Taking it to the grave?

[MikePapa]

As i also keep it private
what % of people would you expect go to AMPs? out of 100 random guys maybe 5 (5%)

higher or lower ??

Lower, if we’re talking about a national average simply because of access. We really are spoiled in North Jersey. Once you drive 100 miles west the rest of America becomes very rural very quickly. Beyond access there are other issues, including but not limited to, disposable income, ethics, morality, fortitude, transportation, time, etc.

Google suggests that up to 14% of men admit to paying for sex at some point in their lives, yet only 1% have done so in the past year.

 

[Thatguy23]

I tell no one. Tell one person only if you're ok with everyone knowing. I could literally be sitting at a bar at a brothel and wouldn't tell a thing to the guy sitting next to me.

That being said, assume everyone will know someday if they don't already. In the internet age, you have to assume that. Also, it will help mentally if (when) your secret does come out. If will feel less devastating if you've already accepted that's inevitable.

 

[NYguy70]

Lower, if we’re talking about a national average simply because of access. We really are spoiled in North Jersey. Once you drive 100 miles west the rest of America becomes very rural very quickly. Beyond access there are other issues, including but not limited to, disposable income, ethics, morality, fortitude, transportation, time, etc.

Google suggests that up to 14% of men admit to paying for sex at some point in their lives, yet only 1% have done so in the past year.

Totally agree. Just look at the new posts on this site on a daily basis. Besides a couple of posts from San Fran, I would say 95% are from NY/NJ/PA.

Just think: if an amp were to open in NYC, the average lay person would never notice. If one were to open on Main Street in Bumfuck, Nebraska, it would make the local news!

 

[Doubleyellow]

His mistake was not ordering the duck...

i guess he also forgot to duck!

 

[Please50]

I don’t necessarily recommend that people do this. But I confessed my many years of mongering to my wife a few years ago. Initially it was rough. Briefly I was worried she was going to leave me. But after some really crazy conversations where I said things like who cares if I touch another woman’s breasts and it was clarified that I would never leave my wife we now have an understanding that my mongering is permissible as long as I don’t let it get out of hand

 

[rottie]

I don’t necessarily recommend that people do this. But I confessed my many years of mongering to my wife a few years ago. Initially it was rough. Briefly I was worried she was going to leave me. But after some really crazy conversations where I said things like who cares if I touch another woman’s breasts and it was clarified that I would never leave my wife we now have an understanding that my mongering is permissible as long as I don’t let it get out of hand

holy shit - that is fascinating

 

[stinkweed56]

I don’t necessarily recommend that people do this. But I confessed my many years of mongering to my wife a few years ago. Initially it was rough. Briefly I was worried she was going to leave me. But after some really crazy conversations where I said things like who cares if I touch another woman’s breasts and it was clarified that I would never leave my wife we now have an understanding that my mongering is permissible as long as I don’t let it get out of hand

In my case, the first thing my wife would want to know is 'how much money have I spent on it, over the years.' And that would be the end of that...

 

[rottie]

In my case, the first thing my wife would want to know is 'how much money have I spent on it, over the years.' And that would be the end of that...

so true

 

[Please50]

For me the guilt compelled me to confess. Maybe it’s a rationalization. But I don’t think I could handle the stress of my job without mongering and I make good money so I think the ROI is there

 

[donl6269]

If I ever told my wife about mongering she would give me the Lorena Bobbitt treatment, but she would want me to be awake when she cut it off.

 

[Doubleyellow]

In my case, the first thing my wife would want to know is 'how much money have I spent on it, over the years.' And that would be the end of that...

Would the response ‘less than she spent on clothes , cosmetics and accessories’ work?

 

[stinkweed56]

Would the response ‘less than she spent on clothes , cosmetics and accessories’ work?

I dont know, I have spent A TON of money over about 45 years (33 of them while married) on this. I actually have it more under control now then at any other time.

 

[Please50]

I dont know, I have spent A TON of money over about 45 years (33 of them while married) on this. I actually have it more under control now then at any other time.

Over 45 years I imagine he spent a ton of money on a lot of them

 

[Please50]

Over 45 years I imagine he spent a ton of money on a lot of them

Things not them

 

[medroogies]

I never told anyone until a good friend told me about his experiences...and then we shared.
I'm probably less active than he is, but without him sharing his stories, I probably would have taken it to the grave.

 

[warmonger50]

I've never participated in this hobby, I don't know what you guys are talking about, I just come here to read all the fascinating fictional stories.

 

[BigBoy12]

I share with my good friend that also mongers from time to time, sometimes we share experiences and reviews. I wouldn't share with anyone who doesn't monger so they will have an upside against you and tell your secrets as blackmail.

This I do as well. We share stories. But only him. No other friends.

 

[stoodup]

Believe anything can damage my life. So this hobby must be riskier than you might expect. The only friend on this hobby is your Johnson.

 

[njgiants10]

I agree take to grave! unless your brothers going at the same time which I have seen

 

[BryanS]

I have hobbied with my literal brother as well as my buddy that I have know for more than 30 years ....and neither one of them know the depths of what I have done and never will. But they do know I do this and they enjoy it also, from AMP's to adult clubs to BJ's at parties, we have done them all together