She needs to 정신차려. ㅋㅋㅋ
정신차려 = Wake up
But you don't know what he looks like, how old he is, or what he was talking about about on the date.
Maybe he was the one who needs to wake up?
From what I've seen, women are way better at dealing with rejection than men are.
I've heard guys spend days trashing a woman who rejects them and all women in general just because they had a first date where it was clear the person across the table wasn't attracted to them.
But the women I've known as friends don't get that angry over rejection unless it comes after significant time in a relationship, or at very least after things have gotten physical.
Men are way more likely to get incredibly hurt by and angry at a woman who they've never even kissed then a woman is at a man they've never kissed!
I think it's because too many men feel that when a woman doesn't want to be with them, it's because that woman thinks they can do better than them.
So every time a woman doesn't want to be with them it feels like a value judgement and a put down.
And every time a woman doesn't want to be with them it eventually feels like all women think they can do better than them and are putting them down.
Thing is though, every time a woman doesn't want to be with you it isn't because she thinks she can do better than you or that you're not good enough.
She has just as many reasons as you do for making choices and not every one of them is based on "can I do better than this".
Women make choices out of comfort, laziness, hope, despair, anger and acceptance just as much as we do.
Man or woman, not every no is a "you're not good enough" any more than every yes is a "you are good enough".
I think there are a lot of very lonely men in the world who want to love and be loved by a woman, and are so frustrated and sad that they've started blaming women for their loneliness.
But honestly, this all starts because they blame themselves for being "judged" poorly by women. For not being the kind of man that they feel that women would see as "high value".
If they could just let go of the idea that there is some strict scale that every woman is not only judging them by but has also found them inadequate on, they could see that the loneliness and hurt often comes from something else.
I've been rejected plenty of times and a whole lot of the women who I wanted to be with didn't want to be with me. But I did my best not to see them not wanting to be with me as a judgment of any sort.
No doubt you'll say I'm fooling myself, but it has made it so that I can approach women individually and without bitterness or the expectation of rejection.
When I was single the fact that every woman is different gave me hope with every woman I approached and that hope made me more attractive.
I honestly don't think about or even remember all the times I've been rejected, but I definitely remember all the times things worked out.
For the guys on his thread who are angry at women and more lonely than you like to admit. I wish you a lot of hope.
And if you can't feel hope, I hope that you get the help and support you need to be able to feel it, because it is there all around you.
Be well gentleman.