My best success has been the just out of college ages. I tend to play when I am on the road for work. so having a nice room helps. Not having to explain to a GND type that I'm taking her to a shitty fleabag motel puts you in a better position. I find it hard to play in Manhattan as either pricing is high or hotel makes it prohibitive. Contacting them is a numbers game as previously said. I prefer a meeting over drinks/dinner so some back and forth is necessary to see if that's a fit. I'm never in their face about sex. If we have a good dialogue going I ask if we're feeling comfortable with each other would she be fine with something more intimate in my room. I've averaged about $300 per meet but that's out of NYC.
The big difference for me is that this is multi-hour MSOG vs providers. Probably the best in NYC right now is AL. For $70 more, I’m banging early 20s hot chicks that haven’t banged 20 dudes already that day.