Advise Needed

[AutomaticSlim]

Dude, haven't you seen the guys these young (and older) Chinese gals have as BFs/ Husbands? I rarely see a decent looking Chinese gal with an attractive male by her side...unless she's an attractive Chinese American gal, or a snobby rich FOB.

I bumble around this world in cheap whiskey colored glasses.
I only notice the things that tend to make me resentful and miserable.
All else is, unfortunately, invisible to me.
But I'll try to make an effort to notice what you speak of the next time it appears.

 

[Zzzz]

I bumble around this world in cheap whiskey colored glasses.
I only notice the things that tend to make me resentful and miserable.
All else is, unfortunately, invisible to me.
But I'll try to make an effort to notice what you speak of the next time it appears.

Chinese gals de-prioritize good looks in relation to a lot of other things about a man. It's just difficult to strike up a conversation with them because they can be so timid and come off as socially avoidant.

I like your self awareness though #ConfirmationBias

 

[cutterman]

"Difficult, but not impossible".

That's what Rocco said about Roth, and it didn't end up so good for either of them...

You'll end up sleeping with the fishes.

 

[Lovemyspa]

I just hope this guy give up a follow review to his assignations with this woman. Can not wait to read

 

[chase69]

Never know, could turn out to be true love.

 

[jonbrook]

Best of luck to you on Sunday and I hope everything goes well...

 

[NYC93]

I must say, this is a very entertaining thread. I too wish you luck and can’t wait to hear how it turns out

 

[rongetcha]

Thanks all .. Quite a fews gems on the thread which I'll surly heed. As I go into this I'll be keeping in mind my life long motto... Always expect the unexpected .

 

[nycdude]

Chinese gals de-prioritize good looks in relation to a lot of other things about a man. It's just difficult to strike up a conversation with them because they can be so timid and come off as socially avoidant.

I like your self awareness though #ConfirmationBias

Curious, are you Chinese ?

 

[Zzzz]

Curious, are you Chinese ?

Not at all, but I have enough anecdotal evidence from friends and vicarious learning to see the patterns.

 

[Jaysohn]

Robbery set up ? Too funny .
If you with you good looks went up to a girl on the street and asked her out totally unsolicited and she said yes ..
would you start second guessing your self and think ' oh boy I am being set up to me mugged ' ?

Same think here. I initiated the thought of a date. Not her .

Missing the key points - a girl 1/3 your age engaged you in a conversation about her phone not the other way around the called promoted a guy who happened to find the phone - that sounds like a setup - she baited you to ask get out - that is what I’m saying

 

[rongetcha]

Did she come up to me . Of coarse or how else could she of asked me if I'd seen it? But it was me who said let's call your number and see if anyone answers. It never occurred to her to try that. And it was me who asked her out , she was ready to move on.. I know your theory is plausible and haS some entertainment value but it's not the reality. I was there so I ( with my ever raised radar) should know .

 

[herbstriker]

I knew a woman who is currently high in finance, see her picture on corporate pages n stuff. when I knew her (she was high level, but not as highlevel) she said she liked turning tricks, not for the money, for the thrills. She told me some other stuff and now when I see her picture its like nails on a chalkboard. run. just run. Moral -- there are some pretty sick people out there who look real normal. Did I mention the bread lady? She would a) shoplift (never buy) a loaf of bread. b) devour it, c) puke it up d) devour it again , c+d+c+d a few more times, smear it on her arms so the gastric juices burned her, then she would pleasure herself. You know, down there. She looked like someone who read readers digest for lols.

 

[br2k]

I knew a woman who is currently high in finance, see her picture on corporate pages n stuff. when I knew her (she was high level, but not as highlevel) she said she liked turning tricks, not for the money, for the thrills. She told me some other stuff and now when I see her picture its like nails on a chalkboard. run. just run. Moral -- there are some pretty sick people out there who look real normal. Did I mention the bread lady? She would a) shoplift (never buy) a loaf of bread. b) devour it, c) puke it up d) devour it again , c+d+c+d a few more times, smear it on her arms so the gastric juices burned her, then she would pleasure herself. You know, down there. She looked like someone who read readers digest for lols.

@herbstriker You ok there bud?

 

[herbstriker]

@herbstriker You ok there bud?

no. I'm not ok. I'm fucking awesome, baby!

 

[nycdude]

Chinese gals de-prioritize good looks in relation to a lot of other things about a man. It's just difficult to strike up a conversation with them because they can be so timid and come off as socially avoidant.

I like your self awareness though #ConfirmationBias

IDK, all the Chinese women I have met love to talk. Matter of fact, they don't shut-up. LOL. Japanese women I have met tend to be more quiet.

 

[Evolfonam]

I wonder if the young woman in question is on some lady-board asking for similar advice about going out with a much older man she just met. And they’re probably all filling her head with notions of him being a scammer, sexual predator with the ultimate intent of axe-murdering her. Lmao! They’ll even back it up with links to news articles about women who have been met with such unfortunate grave circumstances.

@rongetcha You do you, bro. Just keep in mind what a priest once told me “Trust in God... but still lock your car door.”

 

[herbstriker]

So you met the guy who returned the phone? What was the interaction like?

I called her number on my phone and someone who'd found it answered. He could hardly speak English but we worked it out to where he figured out where we were and returned her iPhone.

 

[Swen]

What if it’s like this?

 

[primocon]

Good looking Ivy-league math grad? Doesn't speak English well? Doesn't have a bf? Wants to date a 66-yr old? C'mon man. Use the big head.