo but that can be done via phone once you chat a few times. A lot of girls you ask them for their number so you can send a photo and many don't even respond or think it's a weird request.

Doing well on SA has a steep learning curve. It took me 2 months to know how to refine my profile and photos. And even more importantly, how to write the initial message and follow up messages. Member threeforthemoney graciously gave me some great advice that improved my success. Its not for the impatient though. but if youre like me and are not content hiring professionals and cannot date, this is as close to vanilla dating but with mutual expectations laid out and is NSA.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I have had NJ amp girls sleep over or at least a hotel visit after 2 or 3 sessions. Last month one girl went to a hotel with me the very same day we met at an amp, and a week later was sleeping at my house (for free). You gotta get to work right at the start of the first session and make them comfy. If it takes longer than that then I haven't fully stepped up to the plate.

Mileage doesn't bother me. I'm not marrying them.

That's actually impressive. That's very rare I would venture to say. I'm a confident Man and have been to several girls homes. But an overnight that costs $200-300 from a pro in 3 sessions or less that's so uncommon.
Also I think SA girls are more attractive and I like being able to speak English to the girls who's pussy I'm beating from time to time.

 

[threeforthemoney]

Manhattan is a dub. Don't meet Women who live in Manhattan. Try NJ or Long Island or Westchester. Even Queens & Brooklyn are good.

I'm 60, a 21 year old or 22 year old beauty for the night, fun, no holes barred, is worth at least 5 bills. Who disagrees? drinks, food, and 2 pops, one at night, and one in the am?

 

[Koondog]

I'm 60, a 21 year old or 22 year old beauty for the night, fun, no holes barred, is worth at least 5 bills. Who disagrees? drinks, food, and 2 pops, one at night, and one in the am?

If you have that kind if coin to throw around often I'm sure its fine. I realize this is a wealthy man's hobby. But for me I need to really watch where every 100 bucks goes.

 

[krideynyc]

I'm 60, a 21 year old or 22 year old beauty for the night, fun, no holes barred, is worth at least 5 bills. Who disagrees? drinks, food, and 2 pops, one at night, and one in the am?

Just so we're talking Apples to Apples: that's $500 to her, PLUS cost of food, drinks, and etc. If that's within your budget, enjoy.

 

[threeforthemoney]

Doing well on SA has a steep learning curve. It took me 2 months to know how to refine my profile and photos. And even more importantly, how to write the initial message and follow up messages. Member threeforthemoney graciously gave me some great advice that improved my success. Its not for the impatient though. but if youre like me and are not content hiring professionals and cannot date, this is as close to vanilla dating but with mutual expectations laid out and is NSA.

Just so we're talking Apples to Apples: that's $500 to her, PLUS cost of food, drinks, and etc. If that's within your budget, enjoy.

Yea, at my place. so food and drinks are minimal.

 

[krideynyc]

Yea, at my place. so food and drinks are minimal.

And you save on Hotel, because usually your SO is home, and she has a roommate.

 

[threeforthemoney]

And you save on Hotel, because usually your SO is home, and she has a roommate.

Correct. Shows up at, say 4- 5 pm. Sometimes sex right away. I'd rather wait till later. Cocktails, dinner, perhaps a bath in the sunken tub. Second shot before bedtime. Cuddle and watch TV. Third shot in the morning. Breakfast at 8 am, we each go out separate ways. That's the routine. 5

 

[threeforthemoney]

No hotel, we are at my place, food and drinks maybe are $30

 

[TGBeldin]

Correct. Shows up at, say 4- 5 pm. Sometimes sex right away. I'd rather wait till later. Cocktails, dinner, perhaps a bath in the sunken tub. Second shot before bedtime. Cuddle and watch TV. Third shot in the morning. Breakfast at 8 am, we each go out separate ways. That's the routine. 5

If you are doing that regularly for that price, that is exceedingly impressive, sir.

For my preference, I would pass on girls that young--I prefer them upper 20s to upper 30s. An overnight has many hours, and too young I find we have too little in common.

 

[Koondog]

If you are doing that regularly for that price, that is exceedingly impressive, sir.

For my preference, I would pass on girls that young--I prefer them upper 20s to upper 30s. An overnight has many hours, and too young I find we have too little in common.

Hell, I'm impressed after drinks and a big dinner a guy can still manage a hard-on. If I don't have an empty stomach it just ain't happening, lol

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Hell, I'm impressed after drinks and a big dinner a guy can still manage a hard-on. If I don't have an empty stomach it just ain't happening, lol

Start taking zinc!
50 mg/day.
Good results!

 

[Koondog]

Thanks, man! Will pick some up asap.