What you do when you fall in love with massage girl

[Srhsrh]

I have seen this, where guys get banned from spas because of their infatuation with a girl who hates him. I’ve also seen girls leave town over this.
But I’ve also seen it where the attraction is mutual. But one or the other is married, so the angst and misery set in. Particularly when the guy is married, hates his wife, loves the attention he gets from a young pretty girl, and he’s wanting to maintain status quo.
Deceiving one of these girls with promises of eventual marriage when you have no intention is really the lowest. And it plays out the most frequently on the poor girls.

 

[KiteEnvy]

This has been a most interesting thread. Thanks all for the great dialog so far. It’s nice to know others have struggled with loving an amp woman. I did, suffered mightily, and still hurt a little when I let myself get back in that mind set of thinking of her as more than a friend.

And while at the love apex the suffering was intense, with the infatuation, sleepless nights, being distracted, neglecting my family, etc., It was also an incredible rush with some great outcomes including me losing serious weight, becoming super fit, paying attention again to how I dress, groom, act, etc. I literally felt/still feel younger, like 32 again, not 52. In many ways I think it saved me physically despite the pain emotionally.

All I all though I’d still recommend Not falling in love, the emotional suffering is not worth it. Stick to lust and friendship.

 

[Waterboy]

Excellent and enlightening thread. Moral of the story - keep it all in perspective. We are travelling through fantasy land.

 

[haaretz]

This has been a most interesting thread. Thanks all for the great dialog so far. It’s nice to know others have struggled with loving an amp woman. I did, suffered mightily, and still hurt a little when I let myself get back in that mind set of thinking of her as more than a friend.

And while at the love apex the suffering was intense, with the infatuation, sleepless nights, being distracted, neglecting my family, etc., It was also an incredible rush with some great outcomes including me losing serious weight, becoming super fit, paying attention again to how I dress, groom, act, etc. I literally felt/still feel younger, like 32 again, not 52. In many ways I think it saved me physically despite the pain emotionally.

All I all though I’d still recommend Not falling in love, the emotional suffering is not worth it. Stick to lust and friendship.

Absolutely. Lust and friendship they can handle. The illusion that me, a 60 year old, is suddenly a hot young stud again....
This is the wonderful sell job that the best providers do for us, and gives these ladies the repeat business that they depend on.
As Waterboy just said, "we are all traveling through fantasy land."

 

[kgmspa]

It is a fantasy! If it ever became real then I would forever be hers. She is forever my friend The most beautiful girl in the world

 

[Wayne1250]

More like following the rabbit and falling down the hole to Wonderland. But sometimes it takes along time to wake up from the dream and find yourself back in your bed.

 

[kgmspa]

More like following the rabbit and falling down the hole to Wonderland. But sometimes it takes along time to wake up from the dream and find yourself back in your bed.

If just once I find her in my bed! The ultimate dream.

 

[East Lake II]

If just once I find her in my bed! The ultimate dream.

Live the Dream. Invite her over and make the Dream reality. And then see if the Dream was better as a Dream.

 

[krideynyc]

If just once I find her in my bed! The ultimate dream.

The only way for this to ever work for me is if my wife was on the other side..... So not likely to happen.

 

[East Lake II]

The only way for this to ever work for me is if my wife was on the other side..... So not likely to happen.

Not a good situation. You need to find a way to see yourself clear of these emotions.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Not a good situation. You need to find a way to see yourself clear of these emotions.

I think you quoted the wrong person

 

[krideynyc]

Not a good situation. You need to find a way to see yourself clear of these emotions.

Don't have emotional issues. My scenerio would have a less chance of happening than kgmspa's.

 

[East Lake II]

I think you quoted the wrong person

Yea, looks like it. Thanks

 

[BillaBong]

When you think you have fallen in love with her,visit her few times, ask for FS
If she accepts, enjoy.
If not,move on. I don't see any problem here!

 

[kgmspa]

When you think you have fallen in love with her,visit her few times, ask for FS
If she accepts, enjoy.
If not,move on. I don't see any problem here!

FS or the highway lol

 

[727]

From my perspective, I do not buy or rent human beings, the woman is a consenting adult, a free spirit, not for sale or barter. I mean, come on, I am not putting her in a bag and taking her home. I am paying solely for whatever experience she cares to offer, I just follow her Rrhythm. I try to go only to places where the women do not give you an experience, but "share" the experience with you-very important distinction.
So my humble advice is; fall head over heels in love with the experience, never the provider-and you'll be just fine.

 

[DannyG]

Much of what is being said in this thread proves to some extent that men need, want or desire an emotional connection almost as much as women, it’s not enough to visit a parlor for a good shower, massage, wank or balls deep in pussy, men want more than just the physical too.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Much of what is being said in this thread proves to some extent that men need, want or desire an emotional connection almost as much as women, it’s not enough to visit a parlor for a good shower, massage, wank or balls deep in pussy, men want more than just the physical too.

Sure...Need someone to do the cooking, cleaning and laundry as well...

 

[krideynyc]

Much of what is being said in this thread proves to some extent that men need, want or desire an emotional connection almost as much as women, it’s not enough to visit a parlor for a good shower, massage, wank or balls deep in pussy, men want more than just the physical too.

More feels; less mechanical.

 

[KittyHawk]

I feel your pain. Married to an Irish woman myself. And you're right on point about them being more brutal than Asian women. Way more brutal.

My wife is Irish descent on both sides of her family. Hand you your head in a heartbeat. Maybe that is why Irish guys drink so much.