Most of the "established" members don't welcome unsolicited PMs. If I went that route I'd get yelled at for that.
If you have information to share, like your top spas, please do so if you feel inclined. Everything else can stay off the thread. Please for the love of god just share information and if you don't want to share, don't post on the thread....
It's no different then me asking your top 3 beers or top three movies. No secret information needed.