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rongetcha

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Yesterday I was minding my own business on a street corner when a very pretty Chinese girl on a Citibank came up to me and asked if I'd seen her iPhone which she had just lost. She looked like high school age. Felt bad for her so I helped her look for it as she was in a panic. She asked if she could use the find my iPhone app on my phone and I obliged but it didn't work. Then I called her number on my phone and someone who'd found it answered. He could hardly speak English but we worked it out to where he figured out where we were and returned her iPhone.

The girl was very grateful for my help and we spent next 10 min talking .
Turns out she finished grad school at Ivy League school for mathematics. As such very surprisingly she must be 22 or 23. Anyway I asked her to dinner and she said sure.

After she left we exchanged texts and set up dinner for this weekend. She sounds enthusiastic about it.

I see this as a golden opportunity to have a true civi as a possible sex partner. I'm 66 married and totally jaded since the only sex I've had the last 15 yrs is with girls I've paid , either providers or arrangements like on SA.

This is just a regular nice girl. I need advice or suggestions on how to navigate this. My goal is to be able to move this to where she's ok with being intimate even tho I'd never be a real boyfriend due to age difference and that I'm married ( my ring stays on). And I don't want to make any suggestions that lll help her financially unless that's a last resort.
 
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rongetcha

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MongersGonnaMong said:
If it doesn’t work out can you PM me her number


also, I wouldn’t keep my guard down. A cute 22 year old Ivy League grad suddenly coming up to you for her “lost phone” seems a bit scammish
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Wow your even more jaded than me !
For this to be a scam the guy who returned phone would have to be part of the ' scam '. And she would not have offered me a reward . And I was the one who asked her out.
 
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rongetcha said:
Wow your even more jaded than me !
For this to be a scam the guy who returned phone would have to be part of the ' scam '. And she would not have offered me a reward . And I was the one who asked her out.
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Sorry
Native New Yorker here, some assume we’re assholes when it’s just cold pragmatism
Hey, you might begin a lovely civie relationship and more power to you BUT I would stay cautious
Have you checked out her social media accounts? Is she truly responsive on text messages? I would first put her through some tests before going forward with this.
good luck
 
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rongetcha said:
Wow your even more jaded than me !
For this to be a scam the guy who returned phone would have to be part of the ' scam '. And she would not have offered me a reward . And I was the one who asked her out.
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I mean, yea. The other guy could be very well in on it. I'm usually very wary of people approaching me on the street in NYC. Unless you're a really well aged 66 y/o who looks 40 and is ripped. I would not assume a girl 1/3rd of my age is interested in me non-platonically.
 
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Depends a lot on if you are trying to get her for free?..... or willing to spend at least as much as you would have spent for normal sessions?
You're more than 40 yrs her senior. If she actually shows-up for dinner then you're already 3/4 of the way there. She knows what's on your mind. Make her happy to be around you, and I'll bet she'll make you happy too. Take her someplace nice. Makes sure the drinks are flowing. Make her smile. Maybe take her for some minor shopping : )
 
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rongetcha said:
Yesterday I was minding my own business on a street corner when a very pretty Chinese girl on a Citibank came up to me and asked if I'd seen her iPhone which she had just lost. She looked like high school age. Felt bad for her so I helped her look for it as she was in a panic. She asked if she could use the find my iPhone app on my phone and I obliged but it didn't work. Then I called her number on my phone and someone who'd found it answered. He could hardly speak English but we worked it out to where he figured out where we were and returned her iPhone.

The girl was very grateful for my help and we spent next 10 min talking .
Turns out she finished grad school at Ivy League school for mathematics. As such very surprisingly she must be 22 or 23. Anyway I asked her to dinner and she said sure.

After she left we exchanged texts and set up dinner for this weekend. She sounds enthusiastic about it.

I see this as a golden opportunity to have a true civi as a possible sex partner. I'm 66 married and totally jaded since the only sex I've had the last 15 yrs is with girls I've paid , either providers or arrangements like on SA.

This is just a regular nice girl. I need advice or suggestions on how to navigate this. My goal is to be able to move this to where she's ok with being intimate even tho I'd never be a real boyfriend due to age difference and that I'm married ( my ring stays on). And I don't want to make any suggestions that lll help her financially unless that's a last resort.
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Keep us posted on how you make out.
 
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I second keeping your guard up for scams, but otherwise, I'm very excited for you! I know a guy in his 60s who has gone out with girls in their 20s and his magic seems to be sense of humour and a big personality. Even if she is an ivy league grad, being asian (strict household? maybe small town?) and 22 years old, NY might be a big, intimidating city and if you can give her some guidance and make her feel special and connected, she could open up to you. I'm rooting for you and good luck!
 
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rongetcha

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Appreciating all the input ..
But as to the conspiracy theories .
I think you are looking at this through a mongers lense where radar for scam is always up. Hell I've been scammed enough on Sa so I know ..
But this is just an innocent but lucky circumstance .
 
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richardp2918 said:
In addition to cash, credit cards, personal data, etc...I'd also be careful about potentially spiked drinks or food. I've known guys first hand who have been robbed after their drinks were spiked.
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Yeah, he might wake up in a back alley behind 98 Mott with a scar where one of his kidneys used to be...

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@rongetcha -- go for it anyway! We deserve young poon! All of us!
 
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