once you start hanging out, she may change her mind or not, if you really like her, and you are easy going, you may want to give it a shot by hanging out a couple of times, after a couple times hanging out, you may mention than , that things may not work out unless you are getting more than hanging out, you may want to give yourself a limit, let's say after hanging out a certain amount, to be fair lot of men that hang out at strip clubs, are already paying money for just hanging out at strip clubs .just put a limit how much money and or time you are willing to spend or Better call it gamble. you may also wanna try to start asking for just a mutual message