Hi all. I do my best to review and comment when I can, either here on on usasexguide or BestGFE. I've posted reviews, but I've also done a lot of what I consider my "civic duty" of warning others when I come across an absolute shitshow of a provider. Over the years, I've gotten better at reading between the lines and my happiness with providers has risen greatly. I want to share some of those tips with you.
- Visit your favorite provider site every day. When you're ready to pull the trigger, you'll have an idea of who has been around for a while and what ads are new. You'll also avoid being tempted by especially racy photos and text, as you'll have read and seen it all. You'll also start to notice that agencies and scammers basically follow a template in their ads, and you'll get a bit of a "spider sense" for when something isn't right. With regards to Spas, the next time I show up and the provider in the ad is the one that answers the door will be the first time, but I digress. IN GENERAL, if the ad shows pleasant looking girls headshots=rub and tug. Lingerie=probably rub and tug. Sexy, barely dressed or censored nudity=most likely extras available.
- Visit AMPReviews, usasexguide, BestGFE every day. I'm on all 3, and between the reviews and the forums, this site is the best, with usasexguide a solid second. BestGFE doesn't get a lot of traffic these days, sadly. Stopping by each day for a few minutes means you're always caught up with the reviews. It will also put in the back of your mind who is good and who is bad, so when you're scrolling ads and thinking with the little head, you've again got a little voice in the back of your big head telling you that while she looks good, there are a TON of bad reviews. No reviews isn't necessarily a bad thing. People tend to review when they feel they've been treated exceptionally, or poorly. In between, in that area where you feel like you got what you paid for, there isn't a lot of motivation to sit down and write. We're all guilty of this... it's human nature, whether it's providers, restaurants, video games, whatever. Good reviews and bad reviews are because someone felt the experience was worth their time to inform others about. Pay attention
- Look at ads critically. There is a provider that has threads here that uses the words "attention to detail" in her heading, but in her main profile photo, there is trash on the floor in the background. I'm not saying she has to have the houskeeping skills of a 50's housewife, but don't advertise your attention to detail while paying no attention to detail. Also look at the pics. Are they out of focus? weird angles? It's 2022. Every phone on the planet has the capability to take an award-winning picture in the right hands. If she can't manage a half decent in focus pic, or it's got the resolution of an AOL Instant Messenger profile pic from 1994, there is a reason. I visited a girl a few years ago who posted close ups of her face (from that high angle to hide the chins) and her tits. When I got there to see her, her body was an absolute train wreck. We all have our likes and dislikes. If you're 5'10 and 250lbs, someone is into that. If she's trying to fool you in her ad, don't expect her to magically transform to a willing, eager provider when she see the wad of bills in your hand. If anything, it will be the opposite. Bottom line: If she's hiding something in the pics, it's because she's hiding something. Also, if EVERY picture has some stupid snap chat filter on it, move on. Trust me.
- When I contact a provider, I do so a bit before I'm ready to see her. So if I'm going to be in her area at 4pm, I'll text her around noon. I am very clear about this... don't be a dick and tell her you are ready right now when you are not. But texting "are you available around 5?" gets the conversation started, and you will at least get a feel for if she is organized and answers texts (in general a VERY good sign) or scatter brained and couldn't be bothered. This one isn't 100%... she may not answer because she is busy with a client, or isn't working during the hours you texted, but if she's shitty to you, you know to move on. If she's accomodating and talkative, I usually make an appointment for the later time (AND KEEP IT. If enough people dick them around, they will stop engaging these types of texts. Don't waste their time.) When you contact an AMP, it's the opposite... be ready to go NOW, especially if you want to make an appointment with a specific provider.
- WRITE REVIEWS. It's the purpose of the site, after all. You will build clout in the community, so people will be more willing to answer your questions, and you'll also be able to read the private details in other people's reviews. Not only that, but the more reviews there are, the more the people who don't review will be willing the pay to read our reviews, and in the long run, the site will be better for us AND the owners. I don't know if they care if the site breaks even or profits, but they definitely care that it's at least paying for itself and their time. If you like the site, support it one way or another or there will come a day when it's gone.