Have you ever fallen in love with a provider?

[Uniquelyme]

Out of curiosity, i must ask..... how do you know the body count of a civvie girl?

Ik most aren't in the hundreds nor thousands.

 

[Ankle_Socks]

I find it difficult to comprehend, anyone feeling an emotional attachment or " feeling" with someone who's time spent with you is transactional.
Had she been a person i met on the streets, and she told me she is a sex worker, I would have no problems dating her because i know exactly what she does.

 

[Ankle_Socks]

Ik most aren't in the hundreds nor thousands.

Hmm i wouldn't put it past anyone, she could be a sex worker and is lying to you

 

[66mydude]

What does she want from you? Marriage?

nothing. no money. we talk about the job n switching to something else but this makes money quicker. shit blows

 

[bchang]

Out of curiosity, i must ask..... how do you know the body count of a civvie girl?

Whatever they tell you, multiply by 3.

 

[hamilton2015]

Don't put the pussy on a pedestal. These girls leave their kids, husbands, families, in China to come here to make money. It's all about the money. I'm not saying don't date a girl, hell I've done that many times. It's nice to go out and have fun, go back to a hotel and fuck all night. But it's not love. You don't love a girl who bangs 8 different guys a day. Your just lonely and need someone who pays attention to you. When your money runs out, see if they run out.

Do this test, tell them you lost your job or you lost money in the stock market or your business is being investigated by the Feds. Then see if she still bangs you for free. If she does, yes she loves you. One girl put it to me best when I asked her why I had to pay her when she says she loves me. She said, does your wife not go out shopping for groceries and clothes? Do you question her when she buys something on Amazon? You still pay for it don't you? So why should I fuck you for free.

I would have said well ideally my wife would still be there when I can't pay for those things and groceries/Amazon are for me too. So it's not transactional. That girl whether she realized it or not framed sex as transactional

 

[hamilton2015]

When women see clients in this hobby they put you in a particular box mentally. If they met you outside they would see you as a potential partner, make time for you etc. But because they didn't, mentally there will usually be someone sort of boundary they aren't going to cross in regards to genuineness/meaningful connection

 

[Ewg047]

Hook, Line and Sinker.....

Honestly, would do it again....good times were had!

 

[Perfecto]

When women see clients in this hobby they put you in a particular box mentally. If they met you outside they would see you as a potential partner, make time for you etc. But because they didn't, mentally there will usually be someone sort of boundary they aren't going to cross in regards to genuineness/meaningful connection

Well said…

 

[Uniquelyme]

Hmm i wouldn't put it past anyone, she could be a sex worker and is lying to you

Keyword is most. Most Women are not sex workers

 

[beatnik]

Whatever they tell you, multiply by 3.

She said 0, so 0?

 

[MPXpert]

Out of curiosity, i must ask..... how do you know the body count of a civvie girl?

You may not know a regular girls number but it will ALWAYS be less than a pro.

 

[Johnny Blaze]

Out of curiosity, i must ask..... how do you know the body count of a civvie girl?

Its 36....well, 37 including me.

You may not know a regular girls number but it will ALWAYS be less than a pro.

But there is only one cock that matters...and that is mine.

 

[Ankle_Socks]

Its 36....well, 37 including me.



But there is only one cock that matters...and that is mine.

I think someone stated always multiple the given number by 3

 

[Ankle_Socks]

You may not know a regular girls number but it will ALWAYS be less than a pro.

I sincerely doubt that

 

[MPXpert]

Never fell for a massage girl but I did date a couple of dancers. Went on vacation with them. Moved in with one of them and she paid all of the rent because I was a poor student at the time.
It was great at first. I was dating an exotic dancer. I was living the dream. Just having fun. Eventually I started to have feelings for her. At that point I did want to tell her not to dance anymore but didn't feel it was my place to tell her not to dance because I was a poor student and couldn't afford to give her the $500-$1200 in cash she would bring home a night.
Eventually I started dating someone else while I was still living with her. She went through my phone when I was sleeping and started callling every female name in my call history.
It ended very badly.

The only way a guy can date and have a relationship with one of these girls is if he never has feelings for her - even while he is dating her.

 

[Ankle_Socks]

Keyword is most. Most Women are not sex workers

You are so right, Most women will probably fuck around for free, insert the celebrity or celebrities or supermarket stock boy she finds appealing and who knows.
I will not assume the best of anyone, we are humans and proven to making mistakes. A look deep within tells anyone honest with themselves that most of our mistakes are quite deliberate

 

[Perfecto]

Never fell for a massage girl but I did date a couple of dancers. Went on vacation with them. Moved in with one of them and she paid all of the rent because I was a poor student at the time.
It was great at first. I was dating an exotic dancer. I was living the dream. Just having fun. Eventually I started to have feelings for her. At that point I did want to tell her not to dance anymore but didn't feel it was my place to tell her not to dance because I was a poor student and couldn't afford to give her the $500-$1200 in cash she would bring home a night.
Eventually I started dating someone else while I was still living with her. She went through my phone when I was sleeping and started callling every female name in my call history.
It ended very badly.

The only way a guy can date and have a relationship with one of these girls is if he never has feelings for her - even while he is dating her.

Thanks for sharing, lesson learned to always give girls in your phone “male names” and I always give providers the same last name, just so I can keep track. Daniella is Dan, Maria is Mario, etc. It’s hard not to have some feelings for someone that is giving you attention/affection 24/7….if you are attracted to her and “living” with her.

With respect to sex workers, you just have to know going in that even though they might eventually have some feelings for you, their lifestyle will make it impossible for a relationship to ever truly work…unless you can really look past all the guys that are crushing her before she sees you. Which has to be close to impossible…

I think the lesson I’m hearing in this thread is if you start to develop feelings for a provider…run for the hills immediately and live to fight another day!

 

[Ankle_Socks]

I wonder how many guys here are with a woman who will go through their phone, and if you are with such a person why and earth would you stay with her?

 

[Enkidu_10]

I wonder how many guys here are with a woman who will go through their phone, and if you are with such a person why and earth would you stay with her?

Probably already have feelings by the time that behavior/insecurity is introduced. Not always willing to throw away relationship for every imperfection/disagreement you find you find in a partner.