I initially said this on SH's, how I feel many of these lovelies are lonely and vulnerable for a man's touch, I'm referring to foot and body massage shops with standard HE. These girls work almost everyday with an occasional day off, they work long hours with no personal time throughout the work week, all they see is customer after customer, of course I was disagreed with by many veterans from the former site, but I still hold to my beliefs, now with more experience. Here comes a customer, he stands out from most others, , is nice and friendly to the provider, plays around with her, gives her a massage and if nothing else, makes her feel human, she has fun instead of another standard massage and tug, this guy comes in a couple times a week and only see's her, tips well or better than most, she may or may not initially realize it but she's following his lead, more importantly falling for the guy to some extent, he ignores the same ol same run of the mill session. Phone number/wechat exchange of info. Eventually she feels comfortable enough to give in to his requests for "love making", she trusts the guy because he's taken time to put her at ease and stays in contact daily via wechat or texts. There are also FS spa girls that fall into this category, they make a connection with that guy, share info, stay connected and get together away from the shop, its like BF/GF or at least a friend with benefits, someone to go out with for a meal or a drive around the city, maybe even run errands.