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Therapy for this hobby
- Thread starter AsacSchrader
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Your perspective or anyone’s in that situation would eventually result in betrayal . It is difficult maybe impossible to love someone , sleep next to them knowing there is no bond, that she has betrayed you . You will be left wondering each time she goes out , if it is really a smokescreen for yet another premeditated betrayal. No love, no woman is worth that .
If you are not familiar with Post Malone’s Circles I urge you to hit it up on you tube .
Circles” by Post Malone is about recognizing a pattern that leads to pain and ending it. Though the song is melancholy, it's a lesson most people can relate to on some level. We can't always make things work, and when the time comes it's okay to let some things become memories as we move past them and into the future.
Circles” by Post Malone is about recognizing a pattern that leads to pain and ending it. Though the song is melancholy, it's a lesson most people can relate to on some level. We can't always make things work, and when the time comes it's okay to let some things become memories as we move past them and into the future.
You can break the addiction. It requires work and understanding that it is an addiction and it is usually a desire that covers up other issues. If you are married, try connecting with your wife again, in which case you may not want to hobby or feel guilty about it. If you are single, try regular dating. Also realize these girls in the hobby are seriously damaged goods. The guys who say they are not are the simps who are love struck. Any self-respecting woman would have real goals and not do this shit. Put it this way, what would your opinion of a fellow dude be if he did this work and fucked grannies for a living? You wouldn't think highly of him. So why should it be different with respect to females? It is about finding meaning in life and not looking for a "rush" from the hobby.
Dr Phil is that you ? lol
Buddy of mine has been in rehab 5x . I see him at a restaurant with a martini clearly not his first . I said bro what about rehab , he replied “ I like to have a couple of drinks” . Some people never see the problem as a problem.
In terms of normal girls , the most screwed girls you will ever find are divorced with kids women whose husbands cheated. I did match , j date , millionaire match , and a host of others . 2 dates a week for years. One or two lasted a few months , one I lived with a gorgeous Asian who turned out to hate sex . I spent about 125k over ten years , I couldn’t find her . There is a movie called Joe Somebody with Tim Allen and Jim Belushi. Jim plays a washed up karate movie guy. Tim Allen sees the posters and asks what happened. After Belushi says he learned one thing - you have to find a woman that will stand by you whether you’re somebody or not . Allen asks him - did you ever find her , Belushi swigs a beer , and says nope !
Buddy of mine has been in rehab 5x . I see him at a restaurant with a martini clearly not his first . I said bro what about rehab , he replied “ I like to have a couple of drinks” . Some people never see the problem as a problem.
In terms of normal girls , the most screwed girls you will ever find are divorced with kids women whose husbands cheated. I did match , j date , millionaire match , and a host of others . 2 dates a week for years. One or two lasted a few months , one I lived with a gorgeous Asian who turned out to hate sex . I spent about 125k over ten years , I couldn’t find her . There is a movie called Joe Somebody with Tim Allen and Jim Belushi. Jim plays a washed up karate movie guy. Tim Allen sees the posters and asks what happened. After Belushi says he learned one thing - you have to find a woman that will stand by you whether you’re somebody or not . Allen asks him - did you ever find her , Belushi swigs a beer , and says nope !
Genuinely sorry to hear that getting off the hobby didn't work out. Does that mean you are no longer with the woman who got away all those years ago? That's rough, but I can understand. I think I'd have to move out of NY if I got married...every time I walk out the door, there's dozens of amazing young girls walking around in the skimpiest outfits and I know they're banging tons of guys. Too much distraction in NY.
Here is a nice little trick I’ve used (no pun intended). Avoid any porn use and try nofap for at least a week. Your thought patterns will change completely and also your view of this hobby. In 2021 I mongered 20-25 times. In 2022, 3 times and this year just once (HE sessions not included, which were another two). This is essentially real life porn and ya gotta condition your brain out of it. It really adds nothing to long term happiness and is a big financial drain.
Yes nofap does increase your urge in the short term, but it’s effects are more to retrain your thought processes. Aside from our natural urge, I feel like this activity is on people’s minds a lot for reasons other than reproduction. Even if you’re rich and this hobby is a non-expense, I don’t think it creates any sort of long term fulfillment.