I used to visit an Indy, if she can be considered one, I met her at a local FS spa, we exchanged numbers, she left to work in another city, she'd come back to Houston on her weeks off from out of town location, she shared an apartment with two other girls. When in Houston she texted me to come pay a visit, "come see me, I miss you, baby, darling, dear etc. etc, she was readily available at any time of the day, I didn't mind the lovey dovey texts, but it was all about the money with this one. While she was back here on her weeks off she would text me to take her out on a date, she always offered to cover any expense, dining, drinks what have you and she happily spent her money each time, refused to allow me to pay, except when we would go back to her apartment for activities, I'd cover the typical donation and enjoy as much as I wanted or could. I liked this aspect about her, there were no illusions of romance, just two consenting adults making the most of a good time, I even sent her a few trusted friends, eventually she shared her room mates with me, one was just okay, hit it once and done, the other was a stone cold freak, I've met some naughty ones during my time hobbying, this one ranked top three, hands down, I wondered if she performed the same way in her spa. Accept it for what it is, a transaction most of the time, not always, but most of the time. .