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Uniquelyme

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Well it'd have to be a hotel since I'm married . I'm kinda forced to be direct.

Should I go in with the idea of just trying to live another day? In other words be real nice and ' safe ' and have her agree to a second date? Ive got time and money so I can nurture this along.
If you go that route make sure you kiss her on the first date. Even so the first date you can still say let's go have a drink in my hotel room.
 

Steyuki

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If she agrees then plan a hotel setup. Well you are playing it safe. You wanna come over after dinner could mean a lot of things. She’s gonna think what she wants to think. You not going to change that. I just don’t want you to spend all the time and money to find out, I only wanted to friends and have a free dinner. Which is fine but can we have dessert back at my place.
 

AutomaticSlim

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I knew full well as I was posting the thread that over 90% would be bs, conspiracy theories and noise .
But also knew a few pearls of wisdom would appear which it has. It's if like being on SA in that you know over 90% of the girls you are speaking to are a waste of time but you do it since you also know there's a diamond in rough. Nothing is absolute.
You forgot about the lolz.
Lot's and lot's of lolz!
 

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You see .. this is the type of advice worth waiting for! Thanks my friend..
I tried to give you good advise...very early in this thread....FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. You seemed pleased with someone's recent advise to go straight to the hotel, be upfront right away, skip dinner etc. Really?? You have so many options you are willing to take that risk? You just said "Ive got time and money so I can nurture this along. "....If that is the case, why skip dinner and the initial "courtship" and all the fun and butterflies and titillation, that would come with that time. Why risk having at least that "moment". If you are looking for best "odds" to move forward, nurture this. Sounds like any time spent with a young pretty girl would be fun. Why risk it ending right up front? Enjoy whatever you can, whenever you can, and you can control when you feel time is best to make you move.
 

rongetcha

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I tried to give you good advise...very early in this thread....FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. You seemed pleased with someone's recent advise to go straight to the hotel, be upfront right away, skip dinner etc. Really?? You have so many options you are willing to take that risk? You just said "Ive got time and money so I can nurture this along. "....If that is the case, why skip dinner and the initial "courtship" and all the fun and butterflies and titillation, that would come with that time. Why risk having at least that "moment". If you are looking for best "odds" to move forward, nurture this. Sounds like any time spent with a young pretty girl would be fun. Why risk it ending right up front? Enjoy whatever you can, whenever you can, and you can control when you feel time is best to make you move.
This is excellent advice . Thanks !
It's instilled in me as a hobbiest to go for the pussy now but may be best to play it out .
 

Baddanu

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60+ meets 20+ and she agrees to go out with you...hmmm on a date or to just have dinner?
i would be highly suspicious, i knew of a host of NYU students who would go out seeking sugar daddies, so be careful...might cost you more than the regular FS spot
Also most scams do begin like this, some of them are canning your CC while chatting, to you, there is also the sim swap scam ( not a physical sim swap )
When i lived in Miami there was a scam where young girls will somehow be in a nightclub they are not supposed to be in , then you sleep with them and you either pay up or get hit with the stat. rape charge, or the other one is to date you for about a month, spend the night once or twice, and one day you come home and even your door knobs are gone
just be careful
 

richardp2918

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60+ meets 20+ and she agrees to go out with you...hmmm on a date or to just have dinner?
i would be highly suspicious, i knew of a host of NYU students who would go out seeking sugar daddies, so be careful...might cost you more than the regular FS spot
Also most scams do begin like this, some of them are canning your CC while chatting, to you, there is also the sim swap scam ( not a physical sim swap )
When i lived in Miami there was a scam where young girls will somehow be in a nightclub they are not supposed to be in , then you sleep with them and you either pay up or get hit with the stat. rape charge, or the other one is to date you for about a month, spend the night once or twice, and one day you come home and even your door knobs are gone
just be careful
Wow, the statutory rape scam. My friend was a victim of that in Rio de Janeiro once. He paid up but a week later he read an article about an American who refused to pay up and was reported, prosecuted, and jailed in Brazil! These things do happen.
 

Rubmegood

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Does she know your married? You wearing a ring? Sounds too good to be true. Like she will do all these things and maybe threaten your marriage unless you give her money.
 

Kinkykev

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Oh man your playing secret agent here, lol. Should I worry about being kidnapped too ?
I second this I know someone this happened to in NYC. Man met girl, they went on a date. Later she told him to meet him at "her place" Two thugs beat him down and stole his stuff. If it's too good to be true beware. Even if she has good intentions, her friends, family might judge her harshly if they find out and try to entrap you later.
 

rongetcha

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I second this I know someone this happened to in NYC. Man met girl, they went on a date. Later she told him to meet him at "her place" Two thugs beat him down and stole his stuff. If it's too good to be true beware. Even if she has good intentions, her friends, family might judge her harshly if they find out and try to entrap you later.
Another conspiracy theorist I see...
 

rongetcha

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LOL. This thread.

I feel like we are talking about a naive guy who has never been with a young attractive woman and he is in a foreign country for the 1st time. Op is a NY'er, monger, and active sugar daddy.
It's been 40yrs since I did this.. longer than some of you guys have been alive. I've either been married or hobbied.
 

rongetcha

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triforcelink101

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Do you look wealthy? Obviously everyone is doubting because of the age difference. Unless you look 40 at 60 and/or look put together/like you have money, there is not real reason to believe you would be in this situation. "Good conversation" is just simply not believable to people here (myself included). I hope we're all wrong and you struck gold my friend, otherwise...be safe.
 

PlaygroundQuartz

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OP isn't looking for advice, he has been given plenty of good reasons why this is probably a scam, and is insisting that it isn't.

Fair enough, but OP at this point you are going to have to follow up and I hope you are man enough to admit it and tell us all what the scam was (and hopefully how you got out of it without being caught up.)

When's the date so we can follow up and insist on hearing what happened?
 
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