Yesterday I was minding my own business on a street corner when a very pretty Chinese girl on a Citibank came up to me and asked if I'd seen her iPhone which she had just lost. She looked like high school age. Felt bad for her so I helped her look for it as she was in a panic. She asked if she could use the find my iPhone app on my phone and I obliged but it didn't work. Then I called her number on my phone and someone who'd found it answered. He could hardly speak English but we worked it out to where he figured out where we were and returned her iPhone.
The girl was very grateful for my help and we spent next 10 min talking .
Turns out she finished grad school at Ivy League school for mathematics. As such very surprisingly she must be 22 or 23. Anyway I asked her to dinner and she said sure.
After she left we exchanged texts and set up dinner for this weekend. She sounds enthusiastic about it.
I see this as a golden opportunity to have a true civi as a possible sex partner. I'm 66 married and totally jaded since the only sex I've had the last 15 yrs is with girls I've paid , either providers or arrangements like on SA.
This is just a regular nice girl. I need advice or suggestions on how to navigate this. My goal is to be able to move this to where she's ok with being intimate even tho I'd never be a real boyfriend due to age difference and that I'm married ( my ring stays on). And I don't want to make any suggestions that lll help her financially unless that's a last resort.
My friend I had to weigh in- I am a very in shape young looking older guy. Take my word as a jaded NY’er it could be a setup , the other guy on the phone could be in on it , or she was just being nice .
You are married , so if you met her and was beaten and robbed you wouldn’t report it- they know that
If in fact it’s a hookup , count on her asking for compensation very quickly .
If you give her compensation then ask yourself why that is different than a young working girl or seeking arrangement
The fact is they mongers here are right . Believe me even though i look 45 - no 23 yr old would be seriously interested. The expression is “ there is no fool like an old fool”
As long as you understand that she isn’t there because she actually likes you , or is attracted to you , that is eventually will be about money whether you volunteer or she spells out the deal.
Most important make sure it’s not a robbery setup. If it’s a hotel check the closets and the bathroom first and chain the door .
It’s not love - not 66 and 23 sorry
