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Miss You
- Thread starter Chiparlor
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No just most of the time.
Worried that you might have moved on
Even then, I’m skeptical. They are often playing a long game. I’ve seen many out of the spa. I’ve gotten what are called plenty of freebies, nice gifts, etc, even then I don’t take any of it seriously. They are always angling for something. Always! But, I do enjoy it and get as much as I can for as long as I can, just like they do.
Worried that you might have moved on
Even then, I’m skeptical. They are often playing a long game. I’ve seen many out of the spa. I’ve gotten what are called plenty of freebies, nice gifts, etc, even then I don’t take any of it seriously. They are always angling for something. Always! But, I do enjoy it and get as much as I can for as long as I can, just like they do.
Yes, so true @wayne, those were the great ones, the special ones. I really didn’t mind the games some of the occasional lovelies played, I knew all along it was about the money, I at times took full advantage of the “miss you” text, then make the short trip to spend an hour or 90 minutes, I’d make a nice donation all the while she provided uninhibited use of her body. Win win.
@mikemendez May I make a suggestion on your avatar? Change it from Currently retired from AMPs to Currently relapsed for AMPs?
Foolproof strategies for identifying a faux "Miss You"
#1 - The Aw Shucks Strategy:
She - Oh, honey, you are my #1. I miss you so much!
You - I miss you too baby. But, I've got some bad news.
She - ???
You - I had a bad run at the casino and I lost all my money. In fact, I'm in a lot of debt.
She - Oh, no!
You - Oh, yes. Say, since you miss me so much, can you spot me a few massages until I am back on my feet?
She - <Dialtone>
#2 - The J. Wellington Whimpy Strategy:
She - Oh, honey, you are my #1. I miss you so much!
You - I miss you too baby. But, I don't get paid for until next week. However, I'll gladly pay you next Tuesday for a massage today. Okay??
She - <Crickets>
#1 - The Aw Shucks Strategy:
She - Oh, honey, you are my #1. I miss you so much!
You - I miss you too baby. But, I've got some bad news.
She - ???
You - I had a bad run at the casino and I lost all my money. In fact, I'm in a lot of debt.
She - Oh, no!
You - Oh, yes. Say, since you miss me so much, can you spot me a few massages until I am back on my feet?
She - <Dialtone>
#2 - The J. Wellington Whimpy Strategy:
She - Oh, honey, you are my #1. I miss you so much!
You - I miss you too baby. But, I don't get paid for until next week. However, I'll gladly pay you next Tuesday for a massage today. Okay??
She - <Crickets>
That is the key for me. As I age, I am working less and traveling less. Some of the women still drop an e-mail, or call, just to catch up. Some know it's unlikely I will be close enough to visit them any time soon, but want to talk, find out how I've been, or have an ear to listen. For many of them they know it is unlikely to turn into $$$.
As to KD's litmus test--with those women I have often done just that--and had a number of very memorable dates from it. So much of it is how you act, how you behave, and whether there is respect and trust both ways. A large part of the respect/trust is that they know you actually care about them as well. When there is, all sorts of things are possible. But many guys do not want any of that, so they don't work for it (which is consistent--why work for something you don't want anyway?)
As to KD's litmus test--with those women I have often done just that--and had a number of very memorable dates from it. So much of it is how you act, how you behave, and whether there is respect and trust both ways. A large part of the respect/trust is that they know you actually care about them as well. When there is, all sorts of things are possible. But many guys do not want any of that, so they don't work for it (which is consistent--why work for something you don't want anyway?)
I also get "Miss You" emails from several on-line vendors that I don't frequent very often. I KNOW those are all about the money. The ones from providers? Unless I have truly developed an "outside of the spa," personal (non-business) relationship with her, I would have to think it's more about the money, but also that she considers me a good client who she would rather service than some of the (shall we say) less pleasant people that come in to see her.
I used to visit an Indy, if she can be considered one, I met her at a local FS spa, we exchanged numbers, she left to work in another city, she'd come back to Houston on her weeks off from out of town location, she shared an apartment with two other girls. When in Houston she texted me to come pay a visit, "come see me, I miss you, baby, darling, dear etc. etc, she was readily available at any time of the day, I didn't mind the lovey dovey texts, but it was all about the money with this one. While she was back here on her weeks off she would text me to take her out on a date, she always offered to cover any expense, dining, drinks what have you and she happily spent her money each time, refused to allow me to pay, except when we would go back to her apartment for activities, I'd cover the typical donation and enjoy as much as I wanted or could. I liked this aspect about her, there were no illusions of romance, just two consenting adults making the most of a good time, I even sent her a few trusted friends, eventually she shared her room mates with me, one was just okay, hit it once and done, the other was a stone cold freak, I've met some naughty ones during my time hobbying, this one ranked top three, hands down, I wondered if she performed the same way in her spa. Accept it for what it is, a transaction most of the time, not always, but most of the time. .
I would see one who would text me miss you which meant while home she would still see other customers plus myself. I noticed this by chance in pal park when I arrived and she was just wrapping up her guest who received the same text I did. Never got freebie or even got a warm welcome. I always wondered why her refrigerator was always full with bagels.