Do any of you make love to these pros?? :-P

[Uniquelyme]

I'm being serious here. I'm in a private group and some of the guys on there really truly miss girls they've seen before.

Look I enjoy pros. They are easy, like ordering delivery most times. I have great sessions and I do like to fuck the shit outta them and get into the session. But I aint making love to a pro!!

Am I in the minority on this?? Do many of you make love to these Women??

 

[sushiman]

It depends. I do like the GFE experience, tongue down the throat and all that goes with it. Do you call that making love to her? All of that kissing and nibbling and whatever leads up to the final explosion you may call it love making or foreplay. Now there are people who meet the pro, get a peck on the cheek and go at it. Since I never do hour sessions with an indy provider (usually 2-3+ hours), I can't say you could call it making love when you go to a place or person you're going to see for an hour.
I'm in my 60's so I like the lead up to the final event. Been doing it this way for more than 20 years. In my mind, makes me feel good.

 

[mikemendez]

If your SO ever finds out about you with a pro, tell your SO, yes, you caught me, I fucked her, but I make love to you, . LOL . I have three catogories, making love, having sex and fucking. I have to be in love to consider it making love, having sex is when she's getting her rocks too, fucking, well, its when you have yourself a dead fish provider laying still, which sometimes we all come across, so you make the most of it and totally please your own self with her body, whatever.

 

[doofu77]

What's the difference between "making love" vs sex? I think its just nuances here. As for the whole falling in love with provider, that happens to guys here alot. Just read the reviews. Some of them are like Romance novels.

 

[Zzzz]

I'm being serious here. I'm in a private group and some of the guys on there really truly miss girls they've seen before.

Look I enjoy pros. They are easy, like ordering delivery most times. I have great sessions and I do like to fuck the shit outta them and get into the session. But I aint making love to a pro!!

Am I in the minority on this?? Do many of you make love to these Women??

You're dealing in semantics - If what you're really asking is, "Are we fully present and engaged throughout the session and very intentional about pleasuring but also submitting to being pleasured, then, personally speaking - Yes.

 

[Zzzz]

I'm being serious here. I'm in a private group and some of the guys on there really truly miss girls they've seen before.

Look I enjoy pros. They are easy, like ordering delivery most times. I have great sessions and I do like to fuck the shit outta them and get into the session. But I aint making love to a pro!!

Am I in the minority on this?? Do many of you make love to these Women??

To the mongers who see a woman (pro or non-pro) as a pump and dump...I wouldn't be surprised if they're an all around lousy lover/ lay.

 

[Zzzz]

I'm being serious here. I'm in a private group and some of the guys on there really truly miss girls they've seen before.

Look I enjoy pros. They are easy, like ordering delivery most times. I have great sessions and I do like to fuck the shit outta them and get into the session. But I aint making love to a pro!!

Am I in the minority on this?? Do many of you make love to these Women??

To the monger who avoids taking an attentive and responsive approach to a woman because she is a pro...you're only doing yourself a disservice - you're still willing to go through the experience of having sex with her, so you might as well try to make it an "out of this world" experience.

I can only rationalize this monger behavior by concluding that they have a deep-seated resentment of women (pro or non-pro).

 

[Uniquelyme]

If your SO ever finds out about you with a pro, tell your SO, yes, you caught me, I fucked her, but I make love to you, . LOL . I have three catogories, making love, having sex and fucking. I have to be in love to consider it making love, having sex is when she's getting her rocks too, fucking, well, its when you have yourself a dead fish provider laying still, which sometimes we all come across, so you make the most of it and totally please your own self with her body, whatever.

I agree with your whole post. That's what I'm talking about. Making love to a woman is being in love with her and being emotionally connected to her. I enjoy pros but they are simply there for physical connection and enjoyment. So I thought most hobbyists see it like this apparently that's not the case.

 

[Uniquelyme]

To the monger who avoids taking an attentive and responsive approach to a woman because she is a pro...you're only doing yourself a disservice - you're still willing to go through the experience of having sex with her, so you might as well try to make it an "out of this world" experience.

I can only rationalize this monger behavior by concluding that they have a deep-seated resentment of women (pro or non-pro).

Lol no I just know that a pro fucks hundreds of Men so I can't take her seriously as she shouldn't take a hobbyist seriously either.

 

[East Lake II]

I think most mongers see it that way, at least in the beginning. And with some providers it stays that way for a long time. But, then somewhere down the line emotions kick in. And, the provider goes to work. The monger doesn’t go down the rabbit hole, he’s led down, ever so softly and gently.

 

[Zzzz]

Lol no I just know that a pro fucks hundreds of Men so I can't take her seriously as she shouldn't take a hobbyist seriously either.

I definitely understand that, but that's an overplayed hand. I wasn't suggesting falling madly in love with a pro, but one can only benefit from a more sublime experience by fully committing yourself in that moment to that person...

Obviously, this can really only been done with someone you're very much into. Many mongers prefer quantity over quality around here, so I assume most are probably pump and dump experiences.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I definitely understand that, but that's an overplayed hand. I wasn't suggesting falling madly in love with a pro, but one can only benefit from a more sublime experience by fully committing yourself in that moment to that person...

Obviously, this can really only been done with someone you're very much into. Many mongers prefer quantity over quality around here, so I assume most are probably pump and dump experiences.

Please don't get it twisted. While we are together during our session the provider and I should only be focused on each other. Pleasing each other and giving our bodies and mind to each other for the time we have together. I have that with several pros I've seen. It makes for orgasms for all.

However I'm still not making love to her lol lol
If that makes sense.

 

[Bricktop]

I'm being serious here. I'm in a private group and some of the guys on there really truly miss girls they've seen before.

Look I enjoy pros. They are easy, like ordering delivery most times. I have great sessions and I do like to fuck the shit outta them and get into the session. But I aint making love to a pro!!

Am I in the minority on this?? Do many of you make love to these Women??

Hit it like it’s your last day on earth or like I’m auditioning for a part?

 

[easy2please]

Hell yes, I make love to them. I know they're pros, we're johns and it's a transaction, yadda yadda - but above all we're human beings. Sometimes personalities don't click, things progress mechanically and I chalk up the session/provider as a dud and move on. If she's reasonably attractive, our personalities click (a big deal for me) and she's skilled at her craft....it's game on and I tend to repeat. You talk about what you each enjoy and make things happen. Sometimes they don't know how to react at first to someone actually caring about their pleasure or feelings.

I've been with enough dead fish civvies that even a physical connection with a pro means a lot to me. My last LTR comes to mind, she said I needed professional help....I suppose she was right as I couldn't be happier with some of the pros who have helped me over the last 5 years.

Any personal connection in this f'd up society we live in tends to go a long way with me. And I do miss them when they travel or move on. I miss them most after a one and done with a dud. I do try to keep a rotation of favs so I don't get hung up on any one. Sometimes I have particular itch one of my favs is an expert in scratching, sometimes I have an itch to try someone new...whatever my mood it's great to have options

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I'm being serious here. I'm in a private group and some of the guys on there really truly miss girls they've seen before.

Look I enjoy pros. They are easy, like ordering delivery most times. I have great sessions and I do like to fuck the shit outta them and get into the session. But I aint making love to a pro!!

Am I in the minority on this?? Do many of you make love to these Women??

Depends on what you mean by "making love".
The acronyms are all there in the reviews we leave.
So physically I suppose I have done everything with providers that I could possibly do with a "civllian" (if I was ever with one).
Unless you are speaking about something on an "emotional" level.
In which case I am not sure.
Not sure if I have emotions...

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Given the above, I will admit something.
Regarding my #1 All time ATF.
I did care about her.
A lot.

 

[Bricktop]

Hell yes, I make love to them. I know they're pros, we're johns and it's a transaction, yadda yadda - but above all we're human beings. Sometimes personalities don't click, things progress mechanically and I chalk up the session/provider as a dud and move on. If she's reasonably attractive, our personalities click (a big deal for me) and she's skilled at her craft....it's game on and I tend to repeat. You talk about what you each enjoy and make things happen. Sometimes they don't know how to react at first to someone actually caring about their pleasure or feelings.

I've been with enough dead fish civvies that even a physical connection with a pro means a lot to me. My last LTR comes to mind, she said I needed professional help....I suppose she was right as I couldn't be happier with some of the pros who have helped me over the last 5 years.

Any personal connection in this f'd up society we live in tends to go a long way with me. And I do miss them when they travel or move on. I miss them most after a one and done with a dud. I do try to keep a rotation of favs so I don't get hung up on any one. Sometimes I have particular itch one of my favs is an expert in scratching, sometimes I have an itch to try someone new...whatever my mood it's great to have options

Best strategy to have a rotating schedule. Keeps them on their toes.

 

[cm47toimaim]

You're dealing in semantics - If what you're really asking is, "Are we fully present and engaged throughout the session and very intentional about pleasuring but also submitting to being pleasured, then, personally speaking - Yes.

Best answer !

 

[sushiman]

One thing to remember, and I always say it to the ladies and others in the hobby, and that is 'If you can't separate real life from fantasy life then you shouldn't be in the hobby!'. So many ladies ask if I'm married or have a have a girl friend. I tell them that I'm married to them for the next few hours, LOL. It keeps them wondering and quite honestly, none of their business. I love to have fun with a lady and get into the foreplay, kissing and everything that makes the session enjoyable. Once I leave or they leave, it's back to the real world. This is a DIVERSION for me, not a hobby. I have a hobby, and trust me it cost me more than this diversion.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

One thing to remember, and I always say it to the ladies and others in the hobby, and that is 'If you can't separate real life from fantasy life then you shouldn't be in the hobby!'. So many ladies ask if I'm married or have a have a girl friend. I tell them that I'm married to them for the next few hours, LOL. It keeps them wondering and quite honestly, none of their business. I love to have fun with a lady and get into the foreplay, kissing and everything that makes the session enjoyable. Once I leave or they leave, it's back to the real world. This is a DIVERSION for me, not a hobby. I have a hobby, and trust me it cost me more than this diversion.

Gambling?