Let’s face it, there is a huge supply and demand imbalance when it comes to “fulfilling needs”. Women don’t really need to work for it. She can go to a bar, flirt with a waiter or find a fling online no problem.
However, as far as massage places? I think it’s more the legit spas like the Hand and Stone type places. She flirts with the masseuse and there is a decent chance he’s willing to accommodate. When you hear about these male masseuses in legit places getting busted for “inappropriate touching”, I think it’s often a case of misread signals. He thought she wanted more and he was wrong. However, if it never happened, he wouldn’t risk it trying. It probably doesn’t happen every day, but I’d bet these guys all have a few stories.