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What you do when you fall in love with massage girl

kgmspa

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Thanks. But not in her eyes if I expand my Asian horizon and my scrotum may be castrated by one of them.
It is always her eyes! She has angel eyes! So pretty. The brightest star in the sky is no match when I look into her eyes! The most beautiful girl in the world
 

Maple Garden

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Good luck, man...this is no easy road you choose. Keep your eyes open for what is really happening.

Seriously, ask her if she will quit the job if you and her were to become one couple. And if she says yes, ask for how long.
I don’t think quitting her job is the big thing everyone makes it out to be. To her it’s just a job. Just like our jobs. We think quitting their job is important because of our insecurities. We are afraid she will meet some other monger who has more to offer and thus she leaves. More important is how she feels about you and where you rank in her list of priorities. They have a lot of baggage and complicated relationships that you will never know about that will influence how she feels about you.
I lost the bidding was, another guy took the prize. Thank god. So many are lovely women, but not women I will love. If you dont get in that is the place to start.
“What you do when you fall in love with massage girl?

1. You smother her
2. Cause problems between her and owner/mamasan
3. Cause her to change shops, without notice
4. You visit her to often, more often than she really wants
5. You make her feel dirty, she’s ok doing what she does, but you attempt to love her, save her, rescue her, she doesn’t want to be rescued
6. You insert yourself into her life, she plays along, its her job, although you can’t differentiate
7. You cause her to treat you cold, you want something more and she just wants to earn a living.
8. You become isolated, you think about her everyday, all day
9. You spend money you really can’t afford, to see her
10. You are labeled by mamasan/provider, they have a special name for you, not a flattering one either

When a customer inserts himself into the life of a provider he does so selfishly, she can’t reject you as harshly as she typically would otherwise, since you insert yourself where she works, during her job, she depends on her return customer for earnings, she wants a decent tip, you attempt to include your heart, this places her in a very difficult situation. She eventually moves to another shop or city even, she’s happy until you find out where she’s relocated to and you once again insert yourself. You feel like she’s lying to you, as if she owes you something and has to be completely honest and forthcoming to you, she has a husband or at least one boyfriend, and you are neither to her. To her face and while you are alone, you speak well of her, to another monger you speak ill about her trying to mask your feelings. Your make believe rabbit hole wishes to kick you out, except you won’t look yourself in the mirror and come to terms with yourself. The fantasy becomes your life, no one but you is aware of it.
You become less productive, the addiction to her is overwhelming you.
I would agree with all except,

“She eventually moves to another shop or city even, she’s happy until you find out where she’s relocated to”

They want you to keep seeing them, they like the gifts and money you give them.
 

haaretz

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I don’t think quitting her job is the big thing everyone makes it out to be. To her it’s just a job. Just like our jobs. We think quitting their job is important because of our insecurities. We are afraid she will meet some other monger who has more to offer and thus she leaves. More important is how she feels about you and where you rank in her list of priorities. They have a lot of baggage and complicated relationships that you will never know about that will influence how she feels about you.



I would agree with all except,

“She eventually moves to another shop or city even, she’s happy until you find out where she’s relocated to”

They want you to keep seeing them, they like the gifts and money you give them.
Fall in love with another. Otherwise you become clingy, whiny and vulnerable. Smoke some weed and ponder it all.
 

Koondog

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"I don’t think quitting her job is the big thing everyone makes it out to be. To her it’s just a job. Just like our jobs. We think quitting their job is important because of our insecurities. We are afraid she will meet some other monger who has more to offer and thus she leaves."

I don't think it's that. To me it's more a thing of---you don't get to fuck other guys every day and then consider what we have together a 'serious' relationship. Because it's not.

I would say to her "you weren't a whore in China, you had a real job and had real relationships. Yes, you came here---you made a shitload of money doing FS. If you want to get into a serious relationship with an American guy, having sex with strangers all day long isn't going to cut it. You had your fun, made enough money to buy 5 houses in China for everyone in your family--so if you want a relationship with me you're going to have to get yourself a menial job just like as if you were in China and we go from there."

Talk about unicorns---Find a girl willing to do that and you're on to something.
 

Koujiao

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I am happy though! Forget about me! What is your experience. Are you still friends with her? Do u still love her
I'm not on either question.
I don’t think quitting her job is the big thing everyone makes it out to be. To her it’s just a job. Just like our jobs. We think quitting their job is important because of our insecurities..
The question wasn't about any personal insecurities, it is a test. Chinese women are raised to know they hold up half the sky, Mao preached it and then made them work like dogs. More power to them, work away. Chinese women see work as a desirable role- it gives them independence, and avoids subservience.

Will will she quit this AMP job, which isn't "just a job", because it includes sexual favors for money, and for her independence.
 

kgmspa

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I'm not on either question.


The question wasn't about any personal insecurities, it is a test. Chinese women are raised to know they hold up half the sky, Mao preached it and then made them work like dogs. More power to them, work away. Chinese women see work as a desirable role- it gives them independence, and avoids subservience.

Will will she quit this AMP job, which isn't "just a job", because it includes sexual favors for money, and for her independence.
No she will never quit. She always tell me work hard. I prefer easy but I understand her
 

haaretz

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Had plenty of crushes. Never had it deep enough to leave my wife for her.
It's all about crushes and infatuation...we go out to live it up. Lose some control, have fun but don't trade in the Mrs for some little salacious jezebel.
 

kgmspa

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It's all about crushes and infatuation...we go out to live it up. Lose some control, have fun but don't trade in the Mrs for some little salacious jezebel.
You sound exactly like my GF. When I tell her she is good friend of mine my GF looks at me with contempt and says yea u and these asian girls. Im like why you say that! Lol
 

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Help her to become MMS and then owner (with you). You do the books and she runs day to day. She does training and you provide body for training to take place upon. A simple division of labor.
 

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You sound exactly like my GF. When I tell her she is good friend of mine my GF looks at me with contempt and says yea u and these asian girls. Im like why you say that! Lol

I may have missed a few messages here, but, your girlfriend KNOWS about the AMP girl???
If so, that's a great girlfriend!!!
So she does the cooking and cleaning for you while you go out to AMPs?
Where do I find a girl like that?!
 

kgmspa

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I may have missed a few messages here, but, your girlfriend KNOWS about the AMP girl???
If so, that's a great girlfriend!!!
So she does the cooking and cleaning for you while you go out to AMPs?
Where do I find a girl like that?!
Yes she does. She is mine. She not like what I do and sometimes yells at me. She IS the sweetest girl I know. I am lucky :)
 
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