Honestly, that sounded way more like you venting about yourself then about women.
I'm going to tell you two true things that you aren't going to like hearing and will very likely want to argue against.
But these two things are so fundamentally true that they pretty much stand for themselves without anyone having to agree with them or me having to provide any further comment or to respond to any comments. The first one is short but the second takes a bit.
1. What we get is what we put out.
And
2. No matter how intelligent or charming you think you are, you can't hide how you feel about people, especially how you feel about women. It comes out in the way you speak and act around them whether you know it or not.
From my experience, most women will know within a few minutes conversation what kind of guy they are talking to, especially how that guy views women. They pay more attention to how we respond to things than we do to them.
If they like what they see/hear then they will keep talking to you, but if they don't they will pretty much say and do whatever just to get rid of you.
Even if it means doing or saying things that makes them seem rude or selfish, they don't really care so long as it gets you away from them. Because they know that if they are rude enough or mean enough you will eventually leave them alone.
I'm 56 years old. I've dated lots of women, struck out with lots of women and watched friends do the same.
It is my firm belief that the reason so many guys believe the things you do about women is because they have been rejected a lot by women who used rudeness and meanness to reject them. (Either that or they are too shy to actually approach women and just brood about it in a bitter grapes kinda way)
So they've come to the conclusion that most women are mean, selfish and rude.
And once they believe this, it comes out in their words and actions, which leads to more rejection and the sad cycle continues.
On the other hand, the guys with confidence, hope and respect for women always do better.
One of my best friends is 5'7" and has a stutter. He is also intelligent, kind and confident. And I mean this guy has the confidence of a lion!
This short stuttering guy (who was not born rich nor made his money before his 40s) not only decided to be a lawyer, but to be a litigator!
And along the way, he dated some pretty beautiful women! Sure he got rejected a bunch, but he never let rejection define his view of himself or his view of women.
Today he is married to a beautiful woman and has a wonderful family. His wife is a statuesque beauty (also a lawyer) who is taller than him and still turns heads (They joke about it a lot) who adores him.
Whenever I hear any guy say things similar to what you said about women, I think about my friend, his beautiful wife and lack of bitterness.
And then I go back to the first truth I told you.
What we get is what we put out.
