Taking it to the grave?

[medroogies]

A friend, one for many years, told me of his activities over lunch. I was not surprised, and told him I'd done it as well, but had to stop as the wife managed to figure it out somehow, which sucked. I suppose it was the one time I let the little head rule and used a credit card that I rarely use, and which only I had access to, but somehow she managed to see the monthly bill and called the number on it. Honestly have no clue at all how that happened, since I'd cancelled bills in the mail. But she got it, and there it is. I am lucky I am still married, to be honest.

At any rate, only my friend knows, and he is still active. We share stories occasionally, because I still visit R&T places. However, getting back to the FS game is something I'm considering. I doubt I'd ever tell anyone else.

 

[meiji]

I have a few close friends that know and others including my family that probably suspect. It certainly wouldn't ruin me if it came out, but my sex life is my business. I don't ask my relatives how their sex lives are either. I've met online and in person with a number of other hobbyists that I keep in touch with beyond the various whore boards I'm on, and they are generally who I talk to about my experiences.

I've had a few situations with family and friends where hobby stuff happened (friends inviting me to massage parlors etc) and I didn't let on that I knew as much as I do. It's a little awkward.