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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

nycballetlover

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I've been texting a stripper I met in NYC (chinese, early 20s) and she said she would meet outside for "an allowance" but she "doesn't do sex" but happy to "hang out". I was quite explicit when we were at the stripclub talking about sex bit even then, is she a waste of my time saying that up front?
Depends. You can say she's saving you time by telling you up front . However, some of the more experienced SDs will tell you that many, if not most platonic only girls can be converted. It depends on your investment of time, money and patience!!
 

david77

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once you start hanging out, she may change her mind or not, if you really like her, and you are easy going, you may want to give it a shot by hanging out a couple of times, after a couple times hanging out, you may mention than , that things may not work out unless you are getting more than hanging out, you may want to give yourself a limit, let's say after hanging out a certain amount, to be fair lot of men that hang out at strip clubs, are already paying money for just hanging out at strip clubs .just put a limit how much money and or time you are willing to spend or Better call it gamble. you may also wanna try to start asking for just a mutual message
 

AutomaticSlim

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once you start hanging out, she may change her mind or not, if you really like her, and you are easy going, you may want to give it a shot by hanging out a couple of times, after a couple times hanging out, you may mention than , that things may not work out unless you are getting more than hanging out, you may want to give yourself a limit, let's say after hanging out a certain amount, to be fair lot of men that hang out at strip clubs, are already paying money for just hanging out at strip clubs .just put a limit how much money and or time you are willing to spend or Better call it gamble. you may also wanna try to start asking for just a mutual message
Waaaaay too much work...
 

Dc46

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I've been texting a stripper I met in NYC (chinese, early 20s) and she said she would meet outside for "an allowance" but she "doesn't do sex" but happy to "hang out". I was quite explicit when we were at the stripclub talking about sex bit even then, is she a waste of my time saying that up front?
She is a waste of time. She does extras at the club, but won’t have sex with you outside the club?
 

deepstate

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I have had young strippers come home with me because my friends lied and told them I was the boss and was the Uber rich buy (total lie). We would always blow sunshine up each other’s butts... so the girls would service you on the promise of generosity. I think you got it backwards Gale.
 

Chato

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I've been texting a stripper I met in NYC (chinese, early 20s) and she said she would meet outside for "an allowance" but she "doesn't do sex" but happy to "hang out". I was quite explicit when we were at the stripclub talking about sex bit even then, is she a waste of my time saying that up front?
Without a doubt
 

wil1985

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on SA, from start to first date. how much time should I expect to commit to find a real arrangement?
My first week experiences: it gets weird when its time to discuss business. Have only convince one girl (not super interested in) to send a confirmation picture.
I dont feel comfortable giving out my Whatsapp (#) and want to do email but they dont like that
 

Anonajohn

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I'd suspect the girls who are in it for more of a long term situation with one SD are not going to get into the allowance discussion until they find some chemistry with a guy they genuinely like, while girls who are more like escorts, pay per meet and one and done, are going to talk business sooner.
 

Uniquelyme

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on SA, from start to first date. how much time should I expect to commit to find a real arrangement?
My first week experiences: it gets weird when its time to discuss business. Have only convince one girl (not super interested in) to send a confirmation picture.
I dont feel comfortable giving out my Whatsapp (#) and want to do email but they dont like that
Don't do the confirmation picture. Talk normal real quick then move things off line. Use burner or app. If need be use Kik to do FaceTime.

Go for what you like there are pros on there and regular girls, gnd types and scammers.

Be mindful and use common sense and some humor, wit and confidence..... Go get em.
 

Desiguy

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So I'm guessing the "let them mention money first" approach clearly invites an unrealistic ask. What are some effective techniques to work her into something sub-$300 ppm without seeming cheap and making it feel like haggling or offending her with something much lower than the original ask? I haven't been on SA in a while but interested from a strategy/tactics perspective.
 

Walpack

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So I'm guessing the "let them mention money first" approach clearly invites an unrealistic ask. What are some effective techniques to work her into something sub-$300 ppm without seeming cheap and making it feel like haggling or offending her with something much lower than the original ask? I haven't been on SA in a while but interested from a strategy/tactics perspective.
I hold fast to offering 200 or 250. Some ask for more, so I politely tell them that's my limit. There are various factors that also affect pice. Location, age, looks, are some.
 

VJLUTZ

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@Desiguy - The first thing they teach you in negotiation seminars is to let the other party name their price first. Why? Because information is power.

If they give an unreasonable number then just say something like: "That's out of my range. It's too bad though. I really find you attractive and we seem compatible...." In other words, butter her up a bit. At that point, they usually lower their price. Even if they appear to not be interested, its possible they will get back to you with a counter offer in anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours. Or you can counter then and there. She may be testing you too. All they can do is say no. You also may want to say something like "Rome wasn't built in a day" - meaning that you might be more generous in the future if there is genuine chemistry between you two. The important thing is to seem like a nice, affable guy; not a cheapo.

You may also want to take other factor into account, like can they host. If they can, that is a big savings in hotel costs right there. Location is a factor too.

Ironically, some of the women who are least willing to negotiate are often the most marginal. Go figure.
 

Andwedoit

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My best success has been the just out of college ages. I tend to play when I am on the road for work. so having a nice room helps. Not having to explain to a GND type that I'm taking her to a shitty fleabag motel puts you in a better position. I find it hard to play in Manhattan as either pricing is high or hotel makes it prohibitive. Contacting them is a numbers game as previously said. I prefer a meeting over drinks/dinner so some back and forth is necessary to see if that's a fit. I'm never in their face about sex. If we have a good dialogue going I ask if we're feeling comfortable with each other would she be fine with something more intimate in my room. I've averaged about $300 per meet but that's out of NYC.
How do you protect privacy in a motel booking - most need ID
 

Chuck One

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How do you protect privacy in a motel booking - most need ID
I'm not the guy to ask about this. If you;re afraid your wife will get you...... she probably planted a ship in your backpack. If you're paranoid about the chick,,,,,,,,, she probably marked you already ( as i have done 75% of the time with them)
 

Gale Erso

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OK so I found out why my stripper wants an allowance just for dinner because some rich dude paid her 700 just to go out for dinner and asked for nothing else. I told her to let me know in 6 months if she's still getting dudes that will pay 700 to have food with you...she eventually dropped her ask to 500 then 400 because she thinks I'm handsome and enjoys my company (we've met a few times at a strip club and I usually get 6-7 dances from her)...400 I think to be honest is not bad but don't think she'll do sex on the first meet. She's 26, looks younger and fairly hot, 7/10, cute. What do you guys think?
 
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